Hi Everyone! & thank you so much for tuning into this week's episode of Mom Mode! On this week's episode join us as Abbi ( & special guest Carter!) shares how she navigated the shock, grief and joy of her son's down syndrome diagnosis. 

When Abbi received her positive NIPT result at 95% for trisomy 21, her world shifted instantly. She was alone when she first read the results, felt overwhelmed, and started spiraling—until she decided to lean into her family, faith, community, and her unwavering love for her son Carter. 

This episode challenges you to rethink the labels and societal perceptions around Down syndrome. Abbi’s message is clear: every child, no matter their chromosomes, is a unique, valuable human with endless potential. Her and her son's story inspires hope, resilience, and the power of choosing confidence over fear.

For parents facing a similar diagnosis, Abbi offers heartfelt advice—grieve, lean into support, and embrace the unexpected joys waiting in the unknown. Whether you're a parent, a caregiver, a friend, or simply curious, this episode will leave you motivated to show up stronger and more supportive for families walking this journey.

Key takeaways: 

• Abbi shares her experience with prenatal testing: Positive NIPT results.
• How Abbi and her husband processed their son's diagnosis with both joy and grief.
• The value of advocacy, positivity and supporting others in the Down syndrome community. 

• Emphasize the importance of community support, faith, and self-care.

• Navigating health care, surgeries, and medical appointments.

• The importance of early intervention and therapies. 

• Tips for family and friends to show support compassionately

Perfect for: New or expecting parents, advocacy supporters, and anyone eager to see the beauty beyond diagnosis—Carter's story proves every child is one of the lucky few.

Resources:

Abbi's Instagram: @lifewithcarterjames

 The Burger Family Foundation: @burgerfamilyfoundation 

burgerfamilyfoundation.org 

The Lucky Kew Foundation: @theluckyfewfoundation 

theluckyfewfoundation.org 

As always, thank you so much for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood and if you enjoyed listening please subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or YouTube and leave us a review! 

xo, Nichole

I am so excited to introduce today's guest, Spenser Lipton! Spenser is a certified pediatric sleep consultant, who reveals how to turn chaotic nights into restful ones—and why procrastinating might be holding you back.

If you're a parent feeling overwhelmed by sleep struggles or wondering when and how to start, this episode is your calming guide to more peaceful nights ahead. Spencer shares her personal journey from sleep-deprived mom to sleep expert, highlighting that effective sleep training isn't just for new parents—it's a powerful tool at any stage.

She busts common myths about sleep regressions, transition times, and the perfect routines, giving you concrete strategies to navigate everything from baby naps to toddlers climbing out of cribs. You'll discover how to recognize the signs your child is ready to drop naps, the safest ways to handle co-sleeping versus room sharing, and how to support your child's independent sleep without feeling like you're setting back their development.

We break down: the ideal age for sleep training, how to manage multiple children’s differing schedules, and the surprising importance of consistent sleep environments—like noise machines and blackout shades—that can make or break your child's ability to fall asleep on their own. Spencer also explains why giving yourself grace is crucial, especially when plans need to pivot—because kids are uniquely different, and every milestone unlocks new adventures in parenting.

Ultimately, this episode empowers you with the confidence to trust your instincts, make small adjustments, and realize that sleep struggles are fleeting—a phase that will pass. Whether you're contemplating your first sleep training experience or adapting routines for your growing family, you'll leave inspired that peaceful nights are within reach, backed by science, support, and a whole lot of patience.

Spenser is a mom of two and founder of My Sleep Friend, helping families across the country reclaim their nights with expert-backed guidance. Her compassionate approach and real-world tips turn sleepless nights into sweet dreams, proving that better sleep isn't just a dream—it's an achievable goal.

Consider this your go-to episode for navigating the complex world of baby and toddler sleep with confidence. If you're tired of guessing and ready for a proven plan, hit play and start your journey toward restful, restorative nights today.

Thank you so much for listening! - xo Nichole

Resources:

Instagram @mysleepfriend

Web: mysleepfriend.co

Hi Everyone! & thank you so much for tuning into this week's episode of Mom Mode! On this week's episode we have Sunday Times Bestselling Author - Jessica Urlichs on the podcast! This episode is special to me because within my first few weeks of motherhood I received a beautiful surprise in the mail from my friend Leah.. it was a book that Jessica wrote "All I See is You" and at the time I didn't know at first just how much that book would mean to me. As a mom I didn't realize how much I would grow, change, be challenged, go through some really dark/raw moments but I did and then I thought about all the other moms I knew going through this same chapter yet realizing that those dark/raw moments are rarely talked about. This beautiful book that Jessica wrote had the most relatable moments beautifully written and I am forever thankful because after speaking with Jessica - I realized just how real those poems truly were. Written while nap trapped with newborn, during the middle of the night feeding her baby deep in thought, exhausted, filled with anxiety..it was all real. 

