Jennifer is one of the nation’s leading parenting experts and the founder of Connected Parenting. She is the author of Connected Parenting: How To Raise A Great kid and You’re Ruining My Life! (But Not Really) Surviving the Teenage Years with Connected Parenting.
Jennifer was the Parenting expert on CBC’s Steven and Chris show for eight seasons and has appeared frequently on Canada AM and Breakfast Television. Her advice can be found in many Canadian and U.S. magazines, such as Today’s Parent, Redbook, Parent Magazine and Canadian Family. Jennifer has been helping children, teens and families get connected for over twenty years.
Here are more of the details from this episode:
- How Jennifer discovered compassionate parenting and family therapy as her calling (4:50)
- The power of limbic bonding for you and your child (7:27)
- What traditional parenting got wrong about “You should know better!” (15:50)
- What are mirror neurons and how they can help (19:13)
- How yelling impacts the fight or flight response and stress hormones (24:40)
- Breaking down the CALM technique (27:00)
- Practicing active listening with the CALM technique in real situations (44:40)
- Approaching disagreements with teenagers more mindfully (52:20)
- Dealing with full-on tantrums and what happens when you give them permission to meltdown (57:10)
- Advice for couples and how to use mirroring for intimate relationships (1:15:50)
- Taking a modern approach to the modern problems kids are dealing with (1:30:05)
- Why too much power leads kids to feel anxious (1:50:30)
- Learn more about Jennifer’s work (1:54:20)
Links:
www.connectedparenting.com
www.connectedparenting.com/books/connected-parenting-book/
www.twitter.com/jenniferkolari
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#69: Mirror Neurons, Empathy and Connected Parenting with Jennifer Kolari

Hi, I'm Dhru (like Drew), and every week, I interview the top experts in health, medicine, and mindset to provide you with in-depth, step-by-step protocols to take your health to the next level.

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Despite advances in technology, children today are facing significant physical and mental health challenges. We are in the midst of a mental health emergency, and chronic disease among children is on the rise. The stressors of the modern world, ultra-processed foods, and excessive screen time are all contributing factors. Today’s guest is here to offer hope to parents, grandparents, and caregivers, navigate these challenges, and show us how to keep our children healthy and happy.

Today, on The Dhru Purohit Podcast, Dhru and Dr. Elisa Song discuss raising healthy and happy kids. Dr. Song shares the latest research on the rise in chronic disease and mental health disorders in children. She also discusses factors that can harm and protect the gut microbiome and lifestyle factors that have protective effects on overall wellness and help build resilience. If you are looking for a guide to raising healthy and happy kids, Dr. Song is here to lead the way.

Dr. Elisa Song is an integrative pediatrician and pediatric functional medicine expert. In her integrative pediatric practice, Whole Family Wellness, she’s helped thousands of kids get to the root causes of their health concerns and helped their parents understand how to help their children thrive. Dr. Song is also the creator of Healthy Kids Happy Kids, an online holistic pediatric resource to help practitioners and parents bridge the gap between conventional and integrative pediatrics with an evidence-based, pediatrician-backed approach.

In this episode, Dhru and Dr. Song dive into (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):

Chronic disease and mental health disorders are on the rise for teens (00:00:12 / 00:00:12)

The importance of the gut microbiome (8:00 / 4:09)

Stressors to the gut microbiome (15:00 / 11:50)

Food additives that hijack our brains (21:00 / 17:30)

Risk versus reward (31:00 / 25:30)

Grandparent mentality (38:00 / 33:25)

The birth control pill and the side effects (41:00 / 36:40)

Antibiotic resistance in chicken (48:00 / 43:45)

Having a healthy gut is the key to optimal health (52:00 / 47:22)

Creating happy and healthy kids (57:00 / 52:10)

Constant stimulation and protecting bodies with active lifestyles (1:04:00 / 59:00)

Healing the gut and sensory sensitivities (1:18:00 / 1:12:50)

Nutrient deficiencies and the correlation to conditions (1:26:00 / 1:21:15)

It’s never too late to restore gut health (1:28:00 / 1:23:52)

Final Thoughts (1:34:00 / 1:29:10)


Also mentioned in this episode:

Dr. Song’s Book, Healthy Kids, Happy Kids


Washington Post article on birth control

Tyson Foods Criticism Article 


For more on Dr. Song, follow her on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, or her website. 

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Holistic Pediatrician Reveals Top Reasons Why Kids Are Sicker Than Ever Before And How To Raise Resilient and Healthy Kids With Dr. Elisa Song

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The concept of manifestation is often discussed, yet many need a clearer understanding of its essence and how to integrate it into their lives. Our guest today is poised to explore manifestation in depth, uncovering its neuroscience foundations and practical application.

