Messy Buns Podcast

Messy Buns Podcast

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Messy Buns Podcast episodes

  • S3 E16 - Unsung Hero: The Story of Bella’s Birthmother
    Well I knew adoption would change our lives by finally making us parents, but I did not expect to witness such heroic love in a woman that might have otherwise been invisible to me - kind of embarrassing to admit that. I went into the process selfishly in many ways, but my demeanor shifted slowly as I got to know Bella’s “tummy mommy.” That is saying a lot considering we did not speak the same language.
    I hope you’ll join us today as I tell this story and hopefully bring some light to women who are often overlooked as poor, stupid, or weak. Giving a child up for adoption is no small feat and we are privileged not only to parent our specific child, but to have encountered such bravery and unconditional love in the process.
    Come fight with us!
    Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/messybuns/support
    41 min
  • S3 Bonus E15- Hope for When Mother's Day isn't Happy

    Hey friends! Mary here. I flew solo for this episode because Elise was sick, but the show must go on! It is almost Mother's Day weekend- one that comes around once a year, but is dreaded by many women struggling through infertility and pregnancy loss. I'm no stranger to this feeling, but have found some comfort in recent years as God has broadened my understanding of authentic motherhood. This new understanding is not a promise to take the pain away, but I do hope this episode will help you to find purpose in it. 

    Today, we are fighting for you!  

    Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/messybuns/support --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/messybuns/support

    28 min
  • S3 E14- Game Night
    Being quarantined has put a damper on the last couple of months- and maybe even the next few to come. So, we took a break from our in-depth convos to bring you a light hearted and fun game night episode. We each did our own secret quiz research, so neither of us knew what to expect. It was kind of scary.
    Listen as Elise discovers her internal Disney characters and Mary discovers her “real” rap name. Instead of coming to fight with us today, come play with us instead!
    Music:
    Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870
    --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/messybuns/support
    36 min
  • S3 E13- Anatomy of a Friendship
    Friendships can fill us up, drain our cups, or be anywhere in between. In this episode, Elise and I share the story of our friendship and how it was restored after a breakup that lasted years. We are so incredibly grateful that we were patient and open to God as he facilitated our reunion.
    There is so much opportunity for growth through our relationships! How could God be using you? What does a good friend look like? What does the Bible say about friendship? We had a great chat about all of the above.
    Come fight with us!
    Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870
    --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/messybuns/support
    1 hr 2 min
  • S3 E12- How to Talk to Your Infertile Friends
    It’s National Infertility Awareness Week and since we have already spoken a lot to the heart of the infertile, we wanted to take this opportunity to speak to the hearts of those who care so much for us! We went a little long on this one, but it was worth it. We did not anticipate how needed this chat would be!
    So whether you are infertile and need some camaraderie or are fertile and want to understand how to love your friends and family who are unable to get pregnant, this episode will be helpful. Most of us know someone who is infertile and genuinely desire to know how to love them. Although every woman and couple is unique, Elise and I got real vulnerable with what has deeply affected us both negatively and positively.
    Check out our Top 10 lists!
    Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870
    --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/messybuns/support
    1 hr 23 min
  • S3 E11- Living the Resurrection
    Can you imagine the pure joy that St. Mary Magdalen experienced as she realized she was gazing upon her risen Lord after she thought his body was taken? Apparently the radiant angels didn’t even faze her- she just wanted to see Him!
    Jesus is risen! He wants us to experience His joyful presence every day. The more willingly we step into our sufferings, big and small, the more richly we experience the Resurrection. The key word is “willingly.” Let us explain...
    Come fight with us!
    Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870
    --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/messybuns/support
    54 min
  • S3 E10- Our Take on Life During Covid-19
    Fear of a virus and the experience of being quarantined has thrown a huge wrench into all of our plans and all of our emotions. But as always, we have some thoughts for keeping the faith and remaining hopeful!
    Elise has been essentially living “quarantine adjacent” for nearly 2 years since her chronic illness worsened, so she has already been through the stuck-at-home-stages-of-grief a few times and has some words of wisdom to help us get through this. Check out her video here: https://youtu.be/Vt8M2YYPfP8
    We are praying for your safety, solidarity, and solace during these strange times. Come fight with us!
    Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870
    --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/messybuns/support
    50 min
  • S3 E9- Docile Apostle

    “Docile” is defined as “ready to accept instruction; submissive.” It is a quality that is important in the ripening of every Christian, especially when it comes to our plans - both immediate and long term. How easily are we able to “make moves” when the Holy Spirit directs us to? The more we grow in trust and patience, the more naturally docility follows. In this episode, we chat about docility as it applies to life plans, jobs, breakups, buying houses, marriage, and infertility. Come fight with us! 

    Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870

    34 min
  • S3 E8- Lental Health

    It’s time for a little Lenten check-in! We are about 2 weeks in and have some thoughts about preparation, effectiveness, and endurance: 1. We suck at Lent 2. How to choose what to give up 3. Do I give something up at all? 4. What’s the point? We share our own personal Lenten challenges and talk about standing firm in our identity, especially when Satan is being a jerk. Come fight with us! Here are the recommendations we discussed on the show- FOR TAKING ACTION: Abiding Together https://www.abidingtogetherpodcast.com Pray More Novenas: Pray More Retreat https://praymoreretreat.org Total Whine: GiveItUP NFP https://totalwhine.com/2020/02/23/giveitupnfp-week-1-challenge/ ARTICLES TO READ: Total Whine article https://totalwhine.com/2019/03/02/lent-making-room/ Please Don’t Give Up Social Media for Lent https://www.archbalt.org/please-dont-give-up-social-media-for-lent/?fbclid=IwAR14ZeSLlBWqbNZMhlxlDHkonTAYIRLWmB_NshexnD5uTpSQZlLWxrSc8E BOOK: “The Screwtape Letters” by C.S. Lewis VIDEO: The Agony in the Garden from “The Passion of the Christ” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Rmv1PmL6q0 

    Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870

    39 min
  • S3 E7- Love in Action; Choosing a Spouse & Appreciating the Highs and Lows of Marriage
    We are following up from our last episode about sex with some chat about authentic love, suffering well together, choosing a spouse, and some thoughts on divorce.
    We share our personal experiences of how we’ve learned from our husbands well before they were our husbands. They chose us for who we are and not for what we can offer them.
    These are the choices we need to be prepared to make daily in a lasting marriage.
    Come fight with us! Music: Simply Vanity by CHRIS HOWLAND @chris_howland itunes.apple.com/us/artist/chris-…wland/1084153870
    43 min

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Two saucy Catholic women leaping out from the trenches of watered down Catholicism. Follow us into the deep. Bring your own towel!