Discovering the BDSM world as a beginner submissive can be incredibly exciting, but it can also lead to repeated mistakes and take its emotional toll on you. In this episode of Conversations with a Dom, we discuss beginner subs' common mistakes and how to avoid them. Our conversation involves everything you need to know about BDSM, including creating a sex menu, understanding terminology, finding a dominant, and avoiding people who might take advantage of you. The discussion emphasizes t...

E28: 9 Mistakes Beginner Submissives Make Time and Again (aka How to Protect Yourself)

A podcast for the sexually curious and hedonistic adventurers, by the people behind KinkyEvents.co.uk. Feel empowered sexually, and learn about kink, BDSM and Dom/sub dynamics. Chief (a male Dom) and Moineau (a female sub) discuss everything from events they've been to, to advice on starting a D/s relationship, becoming comfortable with your sexuality, getting your partner to be more dominant, explaining the world of D/s for newbies, and some killer tips for the more experienced kinksters amongst you. The show contains adult themes, strong language, and discussions of sexual activity.

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Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships. They showcase how such candid discussions can significantly enhance intimacy and satisfaction, foster a deeper understanding between partners, encourage exploration, and ultimately improve your sex life. Whether you're deeply embedded in the BDSM community or just curious about enhan...

E44: Sex Menu Walk-Through (Have Our Tastes Changed!?)

Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laughter, and a heap of useful tips for anyone curious about or already exploring the world of BDSM.They tackle everything from the ins and outs of FetLife to the unique charm of munches, all while keeping it real about the ups and downs of connecting in the community.Whether you're navigating the scene in a buzzing city or a quiet town, this episode p...

E43: Finding BDSM Events and Making Friends

Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their initial steps, challenges, and the profound impact of BDSM on their connection and communication. From confronting fears and preconceptions to utilising practical tools like the sex menu for negotiating desires, this episode is a testament to the transformative power of open dialogue and trust in rekindling intimacy.Join us for an enlighten...

E42: A new sub discusses her experiences 3 months after introducing BDSM into an 11-year relationship

In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all.Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics.Su...

E41: 8 Common BDSM Myths Debunked

What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal growth and exploration in BDSM, tailored for those curious about or involved in the lifestyle. You’ll hear:Tom's journey: How personal circumstances led him to explore BDSM and seek professional Dominatrices.How to find the right Dominatrix for you: Wh...

E28: 9 Mistakes Beginner Submissives Make Time and Again (aka How to Protect Yourself)

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