Today, on the Dhru Purohit Podcast, Dhru engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Dr. James Doty about the power and neuroscience behind manifestation. Dr. Doty shares his insights on how we are all actively manifesting our lives and provides practical exercises that can help us clarify our manifestation goals. These exercises are not just theoretical concepts but actionable steps we can start implementing today.
 
Dr. James R. Doty, MD, has been on the Stanford University School of Medicine faculty since 1997 in the Neurosurgery Department as a professor and more recently as an adjunct professor. He is also the founder and director of the Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education (CCARE) at Stanford and a New York Times bestselling author of Into the Magic Shop: A Neurosurgeon’s Quest to Discovery the Mysteries of the Brain and the Secrets of the Heart. 
 
In this episode, Dhru and Dr. James Doty dive into (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):

What is possible when you take agency and don’t look for external validation (00:00:20  / 00:00:20)

You are actively manifesting your current life (4:00 / 4:00)

What is manifestation from a neuroscience perspective (8:30 / 6:14)

The mistakes people make when manifesting (10:00 / 7:46)

Dr. Doty’s powerful childhood experience (17:00 / 14:45)

The power of identity and what happens when losing the identity (32:00 / 27:42)

Exercises to clarify and define your manifestations (37:00 / 33:20)

How do reclaim focus and keep the noise out (49:00 / 45:36)

The importance of action (59:00 / 55:33)

How Dr. Doty approaches manifestation (1:05:00 / 1:01:36)

What if you don’t know what to manifest (1:13:00 / 1:08:55)

How to identify limiting beliefs and critical beliefs (1:20:00 / 1:16:25) 

Releasing expectations (1:37:00 / 1:33:22)

What happened to Ruth and final thoughts (1:43:00 / 1:39:10)


Also mentioned in this episode:

Dr. Doty’s book Mind Magic 

Into the Magic Shop-Dr. Doty’s Podcast


For more on Dr. Doty, follow him on Instagram, Twitter, and Facebook.

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Neuroscientist Explains How To Rewire The Brain To Manifest Your Goals And Desires With Dr. James Doty

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Alcohol is often featured prominently in celebrations and social gatherings, fostering connections. However, we know that regular alcohol consumption can significantly affect both our physical and mental well-being. Our guest today is poised to explore society's relationship with alcohol, broaden our perspectives on the possibilities of a sober curious lifestyle, and show us what true connections can look like.

Today, on The Dhru Purohit Podcast, Dhru and Ruari Fairbairns delve into the impact of regular alcohol consumption, its societal significance, and the transformative effects of prioritizing sobriety. Ruari candidly shares his journey with alcohol, childhood traumas, and the genesis of his subscription-based community. Tune in for insightful inspiration to reassess your relationship with alcohol and explore what lies beyond.

Ruari Fairbairns is the founder and CEO of OYNB (One Year No Beer) and a leading figure in the health and well-being space. He was awarded Great British Entrepreneur of the Year for Scotland and Northern Ireland 2020, and OYNB was also named The Spectator’s Economic Innovator of the Year in the UK. Known for his passionate advocacy for healthier living, Ruari has inspired over 100,000 people worldwide to reassess their relationship with alcohol and strive to become the best version of themselves.
 
In this episode, Dhru and Ruari dive into (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):

Regular consumption of alcohol is holding you back (0:0006 / 0:00:006)

What shows up when you go 28 days without alcohol (4:54 / 4:54)

The need for connection and joining the tribe as a hindrance to stopping alcohol (10:00 / 8:37)

Ruari’s relationship to alcohol (16:00 / 14:46)

Reasons people choose to numb out with alcohol (23:00 / 20:47)

The types of individuals that Ruari coaches (31:30 / 28:11)

High-functioning individuals who actively drink and what the goal should be (39:00 / 35:54)

Ruari’s childhood and the role of childhood traumas (48:00 / 44:12)

What you can prioritize once the focus is off alcohol (1:04:00 / 1:00:53)

The vital role of community (1:09:00 / 1:05:40)

Adding in to crowd out bad habits (1:19:00 / 1:15:50)

What you can make progress in when alcohol isn’t the lead (1:28:00 / 1:24:45)

Ruari’s life-changing moments (1:33:00 / 1:29:16)

Dhru’s thoughts on alcohol (1:46:00 / 1:42:47)


Also mentioned in this episode:

One Year No Beer Instagram 

One Year No Beer Podcast 

Ruari's Episode with Rich Roll


For more on Ruari, follow him on Twitter/X, Facebook, and Instagram.

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The Top Reasons Why Regular Alcohol Consumption Is Holding You Back And What To Do About It With Ruari Fairbairns

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Heart disease stands as one of the foremost global killers, claiming the top spot as the leading cause of death among women. With numerous factors contributing to its development, the future lies in precision cardiology—individually, customized, and prevention-focused. Today's episode is a deep dive into endothelial health and the journey to becoming heart attack-proof.

