Missing something?

Two different connections. Same ending.
In this episode, I tell two storytimes that forced me to confront something uncomfortable about myself — I don’t run toward consistency… I chase distance.

Instead of leaning into the people who show up for me, I get drawn to the ones who pull away. And I finally had to ask myself why.

I fumbled two connections that could’ve been really good not because I didn’t care, but because I was inconsistent and scared of connection.

In this episode, I tell two story times about fading in and out, avoiding communication, and pulling back when things start to feel real. On the back half, I break down my own avoidance, fear of intimacy, and why consistency feels harder the more I care.

This episode is about accountability, patterns, and realizing that sometimes the reason things don’t work… is us.

After a breakup, I couldn’t accept what my ex said about me. I thought she was wrong. I thought she didn’t understand me.Then one night, everything clicked.In this episode, I talk about my ego death, what it taught me about relationships, arguments, and how learning to listen changed the way I see myself.

Welcome to Season 3 of Missing Something. In this episode, I reflect on my growth, my struggles, and the mindset shift I’ve been working toward. Just a run down before we really get into the Nitty-gritty that'll be MissingSomething? Season #3

Building something whether it’s a body, a business, or a life changes you in ways you don’t expect.

In this episode of Missing Something, I sit down with Tara owner of Tarafied Fitness, a personal trainer and entrepreneur, for a real conversation about consistency, identity, and what actually shows up when you stop quitting on yourself. We talk about fitness and business, but more importantly, how both reveal the same patterns around discipline, burnout, self-trust, and growth over time.

This isn’t a how to episode or a motivation talk. It’s an honest conversation about what you learn about yourself when you commit to something long enough for it to change you.

If you’re building something or thinking about it this one will resonate.

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I’m joined by my friend Kenzie as we get into the ups and downs of how we each lost 50 pounds. We share the struggles no one talks about, the mindset shifts that kept us going, and the habits that actually made a difference. Part story time, part motivation, and full of real talk this episode is for anyone trying to change their life and wanting to hear the unfiltered version of what it really takes.

In this episode, I rant about the unrealistic expectation that we’re supposed to know what we want to be from a young age. I dive into my own journey, sharing why it’s been so hard to “be something” in a world where I want to be everything. Along the way, I drop some practical tips for anyone who’s feeling lost, overwhelmed, or stuck figuring out their path.

In this episode, I sit down with my longtime friend Javi — we've been tight since 7th grade — to unpack what’s been missing for him lately: time. We dive into how fast life moves, how hard it is to balance everything, and how that pressure can sneak up on you.

But after the deep stuff? We just chop it up. From football debates and school memories to the wild things we did growing up, this episode is part reflection, part chaos, and all real. If you’ve ever felt like time’s slipping away, or you just wanna kick it with us for an hour — this one’s for you.

We asked each other what we feel like we’re missing—and yeah, it got real for a second. But then we just started yapping about everything and nothing. One of those episodes that feels like a late-night convo with your friend where topics change every 4 minutes but somehow it still makes sense.

It’s easy to act like you don’t care.It’s way harder and way braver to actually show up for something real.And the crazy part is... that’s probably what we all actually want.We’re just scared to be the first one to show it