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Messie Minds
By Mary Nguyen & Jessie ChauSociety & Culture
Messie Minds episodes
- E87. Friendships are like onions 🧅
Friendships aren’t just about vibes—they’re about math too?!
🤯 This week, Jessie & Mary break down Dunbar’s Number, the idea that we can only maintain a certain number of friendships at once.
How do proximity, energy, and timing shape the people we keep close? And how do friendships shift as life changes? We’re getting real about making (and keeping) connections that matter. 💛
Share this with a friend who’s stuck with you through it all! ✨
#FriendshipGoals #DunbarsNumber
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
54 min - E86. The Dog Dialogue - Part 2 (Ft Rose Bao)
In round two with animal-behaviour guru Rose Bao, we flip the mic and let her run a mini “discovery call” live on air. Think of it as behavioural speed-dating for you and your pup.
By the end, we felt seen, our dogs felt heard, and Jessie was ready to book the real thing. If you’ve ever wished your pet came with subtitles, Rose’s discovery call is basically the trailer. Get your notepad — and maybe a handful of treats — before you hit play.
Follow Rose on Instagram @rosek9behaviourist
or visit her website for more details.
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
1 hr 4 min - E85. The Dog Dialogue (Ft Rose Bao)
This week on Messie Minds, we’re joined by the brilliant and big-hearted Rose Bao — an animal behaviourist who works closely with dogs and their humans to decode what’s really going on beneath the tail wags and tantrums.
PSA: She’s not a dog trainer. And no, she’s definitely not a “dog whisperer.” Rose is all about the science, psychology, and emotional intelligence behind your pet’s behaviour — helping you understand the why, not just the how.
We get into:
🐶 What an animal behaviourist actually does (and why it matters)
🧠 The subtle ways dogs are always trying to communicate
💔 Why we often misread or ignore their signals
🫱 And how building a strong bond means meeting your pet halfway — not just expecting them to fit into your worldThis episode will make you laugh, reflect, and possibly text your dog an apology. If you’ve ever said “he’s just dramatic” while your pup is actually panicking, this one’s for you.
Follow Rose on Instagram @rosek9behaviourist
or visit her website for more details.
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
1 hr 30 min - E84. Houston, we have a PR problem 🚀👩🏼🚀
This week on Messie Minds, we’re talking about the all-female Blue Origin space mission that had the internet in orbit! 🚀💅
👩🚀 From Katy Perry floating in zero gravity to claims of it being a "girlboss PR stunt," we’re unpacking the glam, the goals, and the drama behind the Origin Blue launch.
Was it an empowering moment for women in STEM? Or just another billionaire-backed space selfie mission? 🌍📸
👯♀️ Plus, we get messy with:
• The celeb-stacked crew list• Social media chaos (yes, we read the tweets)• Our hot takes on who really belongs in space 👀
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
#MessieMinds #WomenInSpace #BlueOrigin #KatyPerry #STEMGirls #SpaceMission #SpaceTourism #PodcastEpisode #GirlTalkPodcast #SpaceDebate #BillionaireSpaceRace #NewShepard #PopCulturePodcast #MessieChat #PodcastForWomen #BlueOriginControversy
45 min - E83. It's been a while... 👋🏻
Your fave chaotic duo is BACK, baby. After an 8-month whirlwind of Mercury in Retrograde, mental breakdowns, grief, growth, and ✨healing-ish✨… we're dusting off the mics and diving into Season 6 of Messie Minds 💥
In our first episode, we’re catching you up on everything – from life milestones and messy moments to Mary’s trip to Japan 🇯🇵 and Jessie’s journey through grief, growth, and a whole lot of “wtf is happening” energy.
It’s raw, it’s real, it’s us – unfiltered as always. Buckle up, we missed you. 🖤
🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your messiest thoughts untangled.
#MessieMinds #MentalHealthPodcast #GriefAndGrowth #MercuryRetrogradeVibes #TravelDiaries #JapanTrip #LifeLately
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
57 min - E82. Very demure, very mindful
As we wrap up an incredible season and year, join us for a cozy girls' chat about our upcoming concerts, events, and travels for the rest of 2024. From exciting destinations to unforgettable experiences, we're sharing all the details. Plus, we dive into the latest TikTok trend, "Very Demure, very mindful" and why it's taking the internet by storm! ✈️🎶✨
- Our upcoming concerts - Neyo, The Weeknd - the Weeknd's rebranding theory and the whole entire rescheduling/cancelling saga
- Mary's Japan Trip - the confusing and incredibly overwhelming experience of booking tickets for activities like Universal Studios, whether Disneyland is worth it??? And missing out on Mt Fuji...
- BRAT Summer vs Very Demure - examples and a reminder that we should all just be a little bit MORE demure for the love of god!
This is our final episode of the season, but don't worry—we'll be back in 2025 with even more amazing content. Until then, catch up with us as we chat about what's to come! 💖
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
50 min - E81. Buying property is a journey (Ft Kevin Ni)
From growing up on a farm in small-town Portarlington to becoming a successful buyer's advocate in Melbourne, Kevin Ni has an incredible story to share. 🌾✨
In this episode, Kevin opens up about his humble beginnings, the challenges he faced, and how he built his own business advocating for people looking to buy and invest in property.
