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Whitney Harvey is a former litigator, workplace wellness consultant, and founder of The Self Coached Lawyer. She joins Billie to talk about burnout, resilience, emotional regulation, and how lawyers and clients can rebuild themselves during high-stress seasons. Whitney shares how her early experiences with adversity, plus years in insurance defense and plaintiff litigation, shaped her mission to blend law, well-being, and science-backed healing tools. Her work today focuses on giving people simple, practical methods to manage stress, reframe their stories, and rebuild confidence during major transitions like divorce.

In this conversation, Whitney breaks down the real challenges facing modern legal professionals: remote work fatigue, isolation, burnout, loss of identity, and the emotional weight of client trauma. She explains why resilience is a skill, not a personality trait, and how tools like HypnoBreathwork® help people retrain long-held patterns in the subconscious mind. Whether you're a lawyer, a parent going through divorce, or someone feeling stuck, Whitney offers a grounded understanding of healing, purpose, and intentional recovery.

Topics Discussed
- The emotional toll of litigation and why traditional legal training overlooks it
- Burnout signs lawyers and divorcing clients should never ignore
- How to rebuild identity after major life transitions
- HypnoBreathwork® and why it accelerates healing compared to talk therapy
- Why remote work helps flexibility but harms engagement
- Emotional boundaries and the psychology of conflict
- Building resilience through narrative reframing and somatic tools
- How energy, environment, and relationships shape well-being

Where to Find Whitney Harvey
Website: https://theselfcoachedlawyer.com
Email: [email protected]
Instagram: @theselfcoachedlawyer
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/whitneyharvey

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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, attorney and advocate Lori Basinger joins host Billie Tarascio to discuss coercive control, abusive litigation, and how new laws are redefining justice for survivors of domestic abuse. Lori shares her personal journey from regulatory law to family law advocacy and offers insights into how survivors can reclaim power both in and beyond the courtroom.

Valuable topics discussed:
- What coercive control means under Massachusetts law
- How abusers misuse the legal system to maintain control
- Strategies for survivors facing prolonged family court battles
- Legislative efforts to stop abusive litigation
- Finding healing and autonomy beyond the courtroom

Connect with Lori Basinger:
Website: loribassinger.com
Instagram: @MovedToRise
Facebook: @MovedToRise

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In this episode, Billie sits down with Lindsey Jackson, Modern Law's new estate planning practice group leader, to demystify estate planning for today's families. With over 16 years of experience in trust and estate administration, Lindsey brings a unique perspective from both the drafting and administration sides of estate planning. She shares practical insights about when estate planning becomes essential, how to protect family wealth across generations, and the real consequences of not having proper legal documents in place.

This conversation covers everything from basic power of attorney needs for young adults to sophisticated trust structures for high-net-worth families. Lindsey explains how estate planning intersects with family law, particularly in blended family situations, and addresses common misconceptions about probate in Arizona. The discussion provides actionable guidance for attorneys and families navigating the complex decisions around wealth transfer, creditor protection, and planning for incapacity.

What You'll Learn
✔ The critical importance of power of attorney documents starting at age 18, and the serious consequences of acting without proper legal authorization when helping incapacitated family members
✔ How discretionary trusts can protect beneficiaries from their own financial mistakes while still providing necessary support for housing, education, and living expenses
✔ The key thresholds that determine when you need basic estate planning documents versus more sophisticated trust structures, including Arizona's updated probate limits
✔ Why testamentary capacity has a lower standard than contractual capacity, allowing people with diminished abilities to still create valid estate plans with proper guidance
✔ How blended families face unique estate planning challenges that make professional guidance non-negotiable, particularly regarding asset distribution and guardian designation

Ready to take that next step? 

Connect with Lindsey Jackson at Modern Law for comprehensive estate planning services throughout Arizona: https://mymodernlaw.com/practice-areas/estate-planning-probate-in-arizona/

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In this episode, Billie speaks with Susan Magestro, a criminologist, interventionist, and expert witness who specializes in one of the most challenging and underreported issues facing families today: domestic violence perpetrated by children against their parents. Susan brings decades of experience working with families where parents live in fear of their own children, along with her expertise in crisis intervention and de-escalation strategies.

This conversation addresses the uncomfortable reality that many parents face but rarely discuss—when their child becomes violent, threatening, or abusive within the home. Susan explains the difference between explosive and implosive rage, shares red flags that parents should recognize, and discusses her innovative tools like the "anger wheel" for de-escalating volatile situations. The discussion also covers how divorce and family trauma can manifest in children's behavior, when reunification therapy is appropriate, and practical strategies for families caught in these devastating cycles.