Jessica opens up about her experiences with postnatal anxiety and the societal pressures surrounding motherhood, particularly in relation to breastfeeding. She highlights the importance of sharing vulnerabilities and connecting with other mothers who face similar challenges. The conversation also touches on the evolving identity of women as they transition from motherhood to rediscovering themselves, with Jessica working on a new collection of poetry that explores womanhood and personal growth.

The dialogue is rich with empathy and understanding, offering reassurance to mothers in various stages of their journey. It underscores the significance of self-care, community support, and the courage to express one's true feelings.

Key takeaways: 

• How writing became a therapeutic tool, helping process emotions and connect with other mothers.  
• Practical insights on navigating postpartum challenges. 
• How societal pressure, particularly around breastfeeding, can impact a mothers mental health. 
• The journey of rediscovering personal identity beyond motherhood, focusing on motherhood. 
• Reminder to mothers that they are not alone in their feelings and that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. 

Perfect for: Moms longing to feel seen, heard and inspired to nurture their innermost selves again. Hit play and discover the poetic power of sharing your truth!

Resources: Instagram - @jessurlichs 

Website link: https://www.jessicaurlichs.com/

Jessica's Books:

From One Mom to a Mother - #1 most gifted poetry book on Amazon 

All I See Is You

My After All Beautiful Chaos - Sunday Times Bestseller 

They Bloom Because of You 

As always, thank you so much for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood and if you enjoyed listening please subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or YouTube and leave us a review! 

xo, Nichole

Hi Everyone! & thank you so much for tuning into this week's episode of Mom Mode! On this week's episode we have Xenia Hatzilias on the podcast. Xenia is a mental health therapist who works with moms in different stages of their journey from fertility, pregnancy, grief, postpartum anxiety & depression, and just the transition into motherhood overall. 

During our conversation - Xenia shares her transformative journey of motherhood, particularly during the COVID pandemic. Her journey first started as an unexpected pregnancy (with her then boyfriend, now husband), challenges faced during labor and delivery, and the emotional and mental health struggles that followed. We talk about the importance of support systems, the pressures of societal expectations on new mothers, and the beauty found in the journey of motherhood despite its difficulties.

Key takeaways: 

• Xenia’s shift towards maternal mental health was influenced by her own experiences during pregnancy - she shares her story of becoming a mom in depth. 
• How experiencing pregnancy during COVID brought unexpected challenges and fears for new mothers.
• Support from partners and family is crucial during the postpartum period.
• Postpartum anxiety and depression can affect mothers regardless of their previous mental health status. 
• Societal pressures can lead to unrealistic expectations for new mothers, especially regarding breastfeeding.
• It's important to recognize and address postpartum mental health issues early.
• Seeking help, whether through therapy or support groups, is vital.
• Sharing experiences and stories can help normalize the challenges of motherhood.

Perfect for:

Supportive Partners and Family Members: Those who want to understand the emotional and psychological journey of motherhood to better support their loved ones.

This episode provides a heartfelt exploration of motherhood, mental health, and personal transformation, offering support and understanding to those on similar journeys.

Resources:

Newsletter link: xenfamilytherapy.kit.com

Website link: https://www.xenfamilytherapy.com/landing-page

Email for Therapy in FL, PA, TN, & WV: [email protected]

Phone: (727) 371-0971

IG: @xenfamilytherapy

Workbook link: https://xenfamilytherapy.kit.com/products/planning-for-postpartum-workbook

As always, thank you so much for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood and if you enjoyed listening please subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or YouTube and leave us a review! 

xo, Nichole

Hi Everyone! & thank you so much for tuning into this week's episode of Mom Mode! On this week's episode we have Gabby Lyn on the podcast! Gabby was previously a full time speech-language pathologist turned SAHM to her daughter Ella and during her transition she has shared her journey of motherhood, the challenges of transitioning from a working mom to a SAHM and the importance of community and self-care along the way! 

Gabby and I discuss her experience with postpartum anxiety, the isolating feeling that being home can bring to you during those early days of motherhood and what helped her find this new version of herself, the joys of connecting with her daughter through singing and the need for support among mothers and the significance of finding balance in their lives (really highlighting how much finding a community matters) and honestly I couldn't agree more! 

Key takeaways: 

• The vulnerable transition from working mom to stay-at-home mom.
• Gabby shares her experience of rediscovering herself after becoming a mother.
• The importance of being an intentional mom, encouraging mothers to find joy in the small moments.
• The power of singing for bonding and language development.

