Mindful Conversations with KAY

Mindful Conversations with KAY

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Mindful Conversations with KAY episodes

  • A conversation with Deven Sisler, author of The Yamas in Pajamas

    Deven Sisler has been teaching yoga and meditation to children and families internationally since 2005 as well as offering kids yoga teacher trainings since 2016. She loves sharing the tools of yoga with people of all ages and believes that everyone can benefit from investigating kindness, honesty, generosity, wisdom, and self-liberation.


    Deven joins Kristi and Kelly on this week's episode of Mindful Conversations with KAY to discuss her new book, The Yamas In Pajamas: A Guide to Yoga for Kids and Their Adults, which dives deeper into the first limb of yoga for kids in a fun and accessible way. Each chapter includes reflections, guided meditations, breathing exercises, journal prompts, some activities, and mindful movements or body shapes for each Yama, so kids and their adults can experientially explore these concepts. Listen in as Deven shares more about:

    1. Her personal journey with yoga and meditation

    2. Her background in theater, circus, and clowning

    3. Shifting her approach to teaching yoga to kids

    4. Her inspiration for her book and plans for her next one

    5. Her experience bringing the practice of yoga into schools and adjustments to make it suitable for all environments

    6. Deven reminds us that the practice of yoga is available anytime, anywhere...even in our pajamas!


      The Yamas in Pajamas is available at Target and Amazon, or purchase a signed copy directly from her website.


      Connect with Deven: www.devensisleryoga.com

      IG: https://www.instagram.com/DevenSislerYoga

      FB: https://www.facebook.com/DevenSislerYoga


      For further reading and learning:


      Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships, by Marshall Rosenberg

      The Secret Power of Yoga, by Nischala Joy Devi



      38 min
    7. Relationships - Part 3 Adult-child

      “When little people are overwhelmed by big emotions, it's our job to share our calm, not join their chaos.” ~L.R. Knost


      From the moment they’re born, children need safe, consistent, and responsive relationships with the adults around them. Most often, the primary relationship is with a parent, however other adults, such as grandparents and teachers, play a crucial role in a child's overall development and well-being.


      Through stable relationships with caring adults, children are able to develop a sense of trust and safety in the world around them. They learn to regulate their emotions, foster positive relationships with others, and develop a strong sense of self.


      In this week's episode of Mindful Conversations with KAY, Kelly & Kristi continue the conversation about mindful relationships with a focus on adult-child relationships.


      Tune in as Kelly & Kristi dive deeper into the topic, including:

      1. practicing mindfulness in our reactions

      2. how behavior is most often a communication of a need

      3. the importance of co-regulation to support children during challenging moments at home and in the classroom

      4. releasing the ideal of the "perfect' parent or teacher

      5. the role of repair


      6. This episode is part of a series. Be sure to tune in all month for thoughtful conversations about relationships.


        For further reading & learning:


        Nurturing Healthy Relationships in Children through Yoga and Mindfulness: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/nurturing-healthy-relationships-in-children-through-yoga-and-mindfulness


        Whether you are a parent, caregiver or educator, you can introduce the power and peace of traditional mindfulness practices into daily routine.

        Parents, check out Mindful Parenting: https://learn.kiddingaroundyoga.com/p/mindful-parenting.


        Teachers, check outEduKAY Online: https://learn.kiddingaroundyoga.com/p/edu-kay-online


        26 min
      7. Mindful Relationships Part 2- Friendships

        If you think back over the course of your life, you can probably name different friends from different periods of your life. You may even have certain friends that you rarely see but, when you do, it seems like no time has passed at all. And, if you're lucky, you are still in contact with a childhood best friend. Through school, sports, our neighborhoods, and more, we'll cross paths with many people and these people will have a tremendous impact on our wellbeing. This week, we continue our series on relationships with a focus on another influential relationship: friendships.


        Friendships are an important part of childhood and growing up. They build a child’s sense of belonging and significance in their world, make a child feel cared for and cared about, and in turn teach them how to care for others. Healthy friendships play a key role in a child’s emotional growth and their development of important life skills.


