If the title of this episode made you feel attacked - then you're the person that needs to listen the most. 

In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are tackling one of the biggest relationship killers—defensiveness. You'll hear raw, personal stories from their early life and marriage as they share practical advice—including how to recognize when YOU'RE the defensive one (even if you don't think you are), and how to listen to what people are saying without going into battle mode. 

If you're tired of always feeling like your walls are up or fighting with a loved one who never listens, this conversation will help you break through the defensive barrier and build stronger, happier relationships.

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What does living in daily victory really look like? In today's episode, Richelle Alessi invites us to reflect on the incredible gift of the resurrection and how it impacts our lives every single day. Together, we'll explore what it means to walk as conquerors through Christ, not just in moments of struggle, but in every aspect of our journey. We'll celebrate gratitude for the work God has done—not only in our personal stories, but in the greater story of His victory over sin and death.

Come join our community in prayer and devotion as we lift our spirits and focus on living victoriously, rooted in Christ's love and resurrection power.

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What does it mean to be truly grateful for redemption? In today’s episode, Richelle Alessi invites us to reflect on the gift of redemption through Jesus—reminding us that forgiveness isn’t just a distant hope, but a present reality available to us every day. Together, we’ll explore Ephesians 1:7, the richness of God’s grace, and how we can live each day with a spirit of gratitude for the forgiveness and renewal offered by Christ.

Join our community in prayer and devotion as we celebrate this life-changing grace and learn how to embrace thankfulness for God’s redemptive love.

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Can you recall a moment when the beauty of nature left you truly in awe? In today’s episode, Richelle Alessi leads us as we reflect on Psalm 19:1 and the incredible ways creation itself declares the glory of God. As a community, we’ll explore how every living thing—skies, oceans, mountains, and even ourselves—points back to the Creator’s handiwork. We’ll learn how cultivating gratefulness for what God has done can transform our perspective, especially as we enter the Thanksgiving season.

Join us for this uplifting devotional and unite in prayer and gratitude, thanking God for His beautiful creation and His goodness in our lives.

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How do we find peace knowing that God is both just and merciful? In today's episode, Gaby Calatayud guide us through the "Perfect Balance" of God's character, exploring how justice and mercy work hand in hand at the very foundation of His throne. Together, we'll reflect on Psalms 89:14 and discover how righteousness, love, and faithfulness reveal God's unchanging nature—even when life gets busy and confusing.

Let's join in a spirit of gratitude as we pray and devote ourselves to trusting God's perfect ways, asking Him to show us what is truly just, merciful, and faithful in our daily lives.

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Think a pastor's family is easier to handle at the holidays? Um.... maybe not.

One thing you'll see in The Family Business is the 'real deal' - and being pastors doesn't mean your family sets the perfect example of how to behave at family gatherings.

Episode 8, Season 5 opens the door to a bunch of these crazy memories - one, so you won't feel alone if your family has some major issues, and two - so that you can plan to avoid the drama and keep your peace and sanity during this busy season! Catch it wherever you get your podcasts!

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Can you remember a time when you held onto a promise, hoping for an answer? In today's episode, host Gaby Calatayud invites us to reflect on God's faithfulness and the certainty we find in His promises. We'll explore together what it means to live in a "yes and Amen" season—trusting that every promise from God is fulfilled in Christ, even when it looks different than we expected. Through personal stories and encouragement drawn from 2 Corinthians 1:18-20, we'll learn how our response to God's "yes" can be a confident "Amen," grounded in gratitude and trust.

Join our community in prayer and devotion as we thank God for His unwavering faithfulness and agree together: if He said it, we believe it.

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NEW TO MY MORNING DEVOTIONAL?

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We're the Alessis, a ministry family working together in a church in Miami, FL, and we're so blessed to partner with the My Morning Devotional community and continue the great work done by the show's creator and our friend, Alison Delamota.

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In this week's episode, you'll learn how to avoid feeling stressed during the holidays as the Alessis share their best tips for navigating the most wonderful (and sometimes most pressure-filled) time of the year.

You'll learn some practical points, from dealing with difficult family members to blending different cultural traditions, and share practical advice on how to plan ahead so you can actually enjoy the holidays, not just survive them. Whether you're juggling new in-laws, missing a loved one who passed away, or trying to figure out how to keep everyone happy, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and hilarious family stories that will have you laughing out loud.

00:00 Introduction

01:30 The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

04:15 The Importance of Planning Ahead

06:23 Navigating Seasonal Changes and Loss

08:56 Dealing with “High Conflict” Family Members

11:07 Setting Expectations with New In-Laws

15:30 Advice for Singles During the Holidays

19:14 Creative Solutions for Multi-Family Gatherings

22:46 Blending Cultural Traditions at the Table

28:01 Funny Holiday Memories and Disasters

40:05 Christmas in Miami

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Ready or not - the holidays are here...

...and if you're already feeling the pressure, we're here to help! 

In this week's episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are getting into the holiday spirit early and sharing their best tips for navigating the most wonderful (and sometimes most stressful) time of the year. They discuss everything from dealing with difficult family members to blending different cultural traditions, and share practical advice on how to plan ahead so you can actually enjoy the holidays, not just survive them. 

Whether you're juggling new in-laws, missing a loved one who passed away, or trying to figure out how to keep everyone happy, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and hilarious family stories that will have you laughing out loud. 

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