What You'll Learn
✔ How to recognize the difference between explosive and implosive rage in children, and why many parents miss the warning signs of escalating dangerous behavior
✔ The "anger wheel" technique and other de-escalation strategies that help identify root causes of children's violent behavior and create pathways for healing
✔ Why parents often hide their fear of their own children due to professional concerns, community judgment, and family dynamics, preventing them from seeking help
✔ How divorce trauma and poor co-parenting communication can fuel children's anger and violent behavior, and the importance of "good divorce" practices
✔ When to pursue reunification therapy versus other interventions, and how to determine the best custody arrangements when children are struggling with anger and violence

Where to Find Susan Magestro
Learn more about Susan's work and access her resources, including her book "Raging From Within" and upcoming YouTube tutorials on the anger wheel technique. Susan provides expert witness services and crisis intervention throughout the United States.
www.susanmagestro.com

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In this episode, Billie sits down with Nathan Williams, a professional counselor at Arizona Counseling Collective who specializes in forensically informed therapy and high-conflict co-parenting situations. Nathan brings years of experience working with families navigating the complex intersection of therapy and family court, including therapeutic intervention (TI) appointments, court testimony, and helping parents transition from dysfunctional spousal dynamics to effective co-parenting relationships.

This conversation tackles the challenging questions that attorneys and their clients face daily: When should therapists maintain confidentiality versus reporting to parents? How can parents move from adversarial dynamics to neutral co-parenting? What's the real success rate of therapeutic intervention, and why do so many therapists avoid this work entirely? Nathan provides practical insights on everything from parental alienation concerns to the reality of 50-50 custody arrangements, offering both legal professionals and parents a clearer understanding of how mental health intervention actually works in family court cases.

What You'll Learn
✔ The key differences between court-appointed therapeutic intervention and private therapy, including confidentiality boundaries and reporting requirements
✔ Why the "neutral co-parent" approach is essential for moving beyond dysfunctional spousal dynamics into effective business-like co-parenting relationships
✔ How to properly communicate with your co-parent about children's concerns using the BIFF method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm) without creating additional conflict
✔ The realistic success rates of therapeutic intervention (approximately 50%) and what factors determine whether families will benefit from court-ordered counseling
✔ Practical strategies for helping children maintain relationships with both parents while teaching them healthy conflict resolution skills rather than withdrawal patterns

Where to Find Nathan Williams
williams-coach.com

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In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with Ruby Becker, Family Law and Juvenile Law attorney at Modern Law, to pull back the curtain on Arizona’s juvenile court system. Ruby shares her firsthand experience representing both parents and children in dependency, guardianship, and termination cases, and exposes the critical differences between family court and juvenile court.

From the power of DCS to the constitutional rights of parents, to the heartbreaking realities of foster care, Ruby provides an unfiltered look at what really happens when the state steps in. If you’re an attorney, paralegal, or anyone working in child welfare, this episode offers must-know insights into protecting families and upholding rights inside the courtroom.

Here’s What You’ll Learn from Ruby:
✔ Why children in juvenile court have stronger legal voices than in family court
✔ How to challenge DCS placement decisions and push for family custody
✔ The difference between temporary and permanent guardianships, and when each applies
✔ The hidden dangers of foster care and why private dependency may be a safer option
✔ Practical steps parents should take when DCS shows up at their door

Where to Find Ruby Becker
mymodernlaw.com/out-team/ruby-becker

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Divorce can be one of the most emotionally and physically draining experiences of your life — but your recovery starts with one powerful decision: prioritizing your health.

In this episode of the Modern Arizona Podcast, Arizona family law attorney Billie Tarascio sits down with Nathan Lowrie, owner of The Wellness Bar in Mesa, Arizona. A wellness advocate and water filtration expert, Nathan shares how a mix of biohacking, hydration, and simple daily rituals can radically improve your mental and physical well-being — especially during and after divorce.

💧 Hydration is everything.

Nathan breaks down how 80% of Americans are chronically dehydrated, why mineral-rich, bioavailable water matters more than just drinking “more water,” and how proper hydration improves everything from mood and digestion to supplement absorption and healing.

🌿 Then, we dive into the offerings at The Wellness Bar — a sanctuary for recovery, relaxation, and resilience. Whether you're navigating anxiety, emotional exhaustion, or physical pain, this East Valley wellness studio provides proven tools to help you reset:

• ❄️ Cryotherapy (cold exposure for pain, inflammation & mood)
• 🔴 Red Light Therapy (for skin, recovery, and collagen production)
• 🔥 Infrared Sauna (detox & metabolism)
• 🧠 BrainTap Light & Sound Therapy (for stress, sleep & focus)
• 💆‍♀️ Compression Therapy (for lymphatic flow & recovery)
• 🪑 Zero Gravity Theta Acoustical Chairs & Dry Float Beds
• 💊 Supplement tips & hydration hacks

✨ Whether you’re in the middle of a custody battle, rebuilding your life, or just trying to feel like yourself again — this conversation is a must-listen.

