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In response to a follower's question, Lucah and I debate whether or not someone should disclose that they've had phalloplasty to new dates, casual hook ups or on dating profiles. When it comes to dating and online profiles, Lucah leans 'no' and I lean 'yes' and it makes for a very interesting conversation you're going to enjoy!

Weigh in on this debate or send in your own question! Leave us comments on our youtube channel, write in or leave a message here:

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In this episode of Mod Love, Keaton and Lucah respond to a listener request to discuss our family reactions to coming out as queer and then trans. Lucah has this beautiful account of a loving and supportive family, while Keaton recounts mayhem, delving deeper into a couple points touched on in episode 4. Lucah discusses the perks of being adopted and we both agree on the importance of chosen family when needed. This is an excellent episode where listeners get both sides of how these experiences can go and we hope you find it helpful.

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In this episode of Mod Love, Keaton and Lucah talk about their experiences building confidence through the ups and downs of transition, entrepreneurship, relationships and life. We talk about the benefits of self-help and self-help breaks, work burnout, enduring the suck of breakups and how trusting and pushing yourself during trying times actually builds confidence. The power in setting and sustaining boundaries, how important it is to minimize self-harm, embrace meditation and much more. 

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Learn more about MLD Phalloplasty as we chat with Alex who just finished his 2nd stage with Dr. Miro in Serbia. We discuss MLD sensation, penetration, recovery and the overall journey. Enjoy this inside scoop! 

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Cecil and I compare and contrast having a simple release and a full meta. We both had surgery with Dr. Brassard at GRS in Montreal. We get into everything from sensations, orgams, penetration, recovery time and much, much more! Cecil is super fun to chat with and it was great to get to know another Toronto-dwelling guy like myself, who's also horrible with french. 

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We’re going to have two streams running on this podcast, the first one is the Mod Love episodes with Lucah and I talking about life, love and sex as transmen. The second is Cock Talks where I’m interviewing guys and theys who have undergone some form of bottom surgery. Bottom surgery, if you don’t know means genital surgery in the trans world. On our youtube channel, we are also uploading interviews with surgeons, but those are not getting uploaded to the podcast, so search for the Mod Club on YouTube and subscribe if you want to watch those. All of our podcast content is uploaded to YouTube btw, so if you want to watch these interviews happen and see what we look like, check those out!

This week Lucah and I talk about some of the small and large dynamics that changed in our dating and relationship experiences when we transitioned to male. Neither of us were conscious or aware at the time how we'd need to take stock of these upcoming changes. We were both serial monogamists that kept going from relationship to relationship pre-T (pre-testosterone, ie. pre-transition) and post-T. It took us a while to realize that the expectations were different, the 'game' was different and how we needed to update our approaches to dating and relationships to find healthy and successful dynamics again!

We’d love to start hearing from our audience! There’s a link in the episode description that you can click to leave us voice messages. Or, you can email us at [email protected] -- Send us a question, a topic you’d like discussed, or just a comment or story and we’ll begin featuring those in our episodes.

Lastly, don’t forget you can watch these episodes on our youtube channel here. Once Covid is under control, we look forward to recording in the same room!

Excited to debut our Cock Talk segment of the podcast, where I sat down with Wolfie aka Kel. At the time of recording he's about half-way through a 5-6 stage ALT Phalloplasty with Kaiser Permanente with bottom surgeons, Dr. Salim, Dr. Thomas and a helping hand from Dr. Safa. We discuss his journey through bottom surgery so far, his struggles, successes, preparations and complications. If you're considering phallo, especially, ALT, be sure to tune in! 

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We’re going to have two streams running on this podcast, the first one is the Mod Love episodes with Lucah and I talking about life, love and sex as transmen. The second is Cock Talks where I’m interviewing guys and theys who have undergone some form of bottom surgery. Bottom surgery, if you don’t know means genital surgery in the trans world. On our youtube channel, we are also uploading interviews with surgeons, but those are not getting uploaded to the podcast, so search for the Mod Club on YouTube and subscribe if you want to watch those. All of our podcast content is uploaded to YouTube btw, so if you want to watch these interviews happen and see what we look like, check those out!

This upcoming interview was my very first one and I completely forgot to give my guest a proper introduction, so to do that now, I’m speaking to Wolfie from California. He’s 2 stages into approximately a 5-6 stage ALT phalloplasty procedure. ALT stands for Anterior-Lateral Thigh, which basically means the surgeons are creating a phallus aka dick, from a tissue taken from the thigh.

If these cock talks are not for you, but you enjoy the Mod Love segments I do with Lucah, then stay tuned, I’m going to be clearly labeling the episodes so you’ll know which ones to tune into.

This week Keaton and Lucah go in more on trans disclosure when dating // talk about packing and how it can help and exacerbate dysphoria // Lucah's trip to Camp Lost Boys and how he felt about phalloplasty afterwards -- Will it make you happier?? // Why is Keats glad he didn't have $50K 15 years ago??? // Lucah learns about how to fit AN ENTIRE GROCERY STORE IN HIS PANTS and much more!