We talk about:

- Going from monogamy to sharing deeply to divorce to partnership

- Deep diving into polyamory

- Deep diving into the BDSM scene in North Carolina

- Sweetness's husband moving in with someone else

- Staying married through metamors and changing living situation

- Briana "there's these huge shifts that happen in our relationships.

And, um, often they go on an acknowledged"

Sweetness: "we realize that we're not, we're not the same people that we were at different points of our marriage"

• Shifting financial entanglements along with the domestic ones
• Changing body sizes and coming to terms with shame and being fat

Briana: And we have a cultural story about self sacrifice, right? That's what mothers should be doing. And it's horseshit."

• Being sex positive and having grandkids
• Being anxious being at a sex-cation
• Stereotypes in the swinger community and in coming to Desire
• Partner who is gender non-conforming
• Dealing with not being able to find clothes and lingerie that fit well.
• And much much more!
• Resources:

  Resources: "The Ethical Slut: by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy https://www.akpress.org/ethicalslut.html

  More Than Two https://www.morethantwo.com/

  Tristan Taormino http://tristantaormino.com/ "Sex Out Loud" podcast

  Life on the Swingset https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/category/podcast/swingset/