We are mere human beings who are engaged in a Warfare every passing second with Spiritual forces, therefore we are in need of spiritual assistance; ask Our Father for the gift of the holy Spirit and it shall be given, Jesus said so on Luke 11:9-13

From today look at the the bad things which torment you on a constant basis and recognize them as thorns that keep you in Gods feet where we truly belong.

Being nice and having privileges are all gifts from God. Give them back to him by acknowledging him in all that you do and then they will be yours.

Lets really consider the scripture Matthew 13 : 24. Who is the " man" ? , who is the "good seed" ? Where is the " field", who is the "enemy"?