In this episode I chat with Robert Kandell about his book unHIDDEN. We dive deep into why men hide and how shame and external validation make it challenging for men to find peace within themselves. We also chat on the subject of porn and how we are loosing our ability to be physically intimate and turned on by our partners. Robert also talks about the importance of strong communication skills in relationships and how to make your partner feel safe to open up. Please listen all the way to the end of the podcast as Robert will share 3 points on how to come clean if you are hiding anything from your partner. Robert Kandell is an interpersonal communication expert, speaker, podcaster and the author of the bestselling book, unHIDDEN: A Book for Men and Those Confused by Them. Since 2002, Robert’s mission has been to help people find themselves and use their internal power to live their best lives. He has helped thousands of students up-level their communication, leading them to live more balanced, energized, connected and purposeful lives. Website: https://www.robertkandell.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/kandellconsulting / https://www.facebook.com/robert.kandellTwitter: https://twitter.com/Robertkandell @Robertkandell Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ @robert.kandell Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/robertkandell/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/robertkandell/pins/Skype: Rbk_ot