Modern Gays

Silence!! Bring back our girl... Hollywould Star! RuPaul's Drag Race Down Under Season 3 contestant Hollywould Star joins us for an exclusive Modern Gays' interview! We chat about her start in drag, moving to Australia and how to find the support you need to succeed.

Topics Discussed:

• Hollywould Star gives us an exciting insight into her journey in drag, illustrating the significance of living in the moment and shaping the new era of drag.
• We discuss behind-the-scenes details about the current season of RuPaul's Drag Race Down Under and the experience for Hollywould and her cast mates in the show.
• What's the Sydney drag scene like, and what's next for the up-and-coming superstar?
• We speak about the meaning of support and what to do when you don't have it.
   

Connect with us on Instagram @moderngays to see more from this episode on video and follow Hollywould Star @onlyhollywould – Watch RuPaul's Drag Race Down Under Season 3 on @stanaustralia @worldofwonder @wowpresentsplus

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Daniel and Garet
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The profound subject of change and evolution... From personal stories of self-discovery to practical strategies for embracing change, this episode is a heartfelt exploration of growth and identity. Whether you're seeking inspiration or looking to understand the dynamics of change in your life, this episode promises to be a thought-provoking journey.

In this episode, Daniel and Garet discuss the intricate relationship between change and evolution, sharing their personal experiences and insights. They explore the catalysts that spark change, the challenges and triumphs along the way, and the beautiful process of becoming who you are meant to be. From self-reflection to fearless action, this episode covers a wide range of topics that resonate with anyone on a path of personal growth.

Topics Covered:

• The difference between change and evolution
• Personal stories of self-discovery and growth
• Strategies for embracing change and overcoming fear
• The role of identity, especially as a gay individual
• Practical tips for planning and achieving goals
• The power of meditation and self-reflection
• The importance of being an advocate for others in the LGBTQ+ community

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Drawing from their personal narratives, Daniel and Garet share intimate experiences and insights about the fear of disappointing others, particularly in the context of coming out and embracing their authentic selves. They navigate the delicate balance between accommodating others and prioritizing their own needs, highlighting how this equilibrium significantly shapes their sense of control, happiness, and overall well-being.

Through their conversation, Daniel and Garet underscore the importance of self-care and setting boundaries, demonstrating how these practices can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic life. They challenge listeners to reflect on their own lives, encouraging them to make choices that honor their true selves, even if it means disappointing others.

Topics Covered:

• The importance of choosing oneself over the fear of disappointing others
• Personal experiences of coming out and the fear of disappointing family and friends
• The balance between pleasing others and prioritizing oneself
• The concept of control in one's life and the role of dominance and submission
• The impact of overcommitting and not being able to say no
• The importance of setting aside time for oneself
• The role of authenticity in leading a fulfilling life

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Check out this heartfelt and humorous journey as we explore the concept of "home" from a uniquely queer perspective. From feng shui and house numerology to the importance of community and self-expression, this episode dives into what makes a house a home. Whether you're moving, settling in, or just reflecting on your space, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a touch of fabulous flair. Tune in and find your "success corner" with the Modern Gays!

Daniel and Garet share their personal experiences with house hunting, moving, and creating a space that reflects their authentic selves. They discuss the significance of house numerology, the cultural importance of community, and the emotional connection to one's living space. With a blend of humor and wisdom, they explore the intersection of queerness, comfort, and creativity in the place we call home.

Topics Covered:

• The journey of house hunting and moving
• Feng shui and house numerology
• The importance of community and representation
• Emotional connection to living space
• The influence of art and personal expression in home design
• Reflections on renting vs. buying
• The unique perspective of queer individuals on home and belonging
   

Resources:

• Feng Shui Guide
• House Numerology Calculator
• Guide to Queer Art and Home Decor

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We venture into the gray areas of oversharing and personal boundaries, setting the stage for a compelling conversation. Will you discover you're an oversharer or someone who keeps things close to your chest?

In this episode, we navigate the landscape of today's oversharing culture. From reality TV celebrities spilling intimate life details to our social media feeds filled with minute-by-minute updates, the line between sharing and oversharing has been blurred. We’ll explore the effects of oversharing on our personal relationships and mental health, and how it can impact our sense of self.

Adding a pop culture twist to our conversation, we dive into the controversy surrounding Britney Spears and will.i.am's recent song, "Mind Your Business". Is it really Britney behind those notes, or is there more to this digital puzzle than meets the ear?

Topics covered include:

• Understanding the concept of oversharing
• Navigating public breakups and the influence of social media
• Effects of oversharing on mental health and personal lives
• How the oversharing culture affects the LGBTQ+ community
• The balance between sharing and keeping things private
• The role of stars and astrological signs in our moods and emotions
• Reflecting on personal experiences of oversharing

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Daniel and Garet
Co-Hosts of Modern Gays
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Have you heard these myths about Barbie as a role model for self-acceptance and empowerment? Myth 1: Barbie is only for girls. Myth 2: Barbie only promotes unrealistic beauty standards. Myth 3: Barbie lacks substance and is just a pretty face. But what if we told you that the truth is far more empowering and inclusive? Stay tuned for the eye-opening truth about Barbie's role in fostering self-acceptance and empowerment for all genders.

