Having a truthful, loving, honest, support system is good for success, but not always needed. What's needed is having those things within yourself, to be all you need when who you thought people would be there for you in your time as your cheering section. Family is supposed to be that system, but what if you don't have it? Do you stop moving forward? No, you must learn to be what you need, because those who you thought was suppose to be there, may never learn or want to learn what it takes to be there for support. Sometimes it's because they are to busy trying to destroy all you are creating. In a secret competitions, the secret is that you don't know that they are in competition with you, but for what? When you are not doing what you do for competition, that's where many fail to be honest and true, anything that has those two subtracted, has no love. You must learn and know how to love and support you. Even around those who don't.