In the latest Messy in the Middle episode, Jefi and Ed talk about generational wealth and its foundation within real estate. They discuss the challenges many face when navigating their financial future and the vital role structured budgeting plays in building wealth across generations. Jefi and Ed share various budgeting approaches - from detailed plans contrasting income and expenses to adaptable zero-based budgeting - showcasing that there's a suitable method out there for everyone.

Key Takeaways:

• Structured budgeting plays a critical role in establishing a pathway to generational wealth.
• People often grapple with budgeting due to the uncomfortable nature of examining and restructuring their finances.
• Various budgeting strategies can cater to different lifestyles and goals; finding what works personally is key.
• Automatic savings and targeting credit card debt are actionable steps that can significantly impact financial stability.
• Leveraging real estate for wealth creation, investment strategies, and protective measures can create a "nest."

Quotes:

“It's just a mindset. That is the goal guy in me. It's like, hey, I'm headed here. And then that is where that dream bucket comes in, and you get excited about it. Then things just kind of take care of themselves. It's amazing how much money you can save when you have a long goal you're working toward." -Ed

"But this is this whole attitude that everybody is where you think they are or everybody is where I think they are. That's not true. And the problem is there's so much shame based around not having things put together. we got to start somewhere, so let's just go get vulnerable. Let's, let's go figure this out." -Jefi

TIMESTAMPS

(01:38) Generational wealth

(06:25) The goal of financial security

(10:04) Vulnerability and financial conversations

(15:12) Budgeting

(22:20) Changes based on goals

(29:31) Pay yourself first: savings

(31:46) Up Next

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

In the latest Messy in the Middle episode, Jefi and Ed discuss the push toward sustainable design elements, highlighting nature-inspired solutions, and mixed materials that blend modernism with a touch of the past. They explore forward-thinking features, such as wellness inclusions in both the kitchen and bathroom areas and the importance of strategic window designs to incorporate natural light. Listen as Jefi and Ed talk about the vitality of understanding these trends not just from a personal enjoyment perspective but also for optimizing resale value.

Key Takeaways:

• Emerging home design trends are steering away from cookie-cutter models, embracing nature-inspired designs, and mixed materials for a more personalized and sustainable aesthetic.
• Wellness features are becoming prevalent in both kitchens and bathrooms, indicating a growing trend toward health-focused home environments.
• The resurgence of natural light through strategic window designs is on the rise, blending the outside with the inside for a more organic feel.
• It's crucial to balance personal style with resale considerations when implementing bold design choices, as certain features could impact future marketability.
• Consulting with an experienced designer can provide invaluable insights and ensure that homeowners are aligning with both personal tastes and emerging trends.

Quotes:

“I think part of the trend of what we're seeing is moving a little bit away from all the super modern stuff, but more into those modern features are buried in a retro look. Functionality. So kind of going back to knobs and poles and different things." -Ed

"One feature that comes up a lot, just to put into the pile of ideas, is that a lot of people that are empty nesters love to have just showers in their house. Getting rid of a tub, I think, is a bad idea for resale because a lot of times families love to have a tub for small children. So it's a very expensive feature to change. It's not paint, it's an actual fixture." -Jefi

TIMESTAMPS

(02:34) Discussion on the emergence of nature-inspired designs in kitchens 

(06:15) The availability of design choices in the past vs. now

(11:51) Colors that support the spa bathroom trend: blues, greens, metallic accents. 

(15:33) Designing homes with passive solar qualities for energy efficiency. 

(19:57) Wallpaper as a way to add a punch of design to a space. 

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

In the latest Messy in the Middle episode, Jefi and Ed discuss the impact of interest rates and the Federal Reserve on the real estate market in 2024. They explain how lower interest rates will lead to a surge in buyers, increasing competition and driving up prices. They advise buyers to act now before they get priced out of the market, and sellers to take advantage of the current low inventory and put their homes on the market. They also discuss the potential effects of zoning changes and increased housing density.