        Tune in this week as Kelly & Kristi discuss the importance of connecting with others and how we can support and nurture meaningful friendships for our children, such as:


        1. Exploring new interests through friendships

        2. Exposing children to different people through different activities

        3. Accepting that friendships ebb and flow and using that space to create new relationships

        4. Encouraging children to make in person connections with the prevalence of text messaging and electronics

        5. Helping children understand what a good friendship looks and feels like in themselves and others


        6. This episode is part of a series. Be sure to tune in all month for thoughtful conversations about relationships.


          For further reading & learning:


          Building Friendships through Yoga: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/yoga-friends-community-health-kids


          Social Emotional Learning – Yoga and Emotional Intelligence" https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-social-emotional-learning-sel/


          Sangha: A Community of Yoga Kids: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-community-team-sangha/


          Introduce the power and peace of traditional mindfulness practices into your family's daily routine with our course, Mindful Parenting: https://learn.kiddingaroundyoga.com/p/mindful-parenting.

          25 min
        7. Relationships Series Part 1: Connection to Self

          This week, we kick off a new series on relationships and the role of mindfulness in relationships. Kelly and Kristi begin the conversation with the most important relationship: the one we have with ourselves.


          Self-connection means knowing and accepting who you truly are, including strengths and weaknesses. It's about being in tune with your emotions and thoughts without judgment. It means developing self-compassion, self-acceptance and allowing growth. Young or old, having a deep relationship with oneself is vital to a balanced and fulfilling life.


          Tune in this week as Kelly & Kristi share their personal experiences with self-connection and offer suggestions including:


          1. Encouraging children to be curious and try new things

          2. Giving children the space to make choices, and mistakes

          3. Being careful not to label, but rather focus on effort and the ability to be brave

          4. How a yoga and meditation practice can support our self-connection at any age

          5. The important of understanding and accepting ourselves to build strong , meaningful relationships with others.


          6. This episode is part of a series. Be sure to tune in all month for thoughtful conversations about relationships.


            For further reading & learning:


            Yoga Builds Self Esteem: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/self-esteem-yoga-kids-children


            Modeling Self Care: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/modeling-self-care/


            Building Self-Confidence Through Yoga and Mindfulness: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/building-self-confidence-through-yoga-and-mindfulness/


            Introduce the power and peace of traditional mindfulness practices into your family's daily routine withour course, Mindful Parentig: https://learn.kiddingaroundyoga.com/p/mindful-parenting.

            22 min
          7. Mindful Transitions Part 4 - High School

            Transitioning to high school is a big change for teens. As they enter another new building, with new teachers and peers, they'll gain greater independence and access to a wider range of classes and activities. They'll also be faced with more academic and social pressure as well as pressure to start thinking about the future (...ready or not!).


            Like the previous school transitions, you can expect feelings of both excitement and anticipation. As parents and caregivers, there are many steps we can take to help kids adjust to the new school environment and academic standards. In this episode of Mindful Conversation with KAY podcast, Kelly and Kristi conclude the conversation about mindful transitions with the final move to high school.


            Listen in as the discuss:

            1. How high school presents a time for growth and exploration

            2. Tips and techniques for practicing mindfulness — even when there's resistance

            3. Emphasis on encouraging kids to trust their gut

            4. The importance of staying grounded and present for both kids and caregivers

            5. The balance between staying connected but also providing space


            6. This episode is part of a series so be sure to listen Part 1: The First School Experience, Part 2: The Start of Kindergarten and Part 3: Middle School for more engaging conversations and suggestions.


              For further reading & learning:


              Meditation in the High School Classroom: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-meditation-high-school-teens/


              Reconnecting to your Family with Yoga: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/family-yoga-connect-children-parents/


              Intuition: Learning to listen to our inner voice as a guide: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kidding-around-yoga/episodes/Intuition--learning-to-listen-to-our-inner-voice-as-a-guide-e234kmd


              To gain more knowledge and practical skills to teach yoga and meditation to this age group, check out Teen KAY: https://learn.kiddingaroundyoga.com/p/teen-kay


              20 min
            7. Mindful Transitions Part 3 - Middle School

              The transition to middle school is a big step on the road to maturity. Regardless of what specific grade marks the beginning of middle school in your community, your child may be feeling both excited and afraid. (And you, too!) The transition is often complex. As young adolescents are changing school buildings they are also changing hormonally, mentally, and physically, but like all transitions, with some advance planning and open discussions, you can substantially ease your child's mind and ensure a smooth shift into this new space.


