The waiting list. The transplant surgery. The donor. Compliance. Medications. In transplant world there's a lot of great info about the Big Stuff. Other things fall through the cracks - relationships, self-worth, passions, hobbies, identity. In this episode I share an overview of my 18 year journey to heart transplant, life interrupted repeatedly by procedures, hospitalizations, surgeries...the attrition sneaks up on us.