Messy Motherhood

No one hands you a parenting manual when your child hits toddlerhood—and even if they did, it probably wouldn’t prepare you for the emotional rollercoaster that comes next. In this episode of the Messy Motherhood Podcast, you’re invited into a real, raw conversation about what it actually looks like to parent toddlers with intention, grace, and a whole lot of deep breaths. Together Stephanie and her husband Alex are back with Part Two of The Parenting Manual They Forgot to Print. For this part of the series they share five powerful lessons they’ve learned in the thick of raising two little boys—and chances are, you’ll see yourself in every single one.

You’ll explore what it means to slow down when your instinct is to rush, how saying “yes” more often helps your “no” carry more weight, and why reparenting yourself might just be the secret to showing up as your best self. You’ll hear about real-life tantrums, how to navigate embarrassment as a parent in public, and the value of apologizing to your kids without shame. More than anything, you’ll be reminded that there’s no one-size-fits-all way to do this, and that fun, connection, and authenticity are often the best parenting tools of all.

If you’re tired, second-guessing yourself, or simply needing a reminder that you’re not alone—you’ll find comfort, encouragement, and practical wisdom here. This is your invitation to put on your “Mommy goggles” and parent from what works best for your family and not from the noise that’s around you. It’s time to put in your headphones, grab your sippy cup or your favorite snack, and let’s untangle the mess of toddlers together.

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“You have to do what works for you and it does take that trial and error and figuring those things out, but it's like if something's not working, don't be afraid to change it up and just figure out what works for you and be an advocate.” –Alex Booe

Ever feel like everyone else got a parenting manual but yours must have gotten lost in the mail? If so, you’re not alone. Join Stephanie and her husband Alex as they look back on the early days of becoming parents and share all the things they wish someone had told them—from the totally unnecessary baby gadgets to the midnight pacing sessions with a wide-awake newborn.

You’ll laugh, nod along, and maybe even breathe a sigh of relief as you hear real stories about diaper explosions at the pediatrician’s office, why that fancy wipe warmer didn’t make the cut, and how no two babies sleep the same (no matter how many blackout curtains you buy). You’ll also walk away with a few helpful tips and encouraging reminders to trust your gut, advocate for your baby, and give yourself some serious grace.

Whether you’re preparing for your first baby or are already knee-deep in motherhood, this episode will remind you that you're not alone and that you're doing better than you think. Because while the parenting manual may not exist, the messy magic of figuring it out together is something worth celebrating.

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“Motherhood after infertility is laced with an extra layer of guilt and shame and brokenness, but I'm here to tell you that motherhood after infertility means that the magical moments of motherhood are magnified and your love and joy stretch your heart to grow bigger and bigger.” –Stephanie Booe

Becoming a mom after infertility is a dream come true — but it’s also more complicated than anyone ever says out loud. In this honest episode of Messy Motherhood, Stephanie invites you to sit with her while she reveals the real, raw truth behind finally holding the baby you wished, prayed, and waited for.

Stephanie opens her heart about how her journey reshaped everything she thought she knew about parenting. You’ll hear her speak candidly about the guilt of craving alone time, the struggle to enjoy every moment, and the hidden pressures that linger long after pregnancy. She shares how postpartum anxiety and the weight of unrealistic expectations taught her that true motherhood isn’t about perfection — it’s about giving yourself the same compassion you give your children.

If you’ve walked your own path through infertility, you know the mix of gratitude and unexpected grief that can follow you into motherhood. This episode is a gentle reminder that it’s okay to hold space for both — the joy and the struggle, the love and the need to care for yourself, too. You’re not alone in feeling torn between soaking up every moment and needing a break. Let Stephanie’s honest reflections remind you that your journey is valid, your feelings are real, and there’s so much beauty to be found in your own perfectly imperfect motherhood.

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“Technology is great, but it’s more so a tool than a toy.” –Stephanie Booe

Is screen time in your home a helpful tool or just another distraction? In this episode of Messy Motherhood, Stephanie invites you to take a deep breath and rethink how you can set healthy, realistic screen time boundaries for your kids—without guilt or pressure to be perfect. You’ll hear how her family’s ups and downs with screens turned into a journey of finding balance that actually works for real life.

Stephanie opens up about the small, relatable changes—like removing the TV from the living room and picking shows with intention - that helped transform screen time from a daily struggle to a mindful, intentional part of family life. You’ll walk away with simple ideas for creating screen-free pockets in your day, letting boredom spark creativity, and keeping technology in its place—as a tool, not the boss.

If you’ve ever felt alone in the messy world of parenting and screens, this episode is your reminder that you’re not. Tune in for honest stories, gentle encouragement, and practical strategies that help you feel more confident setting screen time boundaries that fit your family—one imperfect, intentional step at a time.

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“You think that things are falling apart, and then, all of a sudden, what you weren't expecting and what you weren't planning is better than what you could have planned all along, and that was absolutely beautiful.” –Stephanie Booe

Ready to embrace the beautiful chaos of family vacations? Join Stephanie for this relatable episode as she dives into their most recent family vacation to celebrate their 10 year wedding anniversary! You’ll hear memories of joy, frustrations, and peace on a perfectly imperfect family trip to the Outer Banks, North Carolina. Picture yourself driving sandy beaches, spotting wild ponies in Corolla, and chasing sunsets with your kids by your side.

Traveling with kids isn’t always easy but honestly, the best moments are rarely planned. You’ll hear relatable stories and honest truths about why there’s no “perfect age” for family travel — just different adventures for every stage of motherhood.

You’ll also pick up practical tips to make your next vacation with kids less stressful and more magical. From letting your kids help plan the fun to using creative “trip tickets” for daily adventures, you’ll discover simple ways to keep the whole family happy — and still sneak in some rest for yourself.

