In this heartfelt kickoff episode of Merle’s Pearls of Wisdom, Merle M. Singer — The Relationship Miracle Worker — reminds us of one simple but powerful truth: every relationship begins with you.

Drawing from her 57 years of marriage, personal growth after loss, and decades of helping women transform their relationships, Merle shares how true happiness isn’t something another person can give you — it’s something you choose, nurture, and grow from within.

Listeners will learn:
💎 Why happiness is an inside job💎 How to stop waiting for others to make you happy💎 Simple mindset shifts to improve any relationship — even without the other person changing💎 How to move forward after loss or disappointment with grace and self-love

Whether you’re rebuilding after heartbreak, struggling with a difficult relationship, or simply ready for more peace and joy in your life, Merle’s wisdom will leave you inspired to take charge of your own happiness — and create the relationships you truly deserve.

Merle’s Pearls of Wisdom is a monthly podcast offering a positive perspective on relationships, life, and happiness — with real-world advice from Merle M. Singer, The Relationship Miracle Worker.

In this episode of Merle's Pearls of Business Wisdom, host Merle Singer, the Relationship Miracle Worker, sits down with Dr. Shamim Suryavanshi, a Certified Positive Intelligence Coach, to explore how we unintentionally sabotage our relationships at work and what we can do about it. Dr. Suryavanshi shares her expertise on identifying and managing the "saboteurs" – the inner voices and patterns that affect our performance, health, and relationships in the workplace.

In this episode of Merle's Pearls of Business Wisdom, Merle is joined by Farnia Fresnel, a seasoned business leader and entrepreneur. Together, they explore how relationships impact workplace dynamics and discuss strategies for empowering individuals and teams to exceed their potential. This conversation focuses on diversity and inclusion, emotional intelligence, and innovative ways to foster a more inclusive and productive work environment.

Find more about Farnia: 

www.lenserfgroup.com

www.farniafresnel.com

#ExceedYourPotential

Key Talking Points in this Episode:

Definition and explanation of the "Exceed Your Potential" program.

- Importance of challenging traditional perceptions and expanding personal and professional limits.

- The www.lenserfgroup.com and Diversity Initiatives

Mission and focus on enhancing leadership and team dynamics.

- Launch of the Exceed Your Potential Academy targeting HBCU students.

- Emphasis on integrating diverse interns into corporate environments.

- Emotional Intelligence and Workplace Adaptation

Importance of emotional intelligence in adapting to new work environments.

- Strategies for self-management and personal impact awareness.

- Overcoming anxiety and embracing change as a growth opportunity.

- Addressing Underrepresentation and Retention Challenges

Challenges faced by historically underrepresented groups in corporate settings.

- Strategies for creating supportive and inclusive environments.

- Importance of mentorship and support for new recruits to enhance retention.

- Personal Growth and Overcoming Barriers

Stories of individual success from the Exceed Your Potential Academy.

- Innovation exercises to encourage creative problem-solving and resilience.

- Embracing mistakes as opportunities for learning and growth.

- Encouraging a Culture of Support and Inclusion

Importance of viewing employees as individuals with unique contributions.

- Building bridges between diverse groups within organizations.

- The role of leaders in fostering an inclusive culture.

- The Ripple Effect of Positive Change

Encouraging proactive steps to embrace diversity and inclusion.

- The impact of creating a ripple effect through supportive initiatives.

- Long-term benefits of investing in diverse talent.

Takeaways from this Episode:

Challenge Perceptions: Personal and professional growth requires expanding beyond traditional perceptions and recognizing one’s broader potential.

Emotional Intelligence is Key: Developing emotional intelligence helps individuals adapt to change and contributes positively to workplace dynamics.

Support Matters: Providing support and mentorship to new recruits, especially from underrepresented groups, is crucial for retention and success.

View Mistakes as Learning Opportunities: Mistakes are not failures but opportunities for learning and innovation.

Leadership’s Role: Leaders must actively promote and model inclusive practices to create a supportive environment for all employees.

Encourage Individual Contributions: Recognize and empower the unique contributions of each team member to foster a culture of inclusion and collaboration.

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Merle’s Pearls of Business Wisdom is the podcast for all your business problems! You’ll learn how to break old patterns, develop healthy connections, as well as specific strategies you can use to boost your confidence and success with making effective connections at work. Listen to all episodes at https://relationshipmiracleworker.com/podcast/.

Join us on this empowering episode of Merle's Pearls of Business Wisdom hosted by The Relationship Miracle Worker, Merle M. Singer as we welcome Suhein Beck. From being a Circassian Exile from the North Caucasus, to a Syrian Refugee to experiencing gang terror in America, Suhein brings the most unique perspectives on breaking down fears and tribalism down to the lowest common denominator.

Suhein shares her remarkable journey of resilience and courage after experiencing profound trauma. Through her candid storytelling, she sheds light on the transformative power of facing adversity head-on and reclaiming one's narrative.