Key Takeaways:

• The Federal Reserve is expected to cut interest rates by mid-2024, potentially affecting mortgage interest rates and the real estate market.
• Buyers currently waiting on the sidelines may find themselves priced out as property values continue to rise while inventory remains low.
• Sellers currently enjoying low rates should consider listing their homes now due to the increased buyer demand, which may shift when rates drop.
• The episode emphasizes the urgency of getting into the real estate market and considering less-than-ideal property types as investment stepping stones.
• Local government zoning changes are creating opportunities for increased housing availability, potentially affecting market dynamics in certain regions.

Quotes:

“All the analysts are saying by June, plus or minus a month, rates are going to, they're going to start cutting their rates and they're going to come down and that's going to have effects for buyers and sellers." -Ed

"Your competition as a buyer is about to explode because once interest rates go down, the buying pool grows." -Jefi

TIMESTAMPS

(01:14) Importance of interest rates for sellers 

(08:49) Shortage of buyer activity and lack of inventory 

(14:22) Governments are changing zoning to allow for more housing inventory

(16:25) The impact of lower mortgage rates in 2024 and more homes on the market

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

In the latest Messy in the Middle episode, Jefi and Ed dissect the crucial process of finding the right mortgage lender. They delve into why choosing a compatible mortgage provider is as vital as finding the perfect realtor. They share the pillars of an effective lender-borrower relationship: clear communication, personalized guidance, competitive rates and fees, and efficient loan processing. Listen as Jefi and Ed give tips for navigating the often-overwhelming seas of mortgage options and coming out victorious.

Key Takeaways:

• The lender's role is paramount in the real estate transaction – an insightful look at why the mortgage match matters.
• Clear Communication Matters – the dangers of inadequate communication from lenders and its impact on the buying process.
• The Cost of Low Rates – a breakdown of how low advertised rates can be misleading and the true cost of inefficiency.
• The Value of Professionalism and Expertise – understanding the importance of working with a seasoned lender who excels in customer service.
• Future Considerations for Buyers – practical tips for buyers when evaluating potential lenders to ensure a smooth real estate transaction.

Quotes:

“Efficient processing is super important. It helps you get to the finish line when you have all these little questions coming up." -Ed

"Professionalism goes a very long way in this business, someone who has skin in the game, someone where this is their full-time passion and job." -Jefi

TIMESTAMPS

(04:41) Importance of clear communication with the lender 

(06:26) The value of personalized guidance from a lender 

(07:30) Consideration of competitive rates and fees 

(09:32) Efficient processing and in-house underwriting

(11:12) Advice for buyers on choosing the right lender 

(14:32) Value of good quality customer service

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

Discover why sellers should love buyer's agents in this engaging episode. Hosts Jefi and Ed discuss the importance of having an advocate for both buyers and sellers, the role of a buyer's agent in facilitating smooth negotiations, and how they attract more potential buyers. They also delve into the value of professional representation, creating win-win scenarios, and the benefits of having an open market. Don't miss out on this insightful conversation that sheds light on the crucial role of buyer's agents in real estate transactions.

Key Takeaways:

• Buyer's agents are key to maximizing exposure: They open up the seller's property to a wide pool of potential buyers, thus creating a competitive market.
• Smooth negotiations lead to successful transactions: Competent buyer's agents facilitate negotiations that are free of emotional bias and focused on the best outcomes for their clients.
• Professionalism matters: A professional buyer's agent prepares buyers well and works closely with reputable lenders, contributing to a transaction that progresses smoothly.
• Tactical empathy in negotiations: Understanding the underlying interests and priorities of both parties can help in creating agreements that satisfy everyone involved.
• Buyer's agents are invaluable: As the 'secret weapon' for sellers, they ensure a broad reach and professional advocacy that can drive success in real estate deals.

