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The mimosas are flowing, and the opinions are STRONG! This week, Amanda and Xtina dive headfirst into the phenomenon that is Black women's brunch culture. Is it a necessary sisterhood ritual, or an expensive social media performance? We unpack the good, the glamorous, and the unspoken rules of those weekend meetups.

Next, we get real about friendship maintenance and the silent killer: jealousy. We share personal stories and advice on how to keep your friendships healthy when life—or a major 'glow up'—starts to create distance.

Finally, we dissect the latest viral controversy surrounding Ayesha Curry and her comments about marriage and not receiving "male attention." Was she being honest and vulnerable, or was the internet right to call her out? Tune in for a smart, salty, and totally necessary conversation!

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Dive into the conversation everyone is talking about! This week, we break down the explosive interview between Cam Newton and Jason Wilson, "The Comprehensive Man."

We dissect the most compelling moments, including Cam's raw admission that his "fear of divorce is greater than his desire to get married," and Wilson's powerful, fatherly pushback on issues of faith, manhood, and vulnerability.

We're exploring the core themes: the pressure on successful men, the fear and inadequacy that stops many men from pursuing marriage, the concept of the woman as a "shield and support," and why true strength requires men to embrace tenderness alongside toughness. This is more than just a reaction—it's a deep dive into the kind of honest dialogue about masculinity that's needed today

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Ready for a dose of pop culture, relationship woes, and cautionary tales? This week, we're getting into the complicated world of emotionally unavailable men and why they're so hard to quit. We also take a trip down memory lane and reminisce about our favorite 90s TV shows, we're talking about the ones that defined a generation.
Then, we debate a fashion quandary: is that ultra-risqué outfit best worn on a night out with your partner or with your friends? Finally, we wrap things up with a public service announcement about the growing number of Cash App scammers. Enjoy

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Melanin & Cocktails is officially back! After a much-needed hiatus, we're kicking off our return with a bang. This week, we dive deep into the recent controversy surrounding R&B legend Kelly Price and her viral comments about Black women. Was she out of line, or did she have a point? We unpack the internet's explosive reaction and the broader conversation it sparked.

Plus, we get into the often-murky world of giving relationship advice on a public platform. When does "just my opinion" become a harmful suggestion? We discuss why disclaimers are a necessity and the importance of professional counsel over casual conversation. Tune in as we dissect these hot topics and remind ourselves that even the best intentions can have unintended consequences.

Don't call it a come back! Secrets and Xtina reunite and share their Vegas experiences and the importance of loyalty to yourself first, when dealing with friends.

The ladies discuss Men and all their glory or lack thereof and friendships. Is it good to break up with a friend or acquaintance because they and your "friend" or friend break up? Secrets gets vulnerable about her relationship situationship with New York trash. Listen in,

Porsha Williams blew up the Internet after she posted a photo showing her cuddling up with “The Real Housewives of Atlanta” co-star Falynn’s ex-husband, confirming that the two were in love after only 30 days. And then there was that ring. Tell us: Real love or made-for-TV love? Xtina and Secrets share their celebrity crushes. Also is the term "What do you bring to the table?" one for men to ask a woman? An Can you always be your authentic self?

SO you want to hike? Hit our Dm and Secrets will hook you up with some great locations. We discuss celebrity crushes, the difference between Compost and Trash ®, discounting peoples support and Justin Timberlake debate. Also Peleton we see you ho.

In this episode as we say goodbye to a host, discuss Normalizing Black Love, True Friendship and Farewell to a legend our DMX!
We say hello to new beginnings! Melanin & Cocktails will continue serving up cocktails, special guests and relatable conversations. 

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