Sideways, he was the sidewinder type, a poisonous viper that usually sneaks around rapidly sliding sideways across the desert effortlessly.

Sudana would have to chill and learn that she couldn’t love me by force or keep a scorecard somehow declaring herself as the winner.

“Stress, misery and hatred, anger, frustration, and fear were no way for a man to live, and none of it had anything to do with love or family. At least, it shouldn’t. If it does, a man has to make moves, big moves, wise moves. A man has to grind until he sets it right. A man has to set things right in the right setting with the right community. It has to be a community that is working with him, not against him all the time, all day every day”.~Midnight

“It’s a powerful thing, this love. It can make your whole world shift.”~Chiasa

This is Jeong you are seeing and hopefully also feeling right now...our people have been attacked, colonized , ruled by dictators. Our families have been under pressure...Even though we are separated by space and time , we are still loving that person, and waiting or fighting or praying for their return. Whenever we are reunited our love is as though they never left. They are welcomed back into the family and we continue on...

I know that if Akemi and Chiasa were American girls, they would’ve attacked each other. They would have tried to rip each other’s hearts out and bloodied as many body parts as possible. They would’ve burned down houses and slashed tires and raised up girl armies. They might have even tried to castrate...the illest thing, however, that I know for sure from seven years in America-if they were American girls, the would’ve made a scene, fought, and talked a bunch of ish and refused to marry me and refused to share. Still they both would’ve continued to allow me to 🤬 them repeatedly, impregnate them, and abandon them while swearing they were both right and both hadn’t done anything wrong. I was proud of Akemi and Chiasa. Them being able to stay cool, talk it out, and be reasonable made me love them even more.~Midnight

“About the two, or three, or four wives situation, I don’t know....it seems like men are given permission to have up to four wives only in certain situations. And it says ‘only if you can do justice with them’. Do you think a man could really treat more than one wife equally and justly?”~CHIASA

“People envy people who love. People who love like you and your father expose the people who do not love much or at all, just by your being alive. Then those people say, ‘We have to destroy him because of what he CAN do and what we CANNOT do. If we destroy him, no one will ever know that we cannot love. No one will ever know what’s missing.’”~UMMA

If you want to find out your true feeling for a girl, just ask yourself, What am I willing to do for her? Would I fight for her? Would I work hard for her? Would I kill for her? Would I marry her? If you think about it, and the answer to all those questions that you asked yourself is no, she ain’t the right one...If you couldn’t even imagine her as your wife, that means you’re setting up to disrespect her...~Midnight

What do you see yourself doing with your life?~The General. Family and business, that’s what all men are supposed to do right? ~Midnight