Would people describe you as gentle? Whether man or woman, the Apostle Paul instructs us to let our gentleness be evident to all because the LORD is near, Philippians 4:5. Especially in circumstances when it is not warranted, like in situations with "enemies". The LORD tells us to bless our enemies, and in so doing, this will heap burning coals on their head. So meditate on the gentleness the LORD calls us to in this time of breath prayer and silence. Blessings in His presence!