Many people out there are afraid to make their own decisions. They let others make the decision for them or they live in a state of indecision. 

This is a problem because you must learn to make your own decisions and be comfortable with them. 

In this episode, we will talk about how making your own decisions can help you improve yourself as a person. We will also talk about how making your own decisions can help you achieve success in life.

We Live in a world where people please others. 

I'm here to tell you to stop caring about what others think and start living your own life with/without others' approval. 

You need to start surrounding yourself with wolves and not sheep.

Most pull you down and only a few pull you up. 

In this episode, we will talk about how to surround yourself with those pushing you and not pulling you. 

You have to start saying no to people. 

Don't be a yes man, instead, start being a No Man and Living your dreams. 

Life is like a chess game. 

You Need To Think 2,3,4,5 moves ahead and stop focusing on the past move. 

Friendships are important. 

We all have different personalities and life goals, so it’s not surprising that our friendships are all different. 

Yet, it’s a common misconception that we should have a “friendship with everyone.” 

There’s a lot of pressure to have a best friend, a boyfriend or girlfriend, a girlfriend, a one night stand, a boss, a mentor, a colleague, a sibling, a sibling’s spouse, a parent, a child, a friend’s parent, a friend’s child, a best friend’s spouse, a best friend’s parent, a best friend’s child, a best friend’s.

But, we don't need any of that pressure. 

I used to be so worried about offending people. 

I worried about my words and the impression they left on people. 

But I realized that if I was friends with everyone, I wasn’t really friends with anyone. It was such a relief when I stopped trying to please everyone. 

Have you ever had a dream so big, so wild, so impossible, so fantastic, so crazy, so out of this world that it seemed impossible to you that it might ever come true? 

We all have such dreams. 

We all hope. 

We all wish. 

We all want. 

But what's the point of wishing if your wish never comes true? 

I am here to tell you that dreams really do come true. I am living proof. 

And I’m here to tell you that no matter how outrageous, no matter how impossible, no matter how improbable, no matter how hare-brained your dream is – if you want it bad enough and you’re willing to work for it, it will happen

Sometimes, when I’m feeling down or when I’m in a funk, I’ll think about the people who need me to win, and I’ll remember that, no matter how I feel, I can’t let them down.

I’ve been thinking a lot about this recently. And I’ve been thinking about how much I need you.

We all need each other to win.

You’re destined to live a life that’s not just about your own happiness, but the happiness of those around you. 

But what if you don’t know what you’re fighting for? 

How do you know your purpose? 

How do you know your calling? 

The truth is, you don’t know. 

But you can make a guess.

Once upon a time, you were a little kid and you had dreams.

And then reality set in: bills, jobs, responsibilities, and all those pesky other things called life.

But do you still want those things?

What do you want? What do you want to be?

And what would you do if you accomplished it all tomorrow?