Midlifing

Midlifing

By Lee Miller and Simon EllisSociety & Culture
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Midlifing episodes

  • 100: That wasn't Tammy Wynette that was me

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    In this bumper episode Lee and Simon talk through what they've learned (about each) over the last 99 episodes (plus a few other things).

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    Related links (and necessary corrections):

    • Gen Z never learned to read cursive: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2022/10/gen-z-handwriting-teaching-cursive-history/671246/
    • Liz Truss and hitting the ground: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/liz-truss-hit-the-ground_uk_62d81f2ee4b000da23facac2
    • BBC local radio interviews with Liz Truss: https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2022/sep/29/disastrous-liz-truss-interviews-bbc-local-radio-packs-punch-analysis
    • Being Mortal: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Being_Mortal
    • Yvon Chouinard and ownership of Patagonia: https://www.patagonia.com/ownership/

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    52 min
  • 99: Roll titles

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    Things get a little strange this week. It carries on from Episode 98 in a conversation about comedy and class, but the best bits don't even belong to Lee and Simon.

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    Related links (and necessary corrections):

    • The comic strip presents: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_The_Comic_Strip_Presents..._episodes
    • Victoria Wood Things Would Never Have Worked: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zB0yS7eAhRo
    • Victoria Wood meta sketch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bwGjyD6vO6Y
    • Victoria Wood in Marjorie and Joan sketch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ndxG8g6U_0I
    • Kath and Kim: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kath_&_Kim
    • Forced Entertainment: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Forced_Entertainment
    • Victoria Wood: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victoria_Wood
    • Death of Prince and Bowie: https://www.stuff.co.nz/entertainment/celebrities/79480445/purple-pain-why-the-deaths-of-prince-and-bowie-cut-us-so-deep
    • Bob and Lee's PhD: https://www.bristol.ac.uk/parip/PhD_ab_boblee.htm

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    28 min
  • 98: Eric Serra is going to be so happy

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    In an attempt to reach brand new levels of banality, Lee and Simon talk about nothing in particular (but different than the week before) before trying to remember Natalie Portman's name and a bunch of other film things. They end up in a conversation about taste and just how personal it really is.

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    Related links (and necessary corrections):

    • David Beckham queuing to see Queen lying-in-state: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/video/2022/sep/16/david-beckham-joins-queue-for-queens-lying-in-state-video
    • She hulk Deadpool thingy: https://www.gamesradar.com/she-hulk-episode-5-credits-deadpool-thing/
    • Bunch of other films that you can look up yourselves.
    • Onion article about The Queen's death: https://www.theonion.com/note-do-not-run-until-fucking-queen-is-dead-or-people-1849511595

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    26 min
  • 97: He's no Mads Mikkelsen

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    Simon and Lee talk about benevolent dictatorships and what they are supposed to be feeling while living in a country in mourning.

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    Related links (and necessary corrections):

    • Finnish Prime Minister Sanna Marin dancing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-XwhH-_lVc
    • Theresa May dancing queen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbCDFNRA-Wo
    • Boris Johnson dancing at his wedding: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J0cViVgWfJQ
    • Lars Mikkelsen: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0586565/
    • William Wycherley's The Country Wife (restoration comedy): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Country_Wife
    • Uju Anya tweet story: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/stefficao/uju-anya-queen-elizabeth-death-tweet-reaction
    • Kirkegaard on being pulled between the finite and the infinite: https://bigthink.com/thinking/kierkegaard-finite-infinite-nothingness/
    • Boat hits whale in NZ: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-asia-62860778
    • Benevolent dictatorship: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benevolent_dictatorship
    • António de Oliveira Salazar: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/António_de_Oliveira_Salazar
    • Bear Gryll's adventure: https://www.beargryllsadventure.com

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    26 min
  • 96: Which one of you bitches is my mother?

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    Lee and Simon talk about making and responding to mistakes.

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    27 min
  • 95: A potato of doubt in your head

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    Lee and Simon talk about dealing with the news (or not dealing with it), enemies and helplessness.

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    Related links (and necessary corrections):

    • Psilocybin: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psilocybin
    • Fantastic Fungi: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fantastic_Fungi
    • France - friend or foe: https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-62687295
    • Gene Knudsen Hoffman on the enemy: https://newconversations.net/communication-skills-library-of-articles-and-teaching-materials/gene-knudsen-hoffman-articles/an-enemy-is-one-whose-story-we-have-not-heard/


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    25 min
  • 94: He threw himself on the grenade that is an iPhone

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    Simon and Lee discuss monogamy.

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    24 min
  • 93: Thumbs up for your trauma

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    Simon briefly talks about having to talk about how good he is, before they both fearlessly (or perhaps fearfully) dip their toes into one instance of the culture war.

    Get in touch with Lee and Simon at [email protected] or @midlifingpod on Instagram.

    Related links (and necessary corrections):

    • Gloria & Lil's Cafe: https://www.gloriaandlils.co.uk
    • Mika 'Grace Kelly' challenge: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYU3CqoJIx0
    • Research on masturbation and shota: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2022/aug/11/manchester-university-phd-masturbating-to-comics-of-young-boys
    • Shota: https://thewordcounter.com/meaning-of-shota/
    • Clark Moustakas and loneliness: https://archive.org/details/loneliness00mous
    • Fellatio keeps male fruit bats keen: https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn18077-fellatio-keeps-male-fruit-bats-keen/
    • How Gay Dead Duck Sex Was Discovered: https://www.livescience.com/28538-gay-duck-necrophilia.html
    • Drag Queen Story Time story: https://www.theguardian.com/culture/2022/aug/11/im-just-trying-to-make-the-world-a-little-brighter-how-the-culture-wars-hijacked-drag-queen-story-hour

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    28 min
  • 92: Here's someone who promised us the world

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    Lee recounts how he went to London to go clubbing and how it filled him with joy.

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    Related links (and necessary corrections):

    • Branko: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=branko+lisboa
    • The Jazz Cafe London: https://thejazzcafelondon.com
    • Quote by Maximilian (1843) as cited by Levi-Strauss and here attributed to Crow's Heart: https://mahtobay.com/history/
    • TikTok algorithm is pretty basic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nfczi2cI6Cs

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    28 min
  • 91: A testament to forgiveness

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    Simon and Lee discuss trust, friendship and taste.

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    Related links (and necessary corrections):

    • David Whyte's Consolations: https://davidwhyte.com/pages/consolations
    • Magnetic fridge poetry: https://boredhumans.com/fridge_poetry.php
    • UFC fighter Paddy Pimblett discussing men's mental health: https://youtu.be/19IPBCxh9ls

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    26 min

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Two friends Lee and Simon have serious conversations about silly things, and silly conversations about serious things. Together they dig into the pleasures, absurdities and imperfections of being…