Desire is more than just wanting something—it’s a mirror for how we live, love, and create.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Melody Lubin—a mentor of feminine arts and embodiment—for a deep dive into desire, capacity, and sexuality.

We explore:
🌹 The subtle layers of wanting—and why most men miss them
💡 How fear of not getting what we want keeps us playing small
🛠️ The responsibility that comes with truly owning our desires
🛏️ Why your desire in the bedroom reflects your potency in life
⚡ The difference between being a conscious creator… and a sleepy bystander

I share my own personal exploration of desire, my weak spots, and the insights that came from facing them. This conversation is about much more than sex—it’s about waking up to the creative force that runs through every part of life.

🎧 Listen now and discover how desire can become your most potent teacher—in and out of the bedroom.

More from Melody Lubin:
📲 Instagram: @melodylubin
🌐 Website: www.melodylubin.com

For centuries, sex was seen as sacred.
Not sinful. Not shameful. Not shallow.
But somewhere along the way—we lost that connection.

In Episode 50 of Men and Sex, I sit down with Hannah Haazal—a sacred sexuality educator, ritual artist, intimacy coach, herbalist, and death doula—whose work is about restoring the holy power of erotic energy and helping men become deeply embodied, present lovers.

We explore:
🌬️ How most men have been living (and having sex) from the neck up
🌹 The ancient world of temple arts and ritual erotic practice
🕯️ Why sex has always been sacred—and how it was distorted into something sinful
💀 The role of ceremony, ritual, and even death as initiations into deeper aliveness
💓 How to move from shallow sex into full-bodied intimacy
🔥 The courage it takes to feel again—and reclaim your vitality

This conversation is for any man who knows there’s more to sex than friction and release—
And who’s ready to step into a new relationship with his body, his heart, and the sacred fire of his sexuality.

🎧 Listen now and return to what was never meant to be lost.

Explore More from Hannah:
🌐 The Temple of Sacred Arts
💫 Sacred Eros Profile & Offerings
🔮 Witch Eye Awakened

Sex isn’t just physical.
It’s spiritual. Subtle. Mystical.

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Jessica Bird—a powerful speaker, intuitive healer, and erotic channel—to explore the deeper truths of erotic energy and what it means to return to our erotic innocence.

We dive into:
🌬️ The subtle, sacred nature of sex—and how to become attuned to its presence in all of life
💓 What it means to be a heart-centered erotic man in today’s world
🌿 How sexual energy exists all around us—in nature, in creativity, in our breath
🧘🏽‍♀️ Jessica’s journey of discovering that her intuition was most powerful when rooted in eroticism
💡 The freedom that comes when we shed inherited shame and limiting beliefs about sex
💌 The potency of dating yourself, romancing your own being, and deepening your connection to source through pleasure

This episode is an invitation to slow down, open up, and remember that your erotic energy is not something to fix or hide—it’s something to honor, listen to, and live from.

🎧 Listen now and rediscover sex as a path to wholeness, reverence, and real power.

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More from Jessic Bird -

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/itsjessicabird/

Website - https://www.jessicabird.co/

This episode is a doozy—and one of the most eye-opening conversations I’ve had on Men and Sex.

I sat down with a deeply informed anonymous guest, a man who has dedicated himself to understanding the full impact of circumcision—physically, emotionally, sexually, and culturally. And he came ready to share what most people never hear.

We dive into:
🔍 Why do we circumcise? Religious tradition, cultural habits, and outdated medical myths
📉 The truth behind the so-called “health benefits”—and why countries like the U.S. circumcise 80% of boys while Europe is under 20%
💔 What we actually lose in the process: sensitivity, function, and trust in our own bodies
💥 How circumcision is tied to erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and delayed ejaculation
🧬 What is keratinization and meiosis—and how they affect your pleasure
🔄 Real steps men can take toward foreskin restoration—yes, it's a thing, and it’s been around for decades
💸 The billion-dollar industry behind it all—from the selling of foreskin to the explosion of lube and ED meds

We also ask:
❗ Why is this not called male genital mutilation—while the same practice in other cultures is?
❗ Why are men so unaware of the lingering impacts of this one early trauma?

If you're a man who’s ever wondered why your sexuality feels off, limited, or numbed—this episode could be the missing piece.

🎧 Listen now—and prepare to rethink everything you thought you knew about your body.