              In this episode of Mindful Conversation with KAY podcast, Kelly and Kristi continue the conversation about transitions with the 'big leap' from elementary to middle school. Listen in as the discuss:

              1. Being your child's mentor and sounding board

              2. Supporting your child's independences and boosting their sense of responsibility

              3. Understanding potential concerns your child may be having

              4. Establishing a yoga practice to support the physical changes


              5. This episode is part of a series so be sure to listen Part 1: The First School Experience & Part 2: The Start of Kindergarten for more thoughtful conversations and suggestions.


                For further reading & learning:


                Connecting with Teens through Yoga: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-teens-children-tweens-meditation/


                Social Emotional Learning - Yoga and Emotional Intelligence: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-social-emotional-learning-sel/


                Virtual Workshop: Pre-Teen Yoga: How to Adapt a Kids Yoga Class for Growing Yogis: https://learn.kiddingaroundyoga.com/p/how-to-adapt-a-kids-yoga-class-for-growing-yogis


                To gain more knowledge and practical skills to teach yoga and meditation to this age group, check out Teen KAY: https://learn.kiddingaroundyoga.com/p/teen-kay


                22 min
              6. Mindful Transitions Part 2- The Start of Kindergarten

                The start of kindergarten is a major milestone in the lives of young children, maybe the biggest one! The start of kindergarten can be a stressful time for your child as they enter a world filled with new rules and routines. Longer days, academic expectations, eating lunch independently and navigating a new school building can bring about feelings of excitement as well as fear for children and families. In this episode of Mindful Conversation with KAY podcast, Kelly and Kristi share and review ideas to help your child feel safe and secure during this transitional time. These include:

                1. Practicing routines ahead of time

                2. Be mindful of 'morning stress'

                3. Focus on connection before school and re-connection after school

                4. Reach out to the teacher if possible to share any 'special needs'


                5. This episode is part of a series so be sure to listen Part 1: The First School Experience for more thoughtful suggestions.


                  For further reading & learning:

                  Why Should Children Practice Yoga? https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-children-benefits/


                  Kids Can Blow Their Worries Away https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-can-blow-worries-away-pranayama/


                  Every Little Cell in my Body is Happy https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/every-little-cell-body/

                  23 min
                6. Mindful Transitions: Part 1 The First School Experience

                  Change is hard regardless of age, but children particularly struggle with transitions. Especially the big ones like heading off to preschool for the first time. They may be leaving you for the first time and entering a new space with a whole new set of rules and expectations. Exciting? Yes. Scary? Of course! As parents and caregivers, there are many steps we can take ahead of time to make this transitions as smooth and tear-free as possible.


                  In this episode of Mindful Conversation with KAY podcast, Kelly and Kristi kick off a new series on age-based transitions and share simple mindful strategies and techniques for transitioning to preschool:

                  1. Preparing ourselves as caregivers by staying present and regulates

                  2. Validating our child's experiences and exploring both emotional and physical feelings

                  3. Establishing a "Goodbye Routine" for connection... don't "sneak" out!

                  4. Visualization practices to ease feelings of the unknown

                  5. Tools for the ride to school to keep them present and engaged


                  6. For further reading & learning:


                    Anxiety in our Children: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/anxiety-in-our-children/


                    Calming Anxiety in Children with Yoga: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/anxiety-children-yoga-breathing/


                    Yoga in the Car Line: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-car/


                    Creating Space For Children to Regulate Their Energy and Emotions: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/creating-space-for-children-to-regulate-their-energy-and-emotions/


                    Find many more mindful strategies like these for this age group in our course PreKAY.

