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Modern Etiquette: What’s Actually Expected Anymore?


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Podcast: No Gossip, Just Saying

Episode: 30

Episode Title: Modern Etiquette: What’s Actually Expected Anymore?

Publish Date: 05/06/2026

Hosted by: Jenn Schofield + Jodi Ross

Brand: Danz Insanity Studios

Episode Summary

When did celebrating turn into a full-time financial commitment? In this episode, Jenn and Jodi pour a glass of wine and dive headfirst into modern party etiquette—where it’s gotten messy, what still matters, and what absolutely needs to stop. From over-the-top celebrations (hello, $2,000 bachelorette weekends) to the chaos of gift expectations, they unpack how social norms have shifted and why so many people feel overwhelmed trying to keep up.

They break it down Emily Post-style, covering everything from thank-you notes and RSVPs to splitting the bill and awkward Venmo requests. Along the way, they share real-life stories, hot takes, and a few “did that really happen?” moments that make you rethink how you show up as a guest—or a host. It’s honest, a little unhinged, and surprisingly helpful if you’ve ever questioned what’s actually expected anymore.

In This Episode

00:00 — Intro + why celebrations feel exhausting now

07:00 — Thank-you notes: handwritten vs. modern shortcuts

14:00 — Who pays? Splitting costs, Venmo culture, and awkward money moments

21:00 — RSVP etiquette (and why not responding is the worst move)

28:00 — Gift expectations: what actually requires a gift

34:00 — Destination weddings + financial pressure on guests

38:00 — Hostess gifts + simple ways to show appreciation

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