Let’s get real: it’s not always the dramatic call that wrecks you, it’s the slow drip of cumulative trauma. The shift fatigue. The emotional load you bring home but never unpack.

This week’s Mental Firepower Monday is about interrupting that pattern and starting your week with clarity. Erin walks you through a simple but powerful practice to help first responders release what they’re carrying and reset the nervous system before it hijacks everything else.

If you’re feeling mentally overloaded, snappy, numb, or distant, this episode is your 5-minute invitation to pause, reset, and breathe.

MENTAL FIREPOWER:

The 5-Minute Debrief + 4-7-8 Reset

1. Ask: What am I carrying right now that’s not mine to hold?
2. Let it go: Write it, burn it, trash it—just don’t stuff it.
3. Breathe it out: Inhale 4 / Hold 7 / Exhale 8 — repeat x5

This is first responder stress management in its simplest form. A tactical way to process the emotional debris before it turns into burnout, detachment, or outbursts at home.

KEY TAKEAWAYS:

• Cumulative trauma is real and often quiet
• Vicarious trauma affects your family even when you’re silent
• You can protect your mental health without oversharing the trauma
• Reentry rituals (like “Who do you need me to be tonight?”) build emotional safety at home
• Start your morning with nervous system regulation not just caffeine and chaos

👥 WHO THIS IS FOR:

• First responders who stopped talking at home a long time ago
• Spouses who want to be part of the solution, not the shutdown
• Peer supporters looking for actionable mindset tools
• Anyone trying to lead while carrying too much behind the scenes

🎧 RESOURCE SPOTLIGHT:

Looking for other voices in this space? Check out:

• Operation Yellow Tape – Kenny Mitchell
• Tell This Story – Doug White
• Blue Grit Radio – Eric Tung

These are leaders speaking into real recovery, post-traumatic growth, and what comes after survival.

COMING THURSDAY:

Erin sits down with AK Dozanti, bestselling author of Beat the Burnout, to talk about adrenal fatigue, emotional crash landings, and how burnout shows up in your relationship, even when you're trying to hide it.

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Because this isn’t just about the job. It’s about staying human in the middle of it.

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