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Hello and welcome to the Mom Bits Podcast. Today, let's chat about Spring Cleaning our relationships. What I mean by that is essentially auditing our relationships and making sure that we have healthy boundaries in place.
Some of the tips I mention are:

Tip #1: Be direct. Don't dilly dally. Don't sugar coat. Don't make people read between the lines. Be direct about your boundaries.
Tip #2: Engage in self-reflection and self-awareness
Tip #3: Make self-care a priority

Let's talk about it!
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Hello and welcome back to the Mom Bits Podcast. Today, we are chatting about Spring Cleaning Our Social Media accounts. It's super important to do a little audit every once in a while to make sure that the content you are putting out there as well as the content that you're consuming, aligns with your morals, core values and beliefs. It can be very easy for our brain to consume information unconsciously so we need to be cognizant of what we are feeding it. Let's talk about it!
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Hello and welcome back to the Mom Bits Podcast. Today, let's chat about Spring Cleaning. It is upon us and cleaning tik toks or cleaning accounts on Instagram are about to flourish. P.s. I love cleaning videos :). I'm going to be sharing some tips and tricks with you to make this year's Spring Cleaning, a little easier and less stressful. Let's talk about it!
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Welcome back to the Mom Bits Podcast. Today, let's chat about a few of the things that steal our joy as moms. These Joy Killers can be easy to fall prey to but we have the power to recognize them and deny them our joy. Let's talk about it.

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Welcome to the Mom Bits Podcast. Today, let's chat about us parents needing to break the cycle of trauma and dysfunction.

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Welcome to the Mom Bits Podcast. Let's chat about how to be an Ally and how that differs from performative allyship or performative activism (aka as slacktivism).

**NOTE:  I'm also going off about the 9 year old black LITTLE GIRL in crisis that was pepper sprayed by the police as a means to "deescalate" her. *

--> Black little boys and girls don't get afforded the same innocence as white little boys and girls...especially when they're dealt with by the police and its sickening. 
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Welcome back to the Mom Bits Podcast. Let's chat today about terms we often hear in the topic of racism and let's get a baseline understanding of what these terms mean.
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Terms;

White Privilege; inherent advantages possessed by a white person on the basis of their race in a society characterized by racial inequality and injustice.
Source: Google
IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT white people have easy lives, were born with silver spoons in their mouths nor does it mean that white people are spared from hardships

Implicit Bias: stereotypes,  beliefs and attitudes that can affect how we treat others
Source: Google
Link: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwiwhuyvquzuAhU7FVkFHSYbAYUQFjALegQIAhAC&url=https%3A%2F%2Fimplicit.harvard.edu%2Fimplicit%2Ftakeatest.html&usg=AOvVaw0_JBOPkA9tKKNor9hduAHV

Racism: prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against a person or people on the basis of their membership in a particular racial or ethnic group, typically one that is a minority or marginalized
Source: Google

Defund the police: Reallocating or redirecting some funding away from police department to other agencies in the social services realm
Source: Google
Link: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwiR4duZquzuAhXjEVkFHWTjAWEQFjAIegQIDRAC&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ualberta.ca%2Fnewtrail%2Fideas%2Fdefund-the-police.html&usg=AOvVaw2cq3fkXxtpPpihZhPnT3cd

Systemic Racism:
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Interesting study about Racial Disparities in the Healthcare realm

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwi1uNHKquzuAhUfFVkFHcydCNgQFjABegQICRAC&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov%2Fpmc%2Farticles%2FPMC4843483%2F&usg=AOvVaw3ouZ1LYOb7ydx6oTRkoLr2

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Welcome back to the Mom*Bits Podcast. Let's chat today about my experiences "mothering while black". I don't share to gain sympathy but to impress upon you that white privilege in parenting, in motherhood, is a thing. WOC are also mothers of colour who struggle with the same things you do while also manoeuvring racial issues and raising children in a world that is either unaccepting of their skin colour or blind to their skin colour. 
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Hello and welcome back to the Mom*Bits Podcast. I am your host, Ayanda and in light of Black History Month, we are going to chat about a few topics about Race that affect the Motherhood Community. Today we will chat about Colourblind parenting. What it is and why it is problematic. Let's talk about it!
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Resources:

https://www.sapiens.org/biology/colorblind-parenting/

https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/entry/raising-kids-colorblind-anti-racism_l_5ee3bf4bc5b64b33b225479f

https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/diverse-development/202006/the-dangers-colorblind-socialization
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Hello and welcome back to the Mom*Bits Podcast. Let's take a break from usual programming to have a little fun and engage in a game of jeopardy. Let me know on Instagram how many you got right and how angry the last one made you LOL. Let's get it..
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