🧡 Take care of your body. Take care of your brain. And give yourself the best possible chance to thrive through this chapter.

🎧 Learn more and become a member at
 👉 thewellnessbaraz.com
Only $99/month, unlimited access, no contracts. Just healing.

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In this empowering episode of the Modern Divorce Podcast, host Billie Tarascio sits down with courtroom readiness and mindset coach Jeanine Tripodi—a hypnotherapist and energy practitioner with over 15 years of experience helping women navigate major life transitions, including divorce. 

Jeanine shares how emotional regulation can make or break your courtroom experience. From nervous system tools to subconscious reprogramming, she breaks down exactly how she helps clients stay calm, clear-headed, and in control during high-stress legal moments like court hearings or mediation. 
She explains the science behind hypnotherapy, attachment theory, and how your subconscious beliefs—often formed in early childhood—can sabotage your communication and credibility if left unchecked. Whether you’re dealing with an ex who triggers you or just trying to find your footing again, Jeanine’s tools go beyond traditional coaching to give you lasting transformation.

Plus, she shares what the biggest mistakes are that people make when they don’t emotionally prepare for court—and how to avoid them. If you're facing divorce, custody battles, or preparing for trial, this is the mindset masterclass you didn’t know you needed.

Learn more about Jeanine and her work at www.JeanineTripodi.com 

Need help with your divorce or custody case? Find Billie and her team at www.mymodernlaw.com 

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In this powerful and emotional episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, host and family law attorney Billie Tarascio sits down with local mom Nikkol Krug to share a story every parent needs to hear.

Nikkol opens up about the grooming of her teenage daughter by a high school volleyball coach—how it began, how it escalated, and how the system failed to protect her child. She bravely recounts the signs she missed, the manipulation tactics used by the coach, and the heartbreak of watching her daughter suffer not only from the abuse but also from the backlash of speaking up.

This episode explores the gray area of the law, where inappropriate behavior toward minors isn't always illegal but is certainly dangerous. Nikkol and Billie discuss Title IX failures, how schools prioritize liability over student safety, and what real change might look like.

💔 Hear how one mother’s fight led to policy changes, how her daughter found her voice, and why we all need to learn the signs of grooming before it’s too late.

🔍 If you're a parent, educator, attorney, or advocate—this episode is for you.

👉 Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussions of grooming, harassment, and inappropriate conduct involving a minor.

💬 Topics Covered:
How grooming begins and builds trust over time
Legal blind spots that protect predators
Title IX violations in high schools
How school districts handle (or mishandle) misconduct
The emotional and social cost for victims who come forward
Why open communication at home can be lifesaving
What systemic change should look like
 
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Welcome to a special episode of The Modern Arizona Podcast, where we pull back the curtain on what it really looks like to build a career in family law.

In this candid roundtable, Billie Tarascio is joined by her three law partners at Modern Law—Stacey Rogan, Heather Pelaez, and Kylie Bigelow—for an insightful conversation tailor-made for future attorneys, law students, and practicing lawyers looking to understand the reality of being a woman in law, building a sustainable legal career, and the evolving legal landscape.

Whether you're fresh out of law school, considering a shift in your legal career, or wondering what it takes to become a managing partner—this conversation is packed with honest reflections, powerful advice, and real-world insight from four powerhouse women in family law.

🔥 What You’ll Learn:

The unconventional journeys that led each partner to where they are now

The highs and lows of family law, including burnout, courtroom wins, and emotional resilience

How access to justice, legal paraprofessionals (LPs), and AI tools are impacting the legal field

Real talk on sexism in the legal profession—from microaggressions to evolving dynamics

Why women are underrepresented in law firm leadership—and how Modern Law is flipping the script

Advice for young lawyers: from courtroom confidence to managing emotional burnout

Leadership styles, mentorship, and why creating your own system matters

This episode is more than a conversation—it's a roadmap for lawyers committed to doing meaningful work and living a balanced life.

Want to learn more about the attorneys or book a consultation? Go to www.mymodernlaw.com today!  

#WomenInLaw #LegalCareers #FamilyLaw #LawStudentTips #FutureLawyers #AttorneyLife #AccessToJustice #LegalMentorship #ModernLaw #LawFirmLeadership #AIInLaw #LegalPodcast #ArizonaLawyers #LegalProfession #billietarascio #modernarizonapodcast