Listeners will be inspired by Suhein's wisdom and vulnerability as she imparts invaluable lessons on resilience, self-discovery, and the path to healing. Tune in to gain profound insights and practical tools for overcoming trauma, fostering resilience, and embracing courage in the face of adversity.

Merle’s Pearls of Business Wisdom is the podcast for all your business problems! You’ll learn how to break old patterns, develop healthy connections, as well as specific strategies you can use to boost your confidence and success with making effective connections at work. Listen to all episodes at https://relationshipmiracleworker.com/podcast/.

My guest, Camille Walker has gone from helping clients with their legal challenges, to helping clients with their life challenges

A native Texan growing up in a family of entrepreneurs was getting a hands on business education firsthand.  As a practicing attorney for more than 20 years, I found myself serving as an adviser for service based entrepreneurs helping them make improvements in productivity, revenue and overall performance. 

Helping to pinpoint and release financial barriers and sabotaging patterns for a performance breakthrough is the work utilizing emotional intelligence.  Utilizing a combination of cutting edge tools, strategies and tactics Camille helps business owners achieve their goals with ease.   

Camille earned a Bachelor in Business Administration in marketing from Texas Tech University and a law degree from University of Houston.  She has numerous certifications in the area of Emotional Intelligence, Energy and Belief work. Find more about Camille on her website here: www.camillewalker.com

FREE DOWNLOAD: Discover the common financial blind spots stopping you from breaking through your income goals

Go to https://camillewalker.com/salesblocks/

Merle’s Pearls of Business Wisdom is the podcast for all your business problems! You’ll learn how to break old patterns, develop healthy connections, as well as specific strategies you can use to boost your confidence and success with making effective connections at work. Listen to all episodes here: https://relationshipmiracleworker.com/podcast/

Death of a loved one in an employees life, their grief effects your other employees. Help your people; help your bottom line. 

Death counselor turned personal tragedy into a process to help your people move on from their personal grief  to a functioning, healthy work staff and a healthier bottom line for your company.

On April 16, 2009, Kim Hamer witnessed her 44-year-old husband take his last breath. The outpouring of support from their coworkers, bosses, friends, and family during his illness and following his death left an indelible impression on her.

As an HR leader, Kim recognized death's profound impact on work. Leaders are ill-equipped to lead grieving teams, HR is not prepared to support leaders, and employees have no direct support in managing their own grief at work. All of this causes a negative impact on engagement, mental health, and a company’s revenue.

Using her personal and professional experience, Kim founded Workplace Grief, a wellness platform for leaders, HR, and employees. It’s a one-stop shop for grief in the workplace.

Kim is the author of "100 Acts of Love: A Girlfriend's Guide to Loving Your Friend Through Cancer or Loss," an invaluable must-have life guide offering practical tips to support employees or friends experiencing life’s little “hiccups.” As a captivating speaker, Kim’s stories empower audiences to navigate the complexities of life, fostering a culture of compassion and resilience in both personal and professional spheres.

To learn more about Workplace Grief at www.workplacegrief.com

Dave has earned his Professional Behavioral Analyst and Professional Driving Forces Analyst certifications (CPBA & CPDFA). He has consulted with over 60 companies in 16 states across the country.  His clients represent a large cross section of industry from manufacturing, retail, construction, engineering, farming, trucking communications and service.

Dave was raised in Philadelphia and now resides in rural Ramona CA with his wife and their 2 dogs, Blue and Chip.  Although he is no longer taking apart televisions, he is constantly taking his golf game apart.  Unfortunately he has no more luck putting it back together then he did with his family TV those many years ago.

https://www.lockedonleadership.com/

Merle M. Singer, The Relationship Miracle Worker has guest, Judy Hersch on her podcast this week.

Judy Hersch is the Founder of Evolution Solutions, a Professional Coaching Organization leading individuals, groups, and organizations worldwide in building extraordinary lives, businesses, relationships, and results. 

Judy has a unique toolbox of resources to create custom experiences for her clients, leveraging cutting edge tools, practices, and principles from various disciplines, including project management, neuroscience, epigenetics and heart-brain science.

Her passion for people and human potential has led her to live in 9 U.S. States and 3 countries abroad.

Gifts from Judy! https://giftsfromjudy.com/

When is it time to quit your job and go for your dream? with Chaya Topas.

Find her Children books here: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0C2WN7VW9

A.J. MacQuarrie embodies the entrepreneurial journey in its entirety – from turning $20,000 into a multi-million dollar venture to sitting in bankruptcy court. Former CEO of KarmaBox Vending, he expanded the pioneering healthy vending company across 80 U.S. cities in 3 years. Now steering Keep Going HQ, A.J. empowers entrepreneurs through brand development, digital marketing, and online programs. His upcoming book, "Craft Your Comeback: Turning Setbacks Into Advantages After Failures, Flukes, and F-up," guides readers to overcome the obstacles in their lives. He is also the co-host of the 40 Under 40 Podcast and lives in Boston with his loving partner, feisty Scottish Terrier, and adorable Frenchie. 

Listen to his episode with Merle M. Singer, The Relationship Miracle Worker!