• How social media has helped her connect with other moms and find community- community is something that Gabby strongly advises new moms to find as it can help so much to discuss, relate and not feel alone.

xo, Nichole

Follow Gabby on Instagram!: @itsgabbylyn

As always, thank you so much for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood and if you enjoyed listening please subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or YouTube and leave us a review! 

Hi Everyone! & thank you so much for tuning into this week's episode of Mom Mode! On this week's episode we have Laura Arroyo on the podcast! Mother of a daughter born with a cleft palate and host to her own podcast "Our Forever Smiles" supporting mothers of children born with a cleft lip or palate.  

During this episode of Mom Mode,  Laura shares her personal journey as a mother of a child born with a cleft palate. She discusses the challenges faced, the emotional rollercoaster of receiving the diagnosis, her experience in the NICU and emphasizes the importance of community support for parents navigating similar situations and provides valuable resources for those newly diagnosed. The conversation highlights the emotional and practical aspects of parenting a child with a cleft lip or palate, offering insights and encouragement for other parents. Moms, you are not alone if you are currently navigating a diagnosis. 

Key takeaways: 

• Laura hosts the Our Forever Smiles podcast to support mothers of children with cleft lip or palate
• Cleft lip and palate can occur independently or together, with different prevalence rates between genders.
• It's normal for parents to feel a range of emotions, including guilt and worry, when facing a cleft diagnosis.
• Breastfeeding can be challenging for babies with cleft palates due to suction issues. Bottle recommendations listed below! 
• Community support is crucial for parents of children with cleft conditions.
• Resources such as Facebook groups and podcasts like (Our Forever Smiles) can provide valuable information and support. 

Perfect for:

• Moms who are currently experiencing the birth of a baby with cleft lip or cleft palate. 
• First-time moms feeling overwhelmed by their child's cleft diagnosis. 
• Moms looking for a cleft community for support.

Laura's Bottle recommendations:

• Dr. Brown's Specialty Feeding Systems (SFS) - designed for infants with cleft lip and palate or complex feeding challenges. Utilizes a blue "infant-paced feeding valve" to create compression-based flow, allowing infants to feed without needing to generate suction. 
• Pigeon Cleft Palate Bottle - specialized feeding system for infants with cleft lip/palate or weak sucking strength. 
• The Medela SpecialNeeds Feeder (formerly the Haberman Feeder) - specialized bottle designed for infants with cleft lip/palate, allowing infants to feed with minimal suction. 

Resources:

• Instagram: @ourforeversmiles 
• Podcast: Our Forever Smiles (Spotify, Apple Podcasts)
• Facebook Group: Cleft Lip and Palate Support Group 

As always, thank you so much for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood and if you enjoyed listening please subscribe to us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or YouTube and leave us a review! 

xo, Nichole

Hi Everyone! & thank you for tuning into this week's episode of Mom Mode! On this week's episode we have Becca Bunch Booker! Becca is a first time mom to her 7 month old son and business owner to Homemade Social - a digital marketing agency based in Phoenix, Arizona. 

During our conversation, Beeca shares her journey through pregnancy, the challenges of having a breech baby, her experience trying the ECV procedure, her experience having a scheduled C-section and the importance of self-care and grace during motherhood. 

We also dive into what work-life balance has been like being a business owner taking maternity leave and the support systems she has in place allowing for a successful return back. Becca offers valuable advice for other moms navigating similar experiences, emphasizing the importance of preparation and mental health. Get ready for a candid conversation that reminds you: no matter what your pregnancy journey looks like, you’re doing amazing. Hit play to hear the full story—and maybe even learn a thing or two you didn’t know you needed.

In this episode, you'll uncover:

• A first time moms experience having a breech baby and experiencing a positive scheduled c-section.
• Becca's experience trying the ECV procedure in order to try and flip breech baby.
• The importance of having a support system, like a nanny, can significantly ease the transition back to work after maternity leave.
• The importance of communicating your needs with your partner during the postpartum period.
• Preparation for maternity leave when you are a business owner. 
• Finding a good balance between work and motherhood when returning back to work. 

Perfect for:

• Expectant mothers facing breech or complications
• First-time moms feeling overwhelmed by birth choices
• Entrepreneurs and working moms balancing baby and business
• Anyone seeking honest, relatable pregnancy stories with practical tips

As always, thank you so much for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood and if you enjoyed please leave us a review or subscribe so you can continue following along!

xo, Nichole

Hi Everyone! & thank you for tuning into this week's episode of Mom Mode! On this week's episode we have Mandy Davis, mom of two on the podcast!! 

Mandy Davis, M.Ed., is a former school principal and author of The Homeschool Bible, a definitive guide to homeschooling. She is the founder of Homebuilt Education and leads a community of over 400,000 families online, delivering trusted resources and guidance for parents. 