So pour a cup of coffee, hit play, and get inspired to plan your next family getaway. Here’s to finding joy in the mess, the memories, and the magical moments you’ll carry home long after the bags are unpacked.

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Ever wish you had a secret language to defuse tension, ask for space, or gently nudge your partner (or your kids) toward a better mood—all without starting something? In this episode, Stephanie spills the tea on one of her favorite relationship hacks: code words.

Originally introduced in premarital counseling, these playful words and phrases have become a total game-changer in their marriage and family life. From navigating tough conversations and high emotions to surviving the everyday chaos of parenting, Stephanie shares how using lighthearted language and inside jokes has helped them stay connected, calm, and in sync.

While this episode is mostly speaking about using code words with your partner, you'll also hear how Stephanie’s now introducing code words with her son Aspen to help manage tone and emotions—proving this communication tool isn’t just for couples, but for the whole family. Think of it as emotional regulation meets inside jokes... with real-life results.

If you're looking for a fresh, fun way to strengthen your communication, avoid meltdowns, and build more connection into your family rhythms, this episode will give you the inspiration (and laughs) to start your own secret language today.

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If your family life ever feels like a never-ending whirlwind, you’re not alone. For years, Stephanie and her husband Alex felt like they were just surviving the chaos—until they started a simple, game-changing ritual: the Sunday Night Meeting.

In this episode, Stephanie invites you into their weekly routine that’s brought clarity, peace, and deeper connection to their marriage and home. Every Sunday night, once the kids are asleep, they pour a cup of tea and sit down to plan, pray, and prepare for the week ahead. What began as a way to get organized has become a cornerstone of their relationship.

You’ll hear exactly how they make it work—from using shared digital calendars and physical planners, to having meaningful conversations that keep their hearts aligned, not just their schedules. Stephanie also shares how they keep it fun and life-giving, even when life feels overwhelming.

Whether you’re looking to improve communication with your partner, stay on top of family logistics, or create more intentional time together, this episode offers a hopeful, practical look at what’s possible when you commit to connecting consistently. And remember—it doesn’t have to be perfect to be powerful. Consider this your gentle nudge to try something new, and make it your own.

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What if your weekly meal prep could feel less like a chore—and more like a playdate for both you and your kids?

In this uplifting episode, Stephanie teams up with her dear friend Allie, a certified Nutritional Therapy Practitioner and stay-at-home mom, to share how they transformed ordinary meal prep into a meaningful weekly ritual filled with laughter, real-life chaos, and deep connection. Between the sounds of kids playing in the background and veggies hitting the cutting board, their kitchen became a place for devotion, friendship, creativity, and a whole lot of joy.

Together, they reveal their go-to tips for planning a successful meal prep playdate: from organizing joint shopping trips and sharing recipes, to minimizing food waste and keeping the little ones entertained. No Pinterest-perfect moments here—just real moms finding rhythm in the mess.

You’ll also hear some honest, funny behind-the-scenes stories (like a yogurt bark fail that still makes them laugh), plus simple ways to build your own version of this community-focused routine—no culinary skills required.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by meal prep or lonely in motherhood, this episode will remind you that nourishment isn’t just about food—it’s about connection, too. So pull up a seat at our kitchen table and join us for this fun conversation about one of our favorite days of the week!

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For this vulnerable conversation, Stephanie Booe is joined by her husband, Alex, to share their intimate and emotional story about their deeply personal infertility journey. From the early days of marriage in 2015 and dreaming of a big family, to facing the painful realities of unexplained infertility, IVF, and IUI—this is a raw, honest look into the emotional, physical, and spiritual toll of trying to conceive.

Together, Stephanie and Alex open up about navigating dismissive doctors, the shock of unmet expectations, and the heavy emotional weight that infertility silently carries. Their story is filled with vulnerable moments—awkward appointments, repeated disappointments, and hard conversations—as well as glimmers of humor, hope, and unshakable love.

Whether you’re in the midst of fertility treatments, have walked this path before, or love someone who is, this episode is a reminder that you’re not alone. Stephanie and Alex dive into the realities of IVF and IUI, embryo transfers, egg retrievals, and the journey of freezing embryos. They also share how their faith, discussions around adoption, and holistic wellness approaches shaped their perspective and deepened their resilience as a couple.

This is a story about more than just fertility—it's about grief, growth, and finding magic in the mess. Tune in for encouragement, solidarity, and the power of sharing the often-unspoken parts of paths to parenthood.

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“You Were Worth the Wait” Children’s Book

Welcome to the very first episode of The Messy Motherhood Podcast, a space created just for you — the mom who’s doing her best, loving hard, and learning to find magic in the mess.

In this heartfelt introductory episode, host Stephanie Booe invites you to pull up a seat on her yellow submarine couch and get cozy, maybe even with a hot cup of coffee in hand! She’s opening up about the real-life moments that inspired this podcast — from the rollercoaster of infertility and IVF, to the joy (and occasional chaos) of raising two energetic boys and we can’t forget about their family dog, Timber.

You’ll hear stories about the messy middle of motherhood, the honest ups and downs of a 10-year marriage to her husband Alex, and the ways they’ve learned to prioritize joy, even in the thick of everyday life. Stephanie also shares how her journey — rooted in faith, writing, and resilience — led her to build a vibrant online community that supports and uplifts other moms like you.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re the only one navigating motherhood’s messy moments, this episode is your reminder: you’re not alone. This is your space to feel seen, supported, and inspired. Because here, we believe in finding magic in the mess — together.

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“You Were Worth the Wait” Children’s Book