Sometimes when you're invited know that you're still not welcome so learn to mind your business.. The host might not let you in and so he or she might or will keep giving you reasons to learn how best to mind your business!!!! .... You need to be sure that your trying to help out won't cause any pain that will make you regret your actions, don't be like Ibeekaymii who learnt this lesson in a very hard way, once in a while look away and MIND YOUR BUSINESS