The circumstances that you might be concerned about are legitimate. So, why make things worse by not taking action and making plans to handle what you're facing? This will help you gain a sense of control rather than a sense of worry.

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Just call it for what it is. Don't feel bad about it. It's not your identity, it's just a habit. It's just a behavior and a way of thinking that you've acquired over time. Don't take possession of it anymore because you can change it. You can lose the worry, but first you have to stop identifying with and defending it.

We worry because we don't have control, or feel like we don't have control. Therefore, to the degree that you can increase a sense of control, you will minimize your worry.

People will find a reason to worry. It's a habit. A habit of thought. Well, habits are created. You didn't come out of the womb this way. This is learned behavior. You didn't get there overnight. You're certainly not going to get out of it overnight. But it can happen a lot quicker than you think if you are proactive.

Peak performances is focusing on what did I do today and how well did I do it? What we want to get you to is to where all you are focused on is today. Today, I got done what I needed to get done to achieve my goals, and I did it the best way possible.

The best way to get over your past is to focus on peak performance. I'm talking about what you do on a daily basis, action wise, that creates the goals of the physical success that you want. You are going to find the healing and the restoration that you're looking for by living the life that you would've lived had nothing bad ever happened to you.

Everything that you're looking for, in terms of your personal transformation, is going be found, not by searching the past, asking questions, like, "Why? Why did this happen?" But by you focusing daily on what it takes to live your best life and achieve success.

We refuse ourselves the permission to move forward in our lives because of what happened, but you have to shift from focusing on self-improvement as simply getting over something, into performance. It's time for you to discover the attitude of peak performance.

The problem that we have getting over the pain of the past is that we focus so much on it. How are you ever going to get over the past if you're still living in it? The best way to get over your past is to create a future that looks like payback for the past. You still have the power to become everything you've ever had the potential to be. Your life is not over yet. Change can begin today.