We dwelve into:
- His humble beginnings, inspirations and how he landed in real estate; 🏡
- Perseverance - Learning to enjoy the journey and not the destination of anything in life;
- The ebs and flows of property investments; why there's no good time to sell and just to get used to the cycle
- The dos and don'ts of buying property
- Everything you need to know about getting a BUYER'S ADVOCATE
Whether you’re a first-time buyer or a seasoned investor, Kevin’s journey and insights are not to be missed!
🎧 Tune in now and get inspired by Kevin’s story of perseverance, hard work, and passion for helping others achieve their property dreams.
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
#Podcast #NewEpisode #PropertyInvestment #MelbourneRealEstate #BuyersAdvocate #KevinNi #FromFarmToCity #Inspiration #RealEstateJourney #Portarlington
1 hr 12 min - E80. Advocating for yourself (Ft Russel Perdio)
Ever felt like you’re not being heard at work? This week, we dive deep into practical strategies for advocating for yourself in the workplace. From negotiating raises to setting boundaries, we cover it all. And we're excited to have our part-time cohost Russel Perdio join the conversation! 🎧✨
- Advocating for a promotion/payrise
- Strategies on how to advocate for yourself
- Setting boundaries and learning to say NO
- Looking for value adds for your team
We also share our own personal examples of the above and Russ also shares about the one time he squared up to Larry from The Good Guys 🥊 🤣
Tune in to learn how to stand up for yourself, make your voice heard, and create the career you deserve. Let’s make those moves together! 💼💪
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
1 hr 23 min - E79. I'm JUST a GIRL ₊˚⊹♡⋆.°
Girlhood refers to the period in a female's life from childhood to adolescence, encompassing the experiences, activities, and cultural influences that shape her identity during these formative years. It's a time marked by exploration, self-discovery, and significant social and emotional development. After watching our friend blossom and live out her BEST life, we were inspired!
So this week we reflect on our nostalgic journey of girlhood! 🌼✨
All but not limited to:
- First Makeup Discoveries 💄: Remember the thrill of experimenting with makeup for the first time? We explore Ulzzang trends and our first beauty adventures.
- Our Idols 🌟: From Hilary Duff and Vanessa Hudgens to Michelle Phan and Britney Spears, we celebrate the icons who shaped our youth.
- Strengthened Female Friendships 💕: Reflecting on the unbreakable bonds we formed with our besties.
- Cute Toys Galore 🧸: Relishing in the joy of owning toys we once dreamt of, like Sonny Angels, Tamagotchis, and Jellycats.
- Aunties as Icons 👵: How our aunties epitomize girlhood in our adult lives.
Tune in for a heartwarming and fun-filled episode! 🎧💕
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Send us a voice message on Spotify :)
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
#Podcast #Girlhood #Nostalgia #Makeup #Friendship #Icons #Toys #Aunties #NewEpisode
50 min - E78. The Australian stamina is unmatched 🤠 (Ft Chris Zou)
We're thrilled to have the amazing Chris Zou join us this week! Chris is a research scientist with a PhD in industrial and organisational psychology. With over a decade of experience in consulting, data analysis, teaching, and mentorship, he's a powerhouse of knowledge. 👨🏻🎓🧑🏻🔬
But you might know him better as the Canadian tourist who got a taste of Aussie party stamina during World Pride and Mardi Gras! 🌈🐨
In this episode, Chris shares his unique perspectives on Australia and its quirks, from our wild animals and festivities to our laid-back lifestyle. 🇦🇺 Whether you're an Aussie local or curious about how others see us, you won't want to miss this chat!
We also dive into:
- The world's perspective of Australia: racist and exotic???? 🤨
- Swooping szn and why bin chickens are cute 🦩
- Trying to find kangaroo meat and other Australian cuisines 🥩
- Why are Victorian's so offended by the word bogan
- Assimilation of Asians in Australia 🇦🇺🇨🇳
- Partying for 18 hours straight at World Pride/Mardi Gras 🎉
- Revs/Revolver and Breakfast Club 🌅☠️
🎧 Tune in now and get ready for some laughs, insights, and a whole lot of fun! 🎧
FIND CHRIS ↩︎
Tiktok
Instagram
LINKS
Mary's Viet Music Spotify Playlist - almost 10 hours of incredible listening experience!
Be a book worm with Mary📚🐛
Catch up with us on instagram @messieminds.podcast
Send us a voice message on Spotify :)
Finds our other links here: https://linktr.ee/messieminds
CREDITS
Hosts: Jessie Chau & Mary Nguyen
Music: Comfort Zone by SunnyBunnyBeatz
#ChrisZou #Australia #WorldPride #MardiGras #Psychology #Travel #PartyStamina #AussieLife
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About Messie Minds
From the publisher's feed
Life's a mess and so are we. Jessie Chau and Mary Nguyen aren't here to sugarcoat it - they're here to talk work fails, love dramas, life lessons, and growing up Asian-Australian in a world that…
doesn't always get it. Messie Minds is real, hilarious and just a little bit chaotic. For anyone figuring out adulthood one messy story at a time, or if you're just after some friends to bounce off, we have new episodes every Wednesday!