Today on The Dhru Purohit Podcast, Dhru sits down with Dr. Michael Twyman and Dr. Neel Patel to discuss endothelial and cardiovascular health. Dr. Twyman shares his approach to assessing an individual’s risk of heart disease, metabolic health, and the importance of nitric oxide. Dhru, Dr. Patel, and Dr. Twyman discuss the role of genetics and the bloodwork you can order on your own and through a traditional healthcare system. They also discuss the diet and lifestyle for optimal heart health, supplements that should be incorporated into your daily routine, and the role of statins. 

Dr. Michael Twyman is a board-certified cardiologist focusing on the prevention and early detection of heart disease. Dr. Twyman completed his cardiovascular training at St. Louis University after he completed a four-year active-duty tour as an internist at Naval Hospital Beaufort. He has been in private practice since 2012 and uses the best of conventional, quantum, and Functional Medicine and biohacking to get to the root cause of his patients’ cardiovascular issues.

 
In this episode, Dhru, Dr. Twyman and Dr. Patel dive into (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):


Microplastics and cardiovascular health (00:00:05 / 00:00:05)

How to approach vascular health and what is endothelial health (3:42 / 3:42)

Traditional versus Dr. Twyman’s approach to the risk of heart disease (10:00 / 8:10)

Glycocalyx: what damages it and what supports it (14:32 /13:02)

How to approach metabolic health (21:40 / 20:19)

The role of nitric oxide (24:00 / 22:14) 

Photobiomodulation recommendations (33:00 / 31:07)

Nitrates in your diet, testing nitric oxide levels, and Dhru’s results (42:00 / 39:00)

How does high blood pressure start (53:00 / 51:15)

The role of genetics (57:00 / 54:36)  

The three buckets of bloodwork and ordering bloodwork in the traditional system (1:01:00 / 58:33)

Best diet for heart health (1:18:00 / 1:15:15)

Optimal supplementation (1:26:00 / 1:22:40)

Statins: who should take them and who should avoid them (1:37:00 / 1:33:50)

Biohacking: blue light blocking glasses and sauna (1:58:00 / 1:53:10)



Also mentioned in this episode:

Lifeforce Digital

Huberman Protocol post


Image of Dhru's ApoB results 


For more on Dr. Michael Twyman, follow him on Instagram @drtwyman or his website, drtwyman.com. 

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Cardiologist Shares The Real Cause of Heart Attacks, What to Do About Microplastics and the Top Tests to Assess Heart Health With Dr. Michael Twyman

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The weight loss journey isn’t always based on healthy and sustainable habits. Often, the pressure to lose weight can lead to drastic actions that can be harmful. Today’s guest is on a mission to share her weight loss journey, which she does not recommend to others, and provide guidance on how weight loss for better overall health can happen with compassion, empathy, and long-term healthy habits in mind. 
Today on The Dhru Purohit Podcast, Dhru sits down with Michelle Shapiro to discuss weight loss, the myths and misconceptions, and the healthier way to lose weight. Michelle shares her weight loss journey and the symptoms she suffered through. She also shares her thoughts on diet culture and calorie tracking, the importance of individualization, her hot take on intermittent fasting, and the importance of exchanging ideas for growth.
Michelle Shapiro, Integrative/Functional Registered Dietitian from NYC. Michelle has supported over 1000 clients to reverse anxiety, approach their weight with love, and heal digestive issues. Utilizing humor, nuance, and compassion, Michelle helps clients access their liberating self-awareness.

In this episode, Dhru and Michelle dive into (audio version / Apple Subscriber version):

Misconceptions about weight loss that are damaging (0:00:53 /0: 00:53)

Scarcity Mindset (1:41 / 1:41) 

Protein for weight loss and body composition (3:10 / 3:10)

Metabolism changes in response to weight loss journey (8:00 / 6:07)

Michelle’s weight loss journey and the symptoms she suffered (11:00 / 9:13)

Gut health for body composition (20:25 / 18:25)

Michelle’s Losing Weight Lovingly Protocol (24:57 / 22:57)

Weight loss as a symptom and diet culture (29:00 / 25:57)

Is calorie tracking important and helpful (39:00 / 35:33) 

The importance of individualization (50:00 / 46:47)

Foundations that apply to all humans (54:00 / 50:00)

Anxiety and panic attacks as a fire alarm for the body and how to treat them (55:00 / 51:34)

Intermittent Fasting and who should avoid it (1:01:00 / 57:00)

Eastern medicine and the importance of exchanging ideas (1:17:000 / 1:13:30)

Back to the basics (1:21:00 / 1:17:17)


Also mentioned in this episode:

Quiet the Diet, Michelle’s Podcast

To learn more about Michelle, follow her on Instagram, Facebook, or her website. 
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#69: Mirror Neurons, Empathy and Connected Parenting with Jennifer Kolari

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