Change is not something most look forward to. Infact as human beings we are more likely to settle into comfort and allow ourselves to stay in a situation that is painful and that is not ideal, in order to maintain equilibrium or to convince ourselves that it is okay to 'settle' for our situations. That however is NOT the case, and not the glory and beauty of the life that was made for you. Let's get down to why we don't like change, and then talk about why taking the reigns to direct change can lessen the pain of it.