In the kink world a mindf*ck involves ethically using mental manipulation to bend a bottom's reality. Whether it's the subtle twisting of details to enhance a sensory experience or an elaborate rouse akin to an erotic practical joke, minf*cks can greatly enhance kink & role play. On ep 146 Sir Ezra deconstructs this psychological tool. Learn why mindf*cking gets a bad wrap, what steps to follow when executing a mindf*ck, and hear about real-world examples used in kink scenes. We also discuss how to remain ethical when topping, plus how during vetting, negotiation, and play you can spot red flags in partners using these techniques for malicious manipulation and harmful deceit.

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Episode 146 Links

• Sir Ezra Website http://whatsinmykinky.com/
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• Virtual Dom(me) Support Group 11/18 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/domme-support-group-tickets-122446241003
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