This morning, we
begin with a new message series helping us to better understand and live out
unconditional love.
Our new message
series is entitled, “Love Is” and it is based on that familiar
passage found in 1 Corinthians chapter 13.
We were created by
God with the need for love that can only be expressed through relationships.
As there are
different types of relationships, there are different types of love. There is, however, a type of love that we are
to express toward anyone and everyone.
In fact, the Bible teaches that if we learn how to express this type of
love toward God and others, that we will entirely fulfill all that God’s law
requires of us. This distinct type of
love is the love that God has for us. In
the Greek language, it is the word agape.
It is this type of unconditional love that we’ll be covering through
this message series.
To be able to
possess and express this unconditional love, we’re going to break it down into
parts as Paul chose to do in his letter to the Corinthians. He taught all about spiritual gifts and said
that it is not using these gifts that truly matters, but how we choose to use
them, our motive, that matters to God.
We can do all sorts of good things for God, but if we do not do them as
an expression of God’s love, then they are pointless, useless, and meaningless.
1 Corinthians 13:1-4
1 If I speak in the
tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong
or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all
mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but
do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give
over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain
nothing. 14 Love is patient, love is
kind…
Love is kind.
What is most
interesting about all of the attributes of God’s love that we are going to
cover here in this chapter is that every single word is a verb. In the English translations, these words
appear to be adjectives describing God’s love.
In the Greek language, however, every single one of these descriptive
words are actually verbs. God’s love not
an idea, it is not a concept; God’s love is an action!
The word translated
here to kind is the Greek word chrēsteuomai and it is used only this one single
time in the Bible. Bear with me through
this. I don’t usually go into these things,
but I think it is important for us to learn a bit about the Greek language in
which this letter was written.
Grammatically,
“kind” or “chrēsteuomai” is a verb in the present tense and
using the middle voice. It is an action
and one that is continuously ongoing.
Middle voice is the usage of a verb common in the Greek language, but
foreign to the English language.
Middle voice means
that the verb is happening by the subject and to the subject. In the English language, a verb has either a
passive and an active voice. The passive
voice is the subject receiving the action and the active voice is the subject
doing the action. For example, the
passive voice would be, “A box was moved by Steve.” Box is the subject and moved is the
verb. The active voice would be,
“Steve moved a box.” Steve is
now the subject while moved still remains the verb. In the English language, the closest thing to
a middle voice example would be, “Steve moved.” Steve is now both the subject acting as well
as the recipient of the action.
What did Jesus say
that the second greatest commandment was?
Love others as we love ourselves.
Be kind to yourself, and be kind others.
Middle voice; both the actor and the recipient of that action. Kind yourself!
The reality is that
how we view and treat ourselves will often be how to view and treat
others. If I mess something up, do I get
irritated and frustrated and begin to think things like, “You’re never
going to get this right! You’ll always
be a failure! What’s wrong with
you?” Or do you laugh