Some of the traits that helped you succeed, stay safe, or fit in earlier in life may now be the very things exhausting you.

In today’s episode, Cecelia explores how behaviors we often label as “self‑sabotage” are actually intelligent survival strategies that once served a purpose. Perfectionism, people‑pleasing, staying quiet, overthinking, or pushing through fatigue didn’t come out of nowhere; they were adaptations your brain learned to keep you safe. The problem isn’t that you’re broken; the problem is that your nervous system is still running old code. This episode is about shifting out of self‑blame and into self‑partnership, learning how to work with your brain instead of forcing change through willpower. When you understand where a behavior came from, you can finally let it soften, update, and release.

1. Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
2. The 5-minute shift
3. The Life Lab
4. The Life Series
5. 1:1 Coaching
6. Let’s work together

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The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

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You already know what to do, but you’re still not doing it. Sound familiar?

In this episode, Cecelia explains the frustrating gap between awareness and action, and why more information isn’t the answer. If you’ve ever wondered why you're not making progress despite all the books, podcasts, and insights you’ve gathered, it’s likely your nervous system (not your willpower) that’s in charge. This conversation explores what’s really keeping high-achieving women stuck and how to stop blaming yourself and start working with your body and beliefs instead.

1. Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
2. The 5-minute shift
3. The Life Lab
4. The Life Series
5. 1:1 Coaching
6. Let’s work together

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

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The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

Why is it so hard to follow through, even when we want to?

In this episode, Cecelia unpacks the quiet, persistent question so many high-achieving women carry into the new year: “Why can’t I get it together?” If your life looks fine on the outside but still feels like a struggle, this episode will shift how you see yourself and your goals. Cecelia reveals how outdated beliefs and a protective nervous system (not a lack of willpower) might be behind the resistance, and how learning to work with yourself rather than against yourself can unlock a whole new way forward.

Resources:

1. Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
2. The 5-minute shift
3. The Life Lab
4. The Life Series
5. 1:1 Coaching

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

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The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

What does it really mean to become the woman who can hold the life she wants? In this final episode of the three-part series, Cecelia explores the identity work that sits at the heart of everything—the shift from who you've been told you are to who you're actually becoming. Most of the identities you carry (I'm too much, I'm not enough, I'm behind, I'm inconsistent) were never yours to begin with. They were handed to you by people, workplaces, cultures, and moments that needed you to be someone safe and acceptable. But those old identities are keeping you stuck in a past version of yourself and your work isn't to fight them, but to forgive them so you can release them with love. Cecelia shares her own stories of identity shifts (including a powerful moment on her yoga mat where she decided to stop listening to the old thoughts as truth) and walks you through what it really takes to expand into a larger life. This isn't about becoming someone new—it's about returning to yourself, choosing the future version of you over the past one, and building the capacity to feel and hold more goodness, more alignment, more you. If you've been waiting for permission to step into the woman you're becoming, this episode is it.

Resources:

• Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
• The 5-minute shift
• The Life Lab
• The Life Series
• 1:1 Coaching

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

Learn more about The 5-Minute Shift mini course, a brain-based approach to feeling better now. It’s on sale for $29!

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

What if there’s a third way to grow, one that doesn’t burn you out or make you disappear from your own life?

In this episode, Cecelia shares a deeply personal perspective on what happens when the only options we know are hustle or hiding. If you've ever felt caught between pushing too hard or pulling away completely, this conversation offers something softer. Something truer. Cecelia introduces the “third way,” a compassionate path to growth rooted in nervous system safety, self-trust, and clarity, not force. This is for anyone who’s ever thought, “There has to be another way.