                    22 min
                  7. A Mindful Writing Process with Author Laura Bean

                    Laura Bean, writing specialist, educational wellness consultant, and creator of Write to the Core curriculum, which integrates social-emotional learning with reading and writing joins Kristi and Kelly on this episode of Mindful Conversations with KAY.


                    During this thoughtful interview, Laura shares more about her work which promotes self-reflection, empathy, compassion, and creativity while addressing Common Core Standards.


                    Listen in as they discuss:


                    1. How Laura’s mindfulness practice developed

                    2. The role of mindfulness in fostering a compassionate learning environment

                    3. Using writing as a means of self-discovery

                    4. Tips for teachers to integrate mindfulness within their curriculum

                    5. The importance of supporting our students and helping them to stay regulated throughout the day

                    6. Why we must do our own work and have our own personal practice


                    7. Laura lives in the San Francisco Bay Area and teaches English Language Development and mindfulness to high school students. She shares powerful poems and writings from her students.


                      Connect with Laura!

                      Learn more: www.mindfulliteracy.com

                      Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/laurabeanmindfulliteracy

                      Instragram: https://www.instagram.com/laurabeanmindfulliteracy/

                      LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurabeanmindfulliteracy


                      For further reading and learning opportunities:


                      Amy Saltzman, https://stillquietplace.com/


                      Go With the Flow – Let Creativity Clear the Path: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/go-with-the-flow-let-creativity-clear-the-path/


                      Compassion Through Yoga: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/compassion-yoga-children-patanjali-sutra/


                      Yoga as a Social-Emotional Tool: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/yoga-social-emotional-play-based-movement/


                      Bring yoga & mindfulness into your school with our EduKAY School Workshops. Learn more: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/school-workshop/




                      35 min
                    8. A Fun and Rewarding Career: The Business of Kids Yoga

                      Jobs can be fun and rewarding. How do we know? Because we teach kids yoga!


                      On this week's episode of Mindful Conversations with KAY, Kelly & Kristi discuss the business of kids yoga and their personal journeys offering yoga and mindfulness to children in a variety of settings.


                      Tune in as they dive deeper:

                      1. The different places they've successfully shared kids yoga

                      2. Steps to becoming a kids yoga teacher

                      3. What it looks like to teach kids yoga 'full time'

                      4. Investments if transitioning into teaching yoga to kids


                      5. Is it possible to find a job you're passionate about? Kristi sums it up perfectly: "Bottom line, this is the greatest job ever."


                        Be sure to follow Kelly & Kristi on social media to see all the ways they share kids yoga and mindfulness in their communities and worldwide.


                        For further reading & learning opportunities:


                        Starter’s Guide to Teaching Kids’ Yoga: Business Edition: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-business-teach/


                        Get certified! https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/kids-yoga-teacher-training-courses-certification/


                        Virtual Workshop: How to Make Money Teaching Kids Yoga:

                        https://learn.kiddingaroundyoga.com/p/how-to-make-money-teaching-kids-yoga


                        KAY Yoga Card Deck: https://store.kiddingaroundyoga.com/products/kay-yoga-deck


                        Play Games With Your Yoga Card Deck: https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/cards-games-yoga-kids-deck/


                        Episode 53: Fun-Ways-to-Use-Yoga-Cards: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/pod/show/kidding-around-yoga/episodes/Fun-Ways-to-Use-Yoga-Cards-e23nhcu


                        BeYogi Insurance: https://beyogi.com/yoga-teacher-insurance


                        21 min

                      About Mindful Conversations with KAY

                      From the publisher's feed

                      Mindful Conversations with KAY is a podcast for parents, teachers, counselors, or anyone who works with children. We will talk about using research based tools and strategies to help increase mindfulness, self-awareness, connection, self-regulation, and peace in your home or classroom. Join hosts Kristi Fischer and Kelly Winkler, Kidding Around Yoga trainers, moms, and educators for some fun and insightful conversations where we take a deep dive into all things kids yoga and mindfulness. https://kiddingaroundyoga.com/