A little girl is always surrounded by a brother, a father, or some male member in the family who out of love, is always listening to her, doing things for her.
But in the bargain, is a brain training her to be dependent on others for everything.
The young mind learns that if people love her, she will be happy
If people obey her, she will be happy.
If people do everything she wants, then she will be happy.
If she listens to all that others are saying, others will be happy with her.
Her happiness is outside her.
Her happiness is on others accepting her...is laid out.
And what are the consequences?