Moments With Toke

Had the privilege of having a live recording with the best girls (The_218), we had an amazing time talking about what valentine means to each of us. The discussion highlighted the preference of each of us based on our personality and love languages. It's not about what ladies or guys want for Val but knowing your partner well to discern what would make them feel loved. Amidst the societal pressure of getting a gift, you must understand what makes you both happy and go for it. And who says that every day can't be Val's day, you don't have to wait till February 14th🤷‍♀️

After selecting your vendors for your big day, you need to understand how to manage you finances. We also discussed how to manage people and working well with ypur event planners on how to enjoy a stress-free wedding

Everyone looks forward to having a perfect wedding day, the beautiful view and perfect picture you always dream off. This episode is aimed at helping to prepare for the big day without leaving any stones unturned. Planning with a budget and still have enough to live comfortably with your spouse.

Concluded part of maturity in relationship with Collins

How to resolve conflicts maturely in a relationship

1. Find out the reason

2. As partners never assume

3. Be accountable to each other

4. Both should work at it.

5. Keep studying each other

The amount of wealth one has acquired or growth in musculature is not what maturity is all about. Maturity is based on level of operational wisdom, which eventually determines the decisions you make. Maturity also has to do with response to actions.

The #1000 therapy in this episode explains the importance of knowing your worth and value as a person. You might think you are a mess but its time to turn that mess into a message. You are amazing just the way you are.

An interesting and insightful episode on how to deal with emotional baggage in a relationship. Daniel Akpata, a relationship expert and an addiction therapist joined us to share the practical steps in dealing with weaknesses and past negative events that have bad effects in our future as individuals and as couples.

Emotional intelligence is being aware of your emotions and that of your partner. Understanding who you are and who your partner is, then channelling your emotions for the right cause in your relationship.

The key to finding the right mate is by first identifying who you are, the qualities and standards that you have built for yourself; loving yourself and being honest about how you feel.

Continues with the 14 rules of communication.