Topics Discussed:

• Discover Barbie's transformative journey that has made a significant impact on social norms and ideals.
• Uncover how Barbie can act as a catalyst for self-love and acceptance in a modern world.
• Explore the variety of careers Barbie has taken on, symbolizing the power of pursuing your dreams.
• Challenge conventional wisdom by breaking down the limiting beliefs and gender roles surrounding Barbie.
• Appreciate Barbie's role in promoting diversity and inclusivity through its evolving doll ranges.

Chapters:

• 03:30 - Barbie's Impact
• 08:49 - Challenges and Inclusivity
• 09:57 - Ken in the LGBTQ+ Community
• 12:17 - Barbie's Role and Excitement
• 14:02 - The Availability of Drag Queen Dolls
• 15:58 - Challenging Limiting Beliefs
• 16:44 - Embracing Diversity and Inclusivity
• 17:29 - Empowerment through Barbie

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Appreciate the profound impact of a diverse pool of friends on broadening your horizons and empathic understanding. Sail through the intricacies of forming and maintaining friendships within the landscape of being gay. Reveal how shared understanding among the gay community acts as a fulcrum that strengthens bonds. Recognize the necessity of defining boundaries and expectations to sustain healthy relationships among gay couples. Gauge the worth of friendships through the lens of mutual support and encouragement.

Chapters:

• 00:06 - Why You Need Gay Friends
• 03:31 - Difficulty in Making Gay Friends
• 05:39 - Ways to Make Friends
• 09:50 - Holding Onto Friends
• 12:47 - Building and Maintaining Friendships
• 13:29 - Filling Each Other's "Cups"
• 17:45 - Letting Friends Go
• 26:12 - Importance of Diversity in Friendship Circles

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Have you ever caught yourself wondering where your day went? Or how did your perception of time drastically change from your twenties to your thirties? We have, and we're here to tell you it can feel like a whirlwind, but it doesn't have to. We'll share our personal experiences and discuss how being intentional with our time can improve happiness and fulfilment. It's all about finding the right balance and channelling our time towards activities and people who enrich our lives. So, buckle up and join us on this journey to truly understand the value of time and how to make the most of it.
 

Topics Covered:

• Understanding the Value of Time
• Perception of Time and Patience
• Age's Impact on Time Perception
• Biohacking and Supplementation
• Time Prioritization and Fulfillment
• Creating Productive Routines
• Identifying Passionate Activities
• Achieving Life Balance for Fulfillment

Chapters:

• [00:03] The Value of Time: We discuss valuing time, making the most of it, and fulfilling life.
• [04:35] The Perception of Time and Patience: We explore how time changes with age, our own experiences, labels attached to age, biohacking and supplementation, and the value of time.
• [15:58] Valuing Time and Finding Fulfillment: We discuss creating a routine, prioritizing time, and finding activities and passions that bring fulfilment.

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We had the privilege of sitting down with Megan Watson, Australia's leading celebrant, who shared invaluable insights on everything from attraction versus true love, to connecting with wedding vendors, and the transition from dating to marriage. Our own wedding photographer, Katie Harmsworth, played a significant role in our special day, and Megan helped us understand how that connection was based on genuine emotion and the importance of such connections in creating a memorable wedding experience. The conversation touched on the evolution of weddings since the legalization of same-sex marriage in Australia, the impact of inclusive language on modern ceremonies, and the challenges COVID-19 has brought to wedding planning. Megan emphasized the significance of being a good ally, staying true to oneself, and navigating difficult conversations with family members, all while reflecting on the importance of love in every aspect of the wedding journey.

Key Highlights:

• Attraction vs. True Love: Megan's take on the distinction.
• Connection with Vendors: Importance of genuine connections.
• Evolution of Weddings: Impact of same-sex marriage legalization.
• Inclusive Language: Breaking down traditional wedding stereotypes.
• COVID-19 Challenges: How it has reshaped wedding planning.
• Being a Good Ally: Staying true to oneself and handling family conversations.
• Love's Importance: Reflections on love throughout the wedding journey.

Links:

• Marriage Celebrant and Episode Special Guest, Megan Watson's Website and Instagram
• Photographer Katie Harmsworth's Instagram
• Florist Graham Ho / Tweed Twigs' Instagram

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We explore the concept of "DINKS" - Dual Income No Kids - and the idea of forgoing having kids in favor of living a life of potential luxury and adventure. Listen in as we discuss the challenges many gay couples face when considering starting a family and how a lack of education and resources may influence their decision. We also look at the adoption and surrogacy process for LGBTQ+ families, discussing the difficulties and legal challenges that may arise. Hear our thoughts on balancing the DINKS lifestyle with parenthood and how we'll try to navigate it. Lastly, we share some valuable resources for those considering starting a family, like Gays with Kids and Men Having Babies. Don't miss our insights on the importance of connecting with other LGBT parents for education and support.

• Dinks or Dads: Discussing the luxuries of a dual income lifestyle without kids versus the challenges and joys of parenthood.
• Surrogacy and Adoption: Exploring the financial, legal, and emotional aspects of starting a family as an LGBTQ+ couple.
• Navigating Surrogacy Laws and Parentage: Understanding the surrogacy process, legal requirements, and the importance of research and support.
• Resources for Starting a Family: Highlighting useful resources like Gays with Kids and Men Having Babies, and the importance of financial aid and community support.

Links:

Men Having Babies
Gays with Kids
Gay & Lesbian Fertility Options at SDFC

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Co-Hosts of Modern Gays
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