Quotes:

"If you have an advocate for you and you have an advocate for the seller, as long as they're both good advocates, it's a much more smooth transaction." - Jefi

"A great buyer's agent understands that they're the conduit between the buyer and the seller. There's no emotion, it's all business." - Jefi

"Buyer's agents are the secret weapon for sellers. They facilitate smooth negotiations and create win-win scenarios." - Ed

TIMESTAMPS

(00:00) Introduction

(02:26) Attracting more potential buyers

(03:39) Buyer's agents facilitate smooth negotiations

(06:04) Creating win-win scenarios 

(09:47) Wrapping up 

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

This week on the Messy in The Middle Podcast, Ed and Jefi discuss the reasons and considerations for refinancing loans. They highlight the benefits of lower interest rates, shorter loan terms, and the elimination of private mortgage insurance. However, they caution listeners to consider the potential downsides, such as negative equity, poor credit, and high prepayment penalties. They also discuss the use of refinancing for home renovations and debt consolidation, but advise consulting a financial advisor. Listen this week as Jefi and Ed talk about the importance of individual circumstances in making refinancing decisions and consulting your trusted advisors.

QUOTES

• "Remember that rates rise like a rocket and they fall like a feather." -Ed Billings [02:09]
• “Whatever's best for you is what's best. Don't get caught up in the hoopla of the refi whirlwind.” -Jefi Moultrie [10:26]

TIMESTAMPS

(04:49) Lowering the Interest Rate 

(06:18) Shortening the Loan Term

(07:22) Eliminating PMI 

(10:11) Refinancing and Home Value 

(11:10) Consider Your Long-Term Goals

(12:44) Factors to Consider Before Refinancing

RESOURCES

• Never Split the Difference
• The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
• The Peak Experience
• The U.S. Housing Market Has Peaked
• Why Rising Mortgage Rates Push Buyers off the Fence
• The One Thing Every Homeowner Needs To Know About a Recession

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

This week on the Messy in The Middle Podcast, Ed and Jefi discuss conventional loans, mortgages that are offered by private lenders and are not backed by a government agency. They highlight the importance of understanding the difference between conforming and non-conforming loans, as well as the higher interest rates and credit/income requirements associated with conventional loans. Jefi and Ed share how conventional loans can be used for investment properties and the need for buyers and sellers to educate themselves about conventional loans.

QUOTES

• "So that also leads to credit and income requirements. So you're going to have to qualify for those loans. Right. So you're going to have to have a little better credit score and a stable source of income. So the lender is going to look at that because they got skin in the game." -Ed Billings [04:31]

• “The bottom line is that you should be open to all different kinds of loans because every loan structure is different.” -Jefi Moultrie [13:08]

TIMESTAMPS

[02:10] Difference between conforming and non-conforming loans 

[04:31] Credit and income requirements for conventional loans 

[10:22] Conventional loans offer flexibility in terms and options 

[11:58] Flexible loan terms 

[13:08] Difference between PMI on conventional and FHA loans 

[14:17] Be open to different loan options!

RESOURCES

• Never Split the Difference
• The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
• The Peak Experience
• The U.S. Housing Market Has Peaked
• Why Rising Mortgage Rates Push Buyers off the Fence
• The One Thing Every Homeowner Needs To Know About a Recession

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Ed and Jefi discuss FHA loans. They highlight the pros and cons of FHA loans, including lower down payments, lower credit score requirements, and higher income-to-debt ratios. They also mention the Mortgage Insurance Premium (MIP) and the loan limits that vary by county. Jefi and Ed emphasize the importance of understanding FHA loans as a buyer, seller, or agent, and recommend contacting a lender for more information. They also provide tips for agents on how to counsel buyers on choosing between FHA and conventional loans.

QUOTES

• "Something that's really interesting about FHA loans is they follow HUD Housing and Urban Development guidelines. Did you know that most loans and when I say most, almost all follow those exact same guidelines because they're such a great guideline to follow? So most banks follow those, too.” -Jefi Moultrie [02:02]

• "Here's a homework assignment for all you agents out there. Call your lender. And this is for me, too, because I don't know that number off the top of my head. Just check for the counties that you work, and what the current FHA limits are. That's a really good number to know." -Ed Billings [08:56]

TIMESTAMPS

[00:00] FHA loans 

[02:45] Pros of FHA loans

[05:30] Cons of FHA loans

[09:31] FHA loan leniency 

[09:59] Understanding the strength of an FHA buyer as an agent 

[10:36] Strategy for choosing between FHA and conventional loans in multiple offers 

[11:53] Always call your lender!

