The fabulously intersectional Mellem joins me to talk bi/pan, non-binary, neurodiverse including autism and the new Spectrum Neurodiversity group  - best means of contact for more info is  [email protected]."I'm not alone...I didn't have to explain myself any more; I didn't have..all of these questions. I just felt like I'd arrived home because I didn't have to prove myself and it's such a big thing because you should never have to prove who you are to anyone; it's innate you are who are and nobody else can define that. It's like trying to put a cat in a box; you can't put a cat in a box but if you put a box cat will climb in it because that's what you do; and that's what I like with labels and why there's so many different labels and you don't have to box anyone but if you..offer them many different labels people often find their own."