Most parents underestimate how liberating—and essential—lifelong homeschooling can be, especially when the school system isn’t working. During our conversation, Mandy reveals the untold truths behind traditional schooling’s pitfalls—from bullying and anxiety to outdated curricula and rigid schedules—and shares how to reclaim your child's education on your own terms. In this episode, Mandy shares her transformational journey from the trenches of the public school system to homeschooling her own children, exposing the systemic issues she encountered that many parents don’t see from the outside. She discusses how bullying, mental health struggles, and misaligned schedules impact kids’ well-being, and explains how homeschooling offers a personalized, less stressful alternative.

During this episode we discuss:

• Why the school day’s timing and structure undermine teenage health and mental wellness.
• The myths about socialization in homeschooling versus reality—and how kids truly build community.
• Practical strategies for starting homeschooling even if you work full-time or feel overwhelmed.
• The power of hybrid models and local co-ops to enrich kids’ social and extracurricular experiences.
• How emergency remote learning during COVID blurred the line between schooling and actual education—and why it’s not homeschooling.
• How - The Homeschool Bible is a comprehensive resource for new homeschooling families.

This episode is perfect for overwhelmed parents questioning whether the traditional school system is the best fit for their kids, or anyone curious about stepping outside the system but unsure how to start. Mandy’s insights are grounded in her personal story, educational expertise, and her new resources—like the upcoming Homeschool Bible and Parent Planner—designed to guide parents every step of the way. If you’re ready to rethink education, find confidence in your parenting choices, and explore practical options to personalized learning, this episode is your must-listen. The path to empowering your child’s future begins here.

Mandy Davis Info:

Instagram: @homebuilteducation

Resources: Thehomeschoolbible.com, HomebuiltEducation.com

As always, thank you so much for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood and if you enjoyed please leave us a review or follow up on Apple Podcasts or Spotify so you can continue following along 

xo, Nichole

In today's episode, we welcome Abbi Warden to the show!

Abbi is a Toronto-based COO, proud mom of three under two, and advocate for honest motherhood conversations.

Most moms feel like they've lost themselves when new chaos arrives— Abbi's journey from postpartum overwhelm to thriving mom and COO will change how you see your own motherhood experience.

During our conversation - Abbi shares her rawest moments of postpartum anxiety, the dramatic shift in her identity after having twins, and the surprising ways she found her confidence again after welcoming her 3rd baby. From living thousands of miles away from family to now finding her groove with three kids, she reveals the importance of community/family, asking for help/accepting help, having a supportive partner and prioritizing self-care amidst chaos.

Why this matters: Missing out on your own well-being can leave you stuck in survival mode—Abbi’s story shows it’s not only okay to prioritize yourself but essential to truly enjoy motherhood. Whether you’re pregnant, postpartum, or juggling life with little ones, her insights will inspire you to redefine what success and self-care really mean.

This episode isn’t just about surviving—it’s about reclaiming your confidence and remembering who you are outside of motherhood’s chaos.

During this episode we discuss:

• How postpartum anxiety can sneak up even when everything looks "okay" on the surface.
• The real truth behind postpartum identity shifts and feeling like you’ve lost yourself.
• Practical advice for asking for help and building your village, especially when living far from family.
• The unexpected relief of returning to work—what Abby calls her purpose—after feeling lost.
• The behind-the-scenes of her hernia battle and how medical uncertainty affected her mental health.
• Finding her “Pink” and what its like prioritizing yourself from time to time.
• Experience around exclusively breastfeeding

Follow Abbi on Instagram! @abbiwarden

As always, thank you so much for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood and if you enjoyed this episode please leave a review and follow wherever you listen so you never miss an episode! XO, Nichole

Please join me in welcoming Meems Gillette to Mom Mode as we have such a fun and honest conversation about motherhood and what it is like to have 2 kids in your mid-40s. A journey that began for Meems with IVF due to male factor, transitioning from being a teacher to a SAHM, balancing a healthy marriage by maintaining individuality and advocating for herself when it came to experiencing perimenopause. We truly talk through it all! Once becoming a mom to her second child she also started posting on social media as a way to connect with other women and find community and now content creates full time by sharing raw relatable and unfiltered mom humor!

During this episode we discuss:

• How perimenopause is often overlooked in women's health discussions and how important it is to find the answers you need. 
• How motherhood can feel isolating, but community helps and the power of social media is great for finding that community of women. 
• The journey of IVF due to male factor. 
• Finding balance between self-care and parenting.
• Maintaining individuality in marriage is important and finding a good routine that works for both.
• Ways that parenting gets easier but also harder as your kids continue to grow. 

For more from Meems, follow her on Instagram @twolittlestolove  !

As always, thank you so much again for listening to Mom Mode - I hope these conversations bring you something that you needed to hear while on your journey through motherhood! XO, Nichole