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Feeling stuck and unmotivated? In this video, Dr. Cristi Bundukamara shares how past, present, and future thinking shape your ability to change behavior—and why releasing the past is essential for stepping into a more purposeful future.

You’ll learn:

Why external motivation often fails

How to shift into positive, future-focused thinking

The key to finding self-motivation that actually lasts

How the Mentally STRONG Method helps you align decisions with what you truly want

If you’re tired of starting over, this is where your real transformation begins.

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You’ve heard it a million times: “Just believe in yourself!”
But no one tells you how.

In this video, I’m breaking down a real-world guide to building self-belief — not through hype or empty affirmations — but through self-esteem and self-agency.

→ If you’ve ever struggled with confidence, second-guessed every decision, or felt stuck waiting to “feel ready,” this video is for you.

This isn’t about perfection. It’s about practice.

0:00:04 - The Skill of Self-Esteem
0:00:19 - Self-Esteem vs. Self-Agency
0:00:36 - My Personal Journey Through Loss
0:01:16 - What is Believing in Yourself?
0:02:30 - The Development of Self-Esteem
0:03:29 - Beyond Positive Affirmations
0:04:22 - The Uniqueness of Our Inner World
0:04:51 - If You're Still Watching...
0:05:27 - The Mentally Strong Method
0:05:58 - The Power of Self-Agency
0:06:13 - When Life Knocks You Down
0:07:46 - Self-Esteem vs. Self-Agency: A Deeper Look
0:08:14 - The Spiritual Aspect of Self-Agency
0:09:49 - Finding Your Own Words and Power
1:11:25 - Building Self-Esteem and Self-Agency Together
1:12:30 - Listener Question: Imposter Syndrome
1:14:18 - Listener Question: Pain and Confidence
1:16:08 - Listener Question: Manifestation and Bad Things Happening
1:19:22 - Sitting with Pain: Grief vs. Trauma
1:19:44 - A Reminder to Believe in Yourself

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Everyone wants to be mentally strong… but most people go about it the wrong way.

In this video, I reveal the real secret to becoming mentally strong — and it’s not about suppressing your emotions or pretending to “have it all together.” Mental strength is built through intentional thought, radical self-honesty, and the daily practice of choosing growth over avoidance.

I’ll walk you through how to:

Understand what true mental strength actually looks like

Reframe your pain into purpose

Break through the emotional patterns holding you back

Use the Mentally STRONG Method to take control of your thoughts, behaviors, and emotional reactions

This is more than mindset — this is your roadmap to long-term resilience, confidence, and clarity.

If you’re ready to stop coping and start building, this video is your first step.

👇 Drop a comment and let me know what part hit home for you — I’d love to hear your story.

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Grief Intensive
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You’re strong. You’re successful. You’ve held it together for everyone else. But if you’re honest… this isn’t the life you imagined.

In this Episode, I speak directly to the high-achieving, resilient woman who has experienced heartbreak, unexpected loss, or quiet disappointment—and is still showing up every day. You don’t need another motivational pep talk. You need purpose, clarity, and emotional strength that lasts.

✅ In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why it’s okay to grieve the life you thought you’d have

What purpose really looks like in real life (not on a vision board)

How to rebuild from a place of intention, not exhaustion

This message is for the woman who’s smart, spiritual, and silently struggling. You’re not lost. You’re being realigned.

#PersonalGrowth #Empowerment #MentalHealthMatters #CristiBundukamara #PainandPurpose #MentalStrength #mentallystrong 

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Losing a child is a crippling and unimaginable pain—one that shakes your ENTIRE world and belief system. In this Episode, I share my raw and personal journey through grief, the difference between grief and trauma, why it's important to separate the two and what truly helped me keep going after loss. If you're struggling to process your own grief or searching for a way forward, you are not alone.

You can also watch the unfiltered footage of my early days after losing my third child—where grief was at its rawest. And if you're ready for deeper support, I invite you to join my Grief Intensive course, where I walk alongside you through the hardest parts of this journey.

➡️ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLhbzZf3gqt8BzW6rJOr9cyRPtfiZ6v-LY
➡️ http://mentallystrong.com/start-your-grief-journey/

Grief is overwhelming, but you don’t have to go through it alone.

