Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann

A retirement party turns into a family debate when some guests offer to bring side dishes—and one outspoken relative calls it “tacky.” Is it rude to accept help with food, or is this just thoughtful hospitality in action?

In this episode, Elaine unpacks the real meaning of etiquette when it comes to hosting events, accepting help, and navigating differing opinions with grace.

You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ to get personal guidance from Elaine.

Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann takes on today’s trickiest social questions with clarity, humor, and class. In this episode, Elaine dives into everything from over-the-top graduation gift registries to whether you need to disclose your home security cameras to party guests. You’ll also learn how to time your event invitations just right — and discover the key etiquette principles every child should know. It’s real talk for real life, and Elaine’s guidance helps you show up with confidence, compassion, and a touch of elegance in every situation.

You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ to get personal guidance from Elaine.

Elaine answers a jaw-dropping story about strangers walking around someone’s house and asking to take her flowers—for a wedding. Learn how to handle entitled behavior with poise.

Subscribe for more real-talk etiquette tips and drop your questions in the comments—we might feature yours next!You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to ⁠[email protected]⁠ to get personal guidance from Elaine.

Wait… Do I Have to Bring a Gift? | Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann

Host: Elaine Swann, America’s Leading Etiquette Expert
Description:
From the office to the buffet table—and even a boss’s wedding reception—what’s the polite thing to do?
In this episode of The Elaine Swann Show, Elaine tackles three sticky etiquette scenarios:
The must-know basics of office etiquette
Is it ever okay to dip your fingers to get that last bit of sauce?
And if your boss invites you to a wedding reception party—do you really need to bring a gift?
With her signature wit and wisdom, Elaine breaks it all down and helps you navigate these moments with class and confidence.
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You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠ to get personal guidance from Elaine.

Episode Title: Do I Really Have to Pay for That?
Host: Elaine Swann

In this episode of Modern Etiquette with Elaine Swann, callers bring the heat with three juicy questions:

Is it rude for someone to remind you about a host gift?

And when the check comes, are you really expected to split it evenly?

Should you tip a funeral director?

Elaine unpacks the etiquette behind each scenario with her signature mix of honesty, class, and a touch of sass. Tune in and find out when you should reach for your wallet—and when it’s perfectly okay not to.
Subscribe, share, and join the conversation—because good manners still matter.

You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to ⁠[email protected]⁠ to get personal guidance from Elaine.

Elaine Swann answers real-world etiquette dilemmas, including how to respond when a neighbor sends an unexpected thank you note, what to do when you're invited on a birthday trip and suddenly asked to pay for an expensive meal, and how to handle gift-giving expectations.

You can send your etiquette questions and voice memos to [email protected] to get personal guidance from Elaine.

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Uncover the age-old dilemma of arriving "empty-handed" on the latest episode of 'E Style Living' with Elaine Swann!

Whether a seasoned party pro or new to holiday gatherings, listeners will explore the dos and don'ts of expressing gratitude with a thoughtful gift for hosts and hostesses.

Elaine unwraps timeless classics, modern twists, and unexpected suggestions, guiding you through the season of giving with grace. Tune in for insights, tips, and a touch of holiday magic. Make this season truly special!