In this raw and revealing episode, Clarissa — creator of the Modern Goddess journey — opens up about a truth that many powerful women rarely admit: you can be independent, confident, and self-aware… and still unconsciously center your life around men.

Clarissa breaks down what it truly means to be a male-centered woman — not as a judgment, but as a reflection of emotional wounds, childhood imprints, and generational conditioning.
This episode explores the inner world of women who measure their worth based on male attention, validation, or presence — not because they’re weak, but because it’s what they’ve learned to do in order to survive, belong, and be loved.

Through personal insight, tangible examples, and psychological research, Clarissa guides listeners toward a deeper understanding of themselves — and reminds them: it’s not your fault… but it is your time to heal.

✨ If you've ever felt like you give too much in relationships
✨ If you've waited for someone to choose you before choosing yourself
✨ If you’ve asked yourself: “Why wasn’t I enough?”

…this episode will shift something inside you.

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Have you ever told yourself, “It’s just the gym, I don’t need to do my hair,” or “I’m going on a long trip, no need to look cute”? Maybe you’ve let things slide at the beach, at the pool, or on a lazy Sunday — thinking it doesn’t really matter.

In this episode, Clarissa invites you to question those “exceptions.” Because she’s been there. For years, she believed that not caring about her appearance in certain situations made her practical — even empowered. But deep down, there was something else going on.

She realized that what she called “not caring” was actually a lack of self-worth. She didn’t feel worthy of looking a certain way. She held back from investing in herself. And if someone else did put in the effort? She often judged them — not out of malice, but because it triggered something she hadn’t yet healed.

This conversation isn’t about being high-maintenance. It’s about identity. It’s about choosing to show up as the woman you know you are — not just when it’s easy or convenient, but always.

Because the way you treat your appearance isn’t superficial. It’s a reflection of how deeply you value yourself.

And when that shifts, everything else does too.

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What if the very things keeping you stuck in toxic relationship patterns weren’t obvious red flags… but deeply ingrained beliefs that feel normal?

In this episode, Clarissa shares how a viral Instagram trend—asking ChatGPT “If you were the devil, how would you keep women stuck?”—sparked a powerful reflection. The answer? Shockingly accurate. Because that’s exactly how so many women stay imprisoned in the same cycles… even when they know they want more.

Inside this episode, she unpacks:

— 9 subtle but dangerous thought patterns keeping women from healing

— why “good girl” programming is one of the biggest traps

— the real reason we normalize chaos, struggle, and self-betrayal in love

— how to shift from survival mode to magnetic, empowered connection

If you’ve ever felt like you intellectually know what you want, but emotionally keep going back to less… this one’s for you.

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No one teaches us the real foundations of a thriving relationship — the kind of truths that make love feel lighter, not heavier.

In this episode, Clarissa reveals 7 powerful (and often overlooked) secrets that every woman should know to experience deeper connection and peace in her relationship.

Listeners will discover:
💡 Why stopping the criticism changes everything.
💡 How gratitude — even for the small things — creates emotional closeness.
💡 Why controlling a man or treating him like a child only damages the bond.
💡 And how a man becomes more securely attached the more he invests in you.

Clarissa’s insights are grounded in experience, transformation, and a deep desire to help women build relationships that feel safe, balanced, and deeply fulfilling.

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In this episode, Clarissa dives into one of the most powerful yet misunderstood aspects of love and attraction: feminine and masculine energy.

✨ We all carry both energies within us—but how they show up in our relationships can make or break the connection.

Here’s what you’ll hear in this episode:

⭐ What feminine and masculine energy really mean (beyond gender stereotypes)
⭐ The core traits and expressions of both energies
⭐ How to identify your dominant essence (are you a feminine core or masculine core?)
⭐ What happens when energy polarity is out of balance in a relationship
⭐ How to consciously shift the energy to restore harmony and attraction

Clarissa also opens up about her personal story—how she unintentionally stepped too much into her masculine energy and how she managed to completely shift the dynamic within her current relationship by reconnecting to her feminine core.

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In this episode, Clarissa breaks down one of the most common questions she gets: “Where do I find high value men?”

Spoiler: it starts with not going back to the same places expecting different results.