RESOURCES

• Never Split the Difference
• The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
• The Peak Experience
• The U.S. Housing Market Has Peaked
• Why Rising Mortgage Rates Push Buyers off the Fence
• The One Thing Every Homeowner Needs To Know About a Recession

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Ed and Jefi talk about Veteran Affairs loans and why they are underutilized. They highlight that VA loans have a lower interest rate and no private mortgage insurance. However, they caution that VA loans can be difficult to assume and that sellers and agents should fully understand the loan's terms before marketing it as assumable. Jefi and Ed stress the importance of having an advocate who understands VA loans and can convey the buyer's strength to the seller. They share why it is important to get fully underwritten and how you can provide proof of funds to demonstrate financial stability.

QUOTES

• "One of the biggest things that I have a hurdle with is my sellers when they are receiving a VA loan. They automatically think that the buyer does not have money. That is completely not true. Just because you see a loan come in with zero down doesn't mean the seller has no money. It just means they're exercising that option for this loan.”  -Jefi Moultrie [03:13]

• "They're not going to be your advocate on that to the seller because they don't understand it. And what is not understood is feared. So agents that are working with VAs need to educate the other side so that they know what's going on." -Ed Billings [10:27]

TIMESTAMPS

[00:30] VA loans 

[06:11] VA loans offer lower interest rates and no PMI 

[09:46] Lack of understanding of VA loans by sellers and agents 

[11:52]  Requirements for a property to be eligible for a VA loan 

[13:02]  VA appraisers evaluate the physical conditions of the property. 

[14:19]  Tips for VA offers in multiple offer situations. 

[16:22]  Talk to your lender for details. 

RESOURCES

• Never Split the Difference
• The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
• The Peak Experience
• The U.S. Housing Market Has Peaked
• Why Rising Mortgage Rates Push Buyers off the Fence
• The One Thing Every Homeowner Needs To Know About a Recession

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com

This week on the Messy in The Middle podcast, Jefi and Ed speak with John Schindel, a mortgage loan officer at Bay Equity. They discuss the importance of getting pre-approved before starting the home buying process and the common hurdles that buyers face. John shares why having a long-term financial plan and working with a financial planner to align homebuying goals with overall financial goals is valuable. He also explains the difference between a soft pull and a hard pull on credit and advises against making any major financial changes, such as quitting a job or taking on new debt, during the home buying process.

QUOTES

• "The number one thing for me is that anybody that buys a home, it's the number one precursor. Or statistically, it is the number one thing that means that your children are going to have a better life than you. Intergenerational wealth always comes with your parents owning their own home." -John Schindel [03:59]

• "Your reputation is on the line every time you write an offer. If you're going to write an offer with a non-approved buyer and put that listing agent through the process of presenting and possibly accepting, not knowing that that buyer can accept, you're not going to look too good as an agent at all. And the next time you write an offer for your beautiful buyer who didn't get the right information, you're not going to get your offer accepted.” -Jefi Moultrie [08:30]

TIMESTAMPS

[01:58] Importance of getting pre-approved before house shopping 

[05:57] Biggest hurdle with buyers: meeting them after making offers 

[10:53] Loan estimate and comparing lenders' costs 

[12:44] Starting with a trusted lender before shopping rates 

[14:19] The break-even point and the opportunity to refinance 

[21:34] Considering the quality of life when determining budget 

[25:32] Difference between hard pull and soft pull for credit checks 

[28:08] Top three things not to do when getting ready to buy a house 

RESOURCES

• Never Split the Difference
• The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
• The Peak Experience
• The U.S. Housing Market Has Peaked
• Why Rising Mortgage Rates Push Buyers off the Fence
• The One Thing Every Homeowner Needs To Know About a Recession

CONTACT

Messy in the Middle: messyinthemiddlepodcast.com

Ed Billings: edbillings.com