Resources:

• Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
• The 5-minute shift
• The Life Lab
• The Life Series
• 1:1 Coaching

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

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The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

Have you ever caught yourself saying "I don't know what I want"—whether it's about dinner, your career, or the direction of your life? In this episode, Cecelia unpacks why this common phrase isn't actually about confusion, it's about protection. Starting with the seemingly small moment of choosing what to eat for dinner, Cecelia reveals how those tiny moments of self-abandonment add up to a larger pattern of silencing our own desires. She shares her own story of leaving a successful career in oil and gas, and why she genuinely believed she didn't know what she wanted (spoiler: she knew, she just didn't feel safe admitting it). This episode explores why your nervous system may have learned that it's safer to disconnect from your desires than to honor them—and how you can begin creating the conditions for your true wants to emerge. If you've ever felt disconnected from yourself or struggled to name what you really want, this episode will help you understand why and remind you that nothing is wrong with you.

Register for the Becoming Her 2026 workshop here.

Resources:

• Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
• The 5-minute shift
• The Life Lab
• The Life Series
• 1:1 Coaching

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

Learn more about The 5-Minute Shift mini course, a brain-based approach to feeling better now. It’s on sale for $29!

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

You’ve probably told yourself you're just “bad at staying organized.” Maybe you've bought the planner, downloaded the app, tried all the systems, and still nothing sticks. In this episode, I’m sharing what’s actually behind that cycle (hint: it’s not laziness or lack of discipline). We’ll explore the deeper reasons your brain resists change, the link between self-concept and organization, and why safety (not systems) must come first. If you want 2026 to feel different, this is where you begin.

• Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
• The 5-minute shift
• The Life Lab
• The Life Series
• 1:1 Coaching
• Let’s work together

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

Learn more about The 5-Minute Shift mini course, a brain-based approach to feeling better now. It’s on sale for $29!

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

If you’ve ever snapped at your kids, forgotten what you were doing mid-task, or felt like a completely different person depending on the day, this episode is for you. 

Cecelia shares how your nervous system is quietly running everything in the background of your life: your moods, your patience, your productivity, your clarity. And more importantly, how to work with it instead of against it. Cecelia guides you through how nervous system regulation can change your inner dialogue, your relationships, and your entire sense of self. You don’t need a retreat or a perfect routine. Just a few real tools to help your system feel safer, one moment at a time.

• Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
• The 5-minute shift
• The Life Lab
• The Life Series
• 1:1 Coaching
• Let’s work together

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

Learn more about The 5-Minute Shift mini course, a brain-based approach to feeling better now. It’s on sale for $29!

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

What if the reason you struggle to rest isn’t because you’re undisciplined, but because your nervous system doesn’t feel safe doing it?

In this episode, Cecelia unpacks what’s really going on when rest feels impossible, even when you have the time. From unexpected 30-minute windows to full vacations, our brains often sabotage our rest with guilt, productivity loops, or inner voices whispering, “You should be doing something.” This isn’t about time management; it’s about identity, conditioning, and nervous system safety. If you’ve ever felt restless, anxious, or even guilty when trying to do nothing, this episode will help you understand why and how to start shifting your inner beliefs around rest.

• Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
• The 5-minute shift
• The Life Lab
• The Life Series
• 1:1 Coaching
• Let’s work together

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

Learn more about The 5-Minute Shift mini course, a brain-based approach to feeling better now. It’s on sale for $29!

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

What if your brain is agreeing with everything you believe, even when it’s not helpful? 

In this episode, Cecelia unpacks the way your thoughts shape your reality, and how your brain’s “yes-woman” tendencies can quietly reinforce stress, resentment, or self-doubt. From parenting to the holidays to aging, she shares real stories (and science) to show how your reticular activating system filters the world through what you already think is true. The good news is that you can soften those beliefs (without toxic positivity) and create more peace, ease, and support in your everyday life.

• Instagram: @ceceliabmandryk
• The 5-minute shift
• The Life Lab
• The Life Series
• 1:1 Coaching
• Let’s work together

Mentioned in this episode:

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course

Learn more about The 5-Minute Shift mini course, a brain-based approach to feeling better now. It’s on sale for $29!

The 5-Minute Shift Mini Course