#PersonalGrowth #Empowerment #MentalHealthMatters #CristiBundukamara #PainandPurpose #MentalStrength #mentallystrong 

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Grief Intensive
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Feeling exhausted, sleepless, or having no appetite? This video focuses on the most common physical symptoms of grief, offering practical tips and self-care strategies to help you cope.


#Empowerment #MentalHealthMatters #CristiBundukamara #PainandPurpose #MentalStrength #mentallystrong 

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Grief Intensive
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Grief isn't just emotional; it takes a physical toll. This video explores the surprising ways grief can manifest in your body, from fatigue and sleep problems to appetite changes and more. We'll discuss the mind-body connection and offer tips for coping.

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Grief Intensive
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If you've ever felt like pain has no purpose, like suffering is just a random part of life, I want you to know you're not alone. I've lost three children and my husband, and I know what it feels like to search for meaning in the midst of heartbreak. But I've also learned that even in the deepest pain, we can find our purpose.

In this episode, I share my story and how I found purpose after unimaginable loss. It's not about minimizing your pain, but about empowering you to find your own meaning.

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Introduction: Finding Joy After Loss
0:32 - Grit and Resilience: My Story
02:26 - My Son Reggie: Finding Purpose in His Life and Death
05:30 - Expanding Through Brokenness
07:01 - My Son Johnny: Bringing His Sisters to Us
08:21 - My Daughter Miah: Love and Spiritual Connection
11:44 - Purpose is at the End of the Journey
13:16 - My Reason for Sharing
14:02 - Turning Your Pain into Purpose

If you're looking for hope, healing, and a path forward, I hope my story encourages you. If you'd like to learn more about my journey and how I can help you find your purpose, check out the links below.

Don't forget to subscribe for more videos on grief, loss, and finding strength in difficult times. I'd also love to hear your story in the comments – let's build a community of support and healing.
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You ever get that weird, anxious feeling when someone you love leaves? Maybe your partner goes on a trip, or a friend doesn’t text back fast enough, and suddenly your brain is spiraling! 

What if they’re pulling away? What if I can’t handle being alone?

That’s separation anxiety, and yeah, it’s not just a kid thing. Adults deal with it too, sometimes in ways we don’t even realize.

In this podcast, we’re breaking down what separation anxiety really is, X signs you might have it, and how to start managing it so it doesn’t take over. Let’s get into it.

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Are you wrestling with overwhelming pain and a persistent voice telling you it's your fault? In this powerful episode of The Mentally Strong Podcast, Dr. B, a psychiatric nurse practitioner who has navigated unimaginable loss, offers a deeply empathetic and practical approach to healing. She understands the pervasive self-blame that can accompany tragedy, having personally experienced the loss of three children and her husband.

Dr. B challenges the conventional narrative of grief and introduces her "Mentally Strong Method," a framework designed to help you organize the chaos of negative self-talk, process trauma, and embark on a profound spiritual journey. This isn't about simply "getting over it"; it's about acknowledging your pain, separating it from self-blame, and growing around your grief to find contentment and peace.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why "It's Not Your Fault" is more than just a saying: Dr. B shares her raw, personal stories of loss, illustrating how even with perceived contributions to an outcome, the ultimate responsibility for tragedy is often not yours.
• The flawed concept of the "5 Stages of Grief": Learn why this traditional model doesn't apply to complex pain and how to move beyond it.
• Understanding Trauma beyond the obvious: Discover Dr. B's definition of trauma as anything that changes your perception of reality, and how to identify and address its impact on your healing.
• The power of a spiritual journey in healing: Explore how connecting with a spiritual context can transform your experience of pain and lead to profound growth.
• Practical steps for managing negative self-talk: Learn how to rate your belief in negative thoughts and begin to gently dismantle them.
• When to seek professional help: Crucial advice for recognizing the signs that your pain is heavier than you can manage alone.

If you're ready to quiet the voice of self-blame and begin your journey toward lasting healing and contentment, this episode is a must-listen.

Topic Highlights:

• Overcoming Self-Blame in Grief
• The Mentally Strong Method
• Redefining Trauma & Its Impact
• Spiritual Healing & Loss
• Challenging Negative Self-Talk
• Beyond the 5 Stages of Grief
• Finding Peace After Profound Loss
• When to Seek Professional Support

Don't miss out on this transformative conversation. Listen now and take the first step towards deserving to heal.

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