✨ Here’s what you’ll learn:

🌟 Dismantle the limiting beliefs about high value men not being available out there

🌟 Why your environment reflects (and attracts) the kind of love you experience

🌟 The importance of doing things alone—and owning your own energy

🌟 How to embody the mindset of a high value woman to match a high value man

🌟 A curated list of places where high caliber individuals actually hang out

Stop asking where the good men are—start becoming the kind of woman who naturally meets them.

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In this powerful new episode, Clarissa dives into one of the most requested topics ever: the physical symptoms your body may be showing when you're in the wrong relationship.

After a reel on this exact subject went viral with nearly 6 million views, Clarissa knew it was time to go deeper.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

🌟 What “body rejection” really means—and why it’s not always about the other person being toxic
🌟 The 12 most common physical signs your nervous system might be dysregulated around your partner
🌟 The scientific and energetic reasons behind stress-related symptoms like UTIs, acne, bloating, and insomnia
🌟 Why even “nice” or “normal” relationships can create internal chaos when there’s a mismatch
🌟 How Louise Hay’s teachings connect belief systems, emotional wounds, and physical illness
🌟 When to trust your symptoms—and how to tune into your “wise mind” for guidance

✨ In the second half of the episode, Clarissa gets deeply personal—sharing two vulnerable stories from her own journey:

➤ A period of chronic cystitis that coincided with an emotionally draining relationship
➤ A painful experience of hormonal cystic acne triggered by unresolved emotional tension and feeling trapped in a dynamic that didn’t serve her

These weren’t just skin-deep issues—they were red flags from her own body, shouting: “You’re not safe here.”

If you’ve ever felt sick, disconnected, or like your body was screaming for change while your heart was still holding on… this episode will bring you clarity, comfort, and a whole new level of self-awareness.

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In this episode, Clarissa explores one of the most important topics for building healthy, conscious relationships: attachment styles in adulthood.

She breaks down the three main types—secure, anxious, avoidant—and explains how these patterns, rooted in early childhood experiences, shape our emotional responses in romantic relationships.

You will learn:

✨ What attachment styles are and how they develop
✨ The key traits of anxious and avoidant attachment
✨ Why people with anxious attachment often attract avoidant partners
✨ The toxic push-pull dynamic known as the "anxious-avoidant trap"
✨ Common deactivating strategies of avoidants
✨ How Clarissa personally shifted from an anxious to a more secure style
✨ First steps to start healing and moving toward secure attachment

This episode is a must for anyone who feels stuck in unbalanced relationships or wants to better understand their emotional needs in love.

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In this episode, Clarissa dives deep into one of the most debated questions in the dating world: Is love truly blind?

Inspired by the Netflix show Love Is Blind, she explores the psychology behind attraction, emotional connection, and whether love can really exist without physical chemistry.

Here’s what you’ll discover:

The Love Is Blind Experiment – What happens when people fall in love without ever seeing each other? Is emotional connection enough?
The Power of Projection – Are we really falling for the person… or for the idea of them that we’ve created in our minds?
Science Behind Attraction – How smell, genetics, and brain chemistry influence who we are drawn to (even without realizing it).
Clarissa’s Personal Experience – The times she fell for someone’s potential rather than their reality (and why she doesn’t do that anymore).

Final Verdict – Can love be blind, or do we need to see the full picture before making a lifelong commitment?

Ready to challenge your views on love and attraction? Hit play and let’s talk about it!

✨ Let’s continue the conversation! DM Clarissa on Instagram @moderngoddess.club and share your thoughts!

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We all have those days when everything feels like too much—when self-doubt creeps in, motivation disappears, and even the smallest tasks feel impossible.

In this episode, Clarissa opens up about a powerful realization she recently had about how to survive bad days and break free from the cycle of negativity.

Drawing from her own experiences, she dives into:

✨ Why negative emotions feel so overwhelming in the moment

✨ The sneaky habits that make things worse without you even realizing it

✨ A mindset shift that helped her stop spiraling and regain control

✨Simple but effective ways to shift your energy—even when you don’t feel like it

As someone who has been through this cycle more times than she can count, Clarissa shares what truly works (and what doesn’t) when it comes to pulling yourself out of a low-energy state.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, lost, or consumed by overthinking, this episode will give you the tools to take back your power.

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