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Resources Mentioned:🧰 Mantor DS – Direct Stretch Device – The personal device I’m using for foreskin restoration, designed for dual tension📘 Beginner’s Guide to Foreskin Restoration – A practical and detailed overview for men exploring restoration

🎭 ⁠Eric Clopper’s One-Man Show – Sex & Circumcision: An American Love Story⁠ – A bold, brilliant 2-hour performance at Harvard that exposes the cultural, scientific, and political truths around circumcision

🔹 ⁠Intact America⁠ – Education and advocacy working to end routine infant circumcision in the U.S.🔹 ⁠Intact Global⁠ – Legal action and men’s rights defense, actively challenging circumcision through the courts (highly recommended)

If you are a heterosexual Male that wants deeper intimacy, better sex, and more embodied connection in your relationships—this episode is for you.

I sat down with Ashley Jones, a gifted love, intimacy, and embodiment coach who works with women, couples, and men to rewire the way we relate—inside and outside the bedroom.

Together, we explored:
💡 What’s actually required to create a deeply nourishing dynamic between a man and a woman
💦 How understanding a woman’s pleasure changes everything—emotionally and physically
🧘🏽‍♀️ Why many women struggle to fully receive pleasure due to unresolved insecurities and shame
🔄 The importance of receiving feedback from your partner without collapsing into “bad boy” self-judgment
💓 How the cervix connects to the vagus nerve—and why true feminine surrender requires emotional safety and presence
And we challenged the myths that keep so many people feeling stuck in performative or disconnected sex.

Want more fulfillment in the bedroom?
It starts with presence, communication, and the courage to actually learn what brings your partner—and yourself—into full-body “yes.”

🎧 Listen now and open the door to more nourishing, real-deal intimacy.

More from Ashley Jones:
💥 Men’s Sexual Mastery – A deep dive into understanding pleasure and embodiment:
👉 uplevellove.kartra.com/page/menssexualmastery

🌹 Reclamation – A powerful program for women reclaiming their sexuality and feminine essence:
👉 uplevellove.kartra.com/page/reclamation

💞 Intimacy Upgrade – Explore tools and practices to strengthen connection and communication:
👉 uplevellove.com/intimacy-upgrade

In this potent episode I sit down with Tyson Adams—a leading expert in porn addiction and semen retention—to explore one of the most urgent issues men are facing today.

We talk about:
📺 How porn has rewired our brains to crave novelty and disconnect from real intimacy. We've been trained to "bond" with screens
🤖 The rise of AI influencers and why more men are falling in love with digital women
💸 Why this conditioning is making us more likely to give our money—and our attention—to robots
🧠 The mental health fallout: ED, depression, loneliness, and even suicide

This episode takes us beyond porn.
It’s about what’s coming next—and what men can do now to stay human, whole, and awake in a world that’s becoming more synthetic by the day.

🎧 Listen now to hear the truth about where this is going—and how to take your power back.

More from Tyson -

Instagram - @tysonadams__

Working with Tyson - https://www.thriive.life/lifeforce

Most men were never taught how to touch themselves with intention.
They use masturbation to release pressure—not to build power.

In this live training, Victoria Angel Heart and I guide you through a whole new approach to self-pleasure: one that expands your nervous system, sharpens your focus, and strengthens your capacity to hold more sensation, emotion, and energy.

We cover:
🛑 Why most masturbation patterns are based in anxiety, shame, and quick escape
🛠️ 5 powerful tools—breath, sound, movement, intention, and awareness/touch—to rewire how you relate to arousal
🧘🏽‍♂️ How to use edging as a training ground for presence, stamina, and creative power
💥 The difference between masturbating to cope… and masturbating to grow

If you’re tired of feeling drained, stuck in habits that don’t serve you, or disconnected from your own body—this episode will shift the way you touch yourself forever.

This is about using pleasure to build strength—not just to survive.
🎧 Listen now and start training your nervous system for more power, more clarity, and more choice.

Purchase the V.A.H. audio - https://buy.stripe.com/4gM14n6lSeXxeWv2IX9MY0h

Purchase the package of all 3 audios - https://buy.stripe.com/6oUaEX5hO8z915FdnB9MY0i

Let’s be real:
A lot of the talk around semen retention is rooted in shame-based marketing.

Buy this course. Follow this guru. Stop ejaculating or you’re wasting your life force. Don't be a weak beta male.
Sound familiar?

In this episode of Men and Sex, I sit down with Cam Fraser—a certified sex coach, sexologist, and men's work facilitator who brings real depth, skill, and compassion to this conversation.

We dive into:
🔍 How semen retention is often preached from a place of shame—not empowerment
🧠 Why negation-based thinking (“don’t do this”) doesn’t work for the brain
💦 Reframing semen retention around reverence, not repression
🌱 Why curiosity about your body beats trying to follow a one-size-fits-all standard
📊 The danger of clinging too tightly to studies instead of tuning into your unique body and energy

Cam has helped hundreds of men untangle their sexuality from guilt, pressure, and confusion—and this conversation is a breath of fresh air for anyone tired of rigid, performative teachings.

🎧 Listen now to reclaim your relationship with your body, your pleasure, and your power.

Follow Cam Fraser:
📲 Instagram: @thecamfraser
🌐 Website: https://cam-fraser.com/

Tapping Into Trust: Healing Performance Anxiety with Victoria Angel Heart 🧠💥🫀

This episode is action-packed and full of tools every man needs. I’m joined by Victoria Angel Heart, an incredible guide in nervous system regulation, emotional healing, and embodiment.

We dive deep into:
👐 EFT tapping as a practical tool for reducing performance anxiety and calming the body
💔 How many men have unknowingly broken trust with their own bodies—and what it takes to rebuild it
🧘‍♂️ Why mindful masturbation is key to reconnecting with sensation, pleasure, and presence
🔊 The importance of making noise, opening the vocal channel, and honoring the body’s boundaries
🚫 Learning to recognize when the body is giving a “no”—and how to respect it

This episode isn’t just talk—it’s transformation.
Victoria closes the conversation with a powerful 15-minute EFT tapping session specifically for performance anxiety that you can come back to anytime.

🎧 If you’re dealing with ED, PE, anxiety, or simply want to trust your body again—this is a must-listen.

Want to focus on up-leveling as a man? Start by looking at your sex life.
Inside the Men Rising community, you’ll get access to powerful tools, practices, and coaching to transform your relationship with sex, power, and presence.

✔️ Want to feel more confident when you look in the mirror? — Get direct weekly coaching.
✔️ Want to increase your stamina and lasting power? — Join live events with guided practices.
✔️ Want to stop hiding and start healing? — Tap into real conversations and real brotherhood.
✔️ Want to master your energy, pleasure, and purpose? — Dive into exclusive trainings and guest sessions.

This is where men rise — sexually, emotionally, and in every area of life.
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More of Victoria Angel Heart Heart ♥️

Instagram: @victoria.angel.heart

Spotify music: https://open.spotify.com/artist/4pNTeoeP0F3ug7DbRa30bz?si=alhNg3kyTi6qc6MBcDJVGw

Website: http://www.tapintofreedom.love/

“I am the POWER.”
These words have become a daily mantra for me since meeting Kevin Walton, aka Source Radiance.

Kevin is one of the most energized, creative, and aligned men I’ve ever encountered—a true embodiment of activated masculine presence.

In this episode, we dive deep into:
🧱 Facing guilt and shame as the gateway to reclaiming personal power
🔥 The razor-thin line between healthy desire and unconscious craving
🧘🏽‍♂️ How to walk in full ownership of your energy without becoming consumed by it

This conversation is potent. Raw. Expansive.
If you're ready to step into your power with clarity, responsibility, and purpose—this one’s for you.

🎧 Listen now and awaken the fire that’s already inside you.

Want to focus on up-leveling as a man? Start by looking at your sex life.
Inside the Men Rising community, you’ll get access to powerful tools, practices, and coaching to transform your relationship with sex, power, and presence.

✔️ Want to feel more confident when you look in the mirror? — Get direct weekly coaching.
✔️ Want to increase your stamina and lasting power? — Join live events with guided practices.
✔️ Want to stop hiding and start healing? — Tap into real conversations and real brotherhood.
✔️ Want to master your energy, pleasure, and purpose? — Dive into exclusive trainings and guest sessions.

This is where men rise — sexually, emotionally, and in every area of life.
👉 Join the Men Rising Community

Follow Kevin Walton / Source Radiance:
🌐 Website: https://unlimitedcreativepotential.com/aboutkevin/
📲 Instagram: @source.radiance