Remember the viral dress that some people saw as white and gold while others saw as blue and black? Everyone looked at the same picture but walked away with a different perspective. In this episode, we explore one of the most powerful examples of perspective in Scripture as twelve spies entered the Promised Land and came back with two very different reports.

Why did some see giants while others saw God's promises? Why did fear consume some while faith propelled others forward? And what does that teach us about the way we view our own obstacles, opportunities, and future today?

Join me as we unpack the story of Caleb and Joshua and discover how what you focus on shapes what you declare, what you declare influences your direction, and how your perspective can either trap you in fear or position you in faith. The giants were real, but so was God.

If you've been battling discouragement, anxiety, self-doubt, or feeling overwhelmed by the obstacles in front of you, this episode is for you.

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What do you do when God feels quiet? What do you do when fear creeps in, anxiety rises, and you feel unsure of your next step?

In this episode, we’re talking about learning to walk with God through every season. Sometimes He holds our hand closely as we learn, and other times He lovingly steps back and reminds us that we are already equipped through His Spirit to walk confidently by faith. We dive into learning God’s ways through His Word, overcoming fear and insecurity, growing in spiritual maturity, and learning how to rise again even after we stumble.

This message is for the woman who has been doubting herself, feeling spiritually stuck, battling anxious thoughts, or wondering if she’s truly capable of what God has called her to do. Through personal stories, biblical encouragement, and practical truth, this conversation will remind you that God is still with you, still guiding you, and still strengthening you for every step ahead.

“God is within her, she will not fall.” Psalm 46:5 💗

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In this episode of Momming with Jesus, we’re diving into the pursuit of holiness and what it truly means to be set apart for God in a world that constantly pressures us to blend in. Holiness is not about perfection, legalism, or pretending to have it all together. It’s about allowing the life changing power of Jesus to transform the way we live, think, speak, and walk through this world.

Together we unpack the deeper meaning behind the book of Leviticus, the deliverance of Israel from Egypt, the narrow path Jesus spoke about, and the call for believers to actually live like we’ve been saved. We talk honestly about compromise, conviction, backsliding, spiritual refinement, and why God calls us out of old cycles so we can fully step into the life He has prepared for us.

If you’ve ever struggled with feeling torn between the world and your faith, battled compromise, or wondered why holiness even matters anymore, this conversation is for you. God is still calling His people out, refining them through the fire, and raising up believers who are willing to live differently for His glory.

You are not called to blend in. You are called to be set apart. Holiness still matters. 💗

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What are you building with your life?

In this episode, we walk through the story of Moses and the building of the tabernacle to uncover a powerful truth: we are all building something. Whether it’s a family, marriage, business, ministry, healing journey, or peaceful home, what we build, why we build it, and how we build it matters.

We talk about willing hearts, discovering the gifts God placed inside of you, overcoming the lie that you have nothing valuable to offer, and the power of building alongside others for the Kingdom of God. This episode is a reminder that God is not just looking for perfection, He’s looking for people willing to say yes.

If you’ve been feeling stirred to create, grow, serve, heal, lead, or step into something new, this conversation will encourage you deeply. 🤍

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Have you ever waited so long on God that you started questioning if it was even worth it? In this episode, we’re talking about the danger of compromising in the waiting and how easy it is to slowly drift when things don’t happen on our timeline. Using the story in Exodus 32, we unpack how the Israelites threw it all away after everything God had already done for them and how we can fall into the same pattern without even realizing it. This episode is a call to stay faithful, stay locked in, and not trade what God has promised for something temporary. We also dive into the power of prayer and how your intercession has the ability to change outcomes, impact lives, and stand in the gap for others. If you’re in a waiting season, feeling tired, discouraged, or tempted to give up, this is for you.

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Have you ever looked at your life and realized you’re blessed… but still complaining?

In this episode, we dive into the story of Moses and the Israelites to uncover how quickly gratitude can turn into frustration—and how complaining can quietly become a cycle we don’t even realize we’re in. Even after witnessing miracles, provision, and God’s faithfulness, they still complained… and if we’re honest, so do we.

We’re talking about how complaining affects your heart, your mindset, and even the people around you—and more importantly, how to break that cycle and choose gratitude, even in the wilderness seasons of life.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, negative, or just stuck in a rut, this episode will help you reset your perspective and refocus on God’s goodness.

It’s time to stop being blessed but bitter… and start living grateful and grounded in truth.

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Have you ever seen a need and thought, “someone should do something about that”… and kept it moving?

In this episode, we’re diving into the story of Moses and the reality that what feels like “not my problem” might actually be the very place God is calling you to step in. God hears the cries. He sees the need. And sometimes… He chooses you to be the answer.

We’ll talk about unexpected callings, feeling unqualified, and how God uses ordinary people in extraordinary ways. Because the truth is—your everyday life might be the very place God is asking you to show up.

If you’ve ever wrestled with purpose, obedience, or feeling like you’re not ready… this one is for you.

It’s time to take your phone off “Do Not Disturb”… because God might be calling.

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What does it actually mean to live a life that honors God?

In this message, we’re talking about real Christianity vs. performative faith. It’s easy to look like a Christian on the outside, but God isn’t after a show—He’s after your heart. This episode dives into the importance of repentance, holiness, and the fear of God, and why we are called to run from sin, not play with it.

If you’ve ever struggled with hidden sin, feeling lukewarm, or wanting a deeper, more authentic relationship with God, this message will challenge and encourage you to live set apart.

👉 Topics covered:

• Living a life worthy of your calling

• Why fake faith is dangerous

• Running from sexual sin and temptation

• The fear of God and reverence

• Repentance and sanctification

This isn’t about perfection—it’s about surrender and transformation.

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What does it really mean to be “just a woman”?

In this episode, we’re breaking that phrase down and exposing the lie behind it. Too often, women feel like they have to shrink back, stay quiet, or choose between being a godly wife and mother or stepping into their calling. But that’s not God’s design.

Through the stories of women like Mary and Esther, and the truth found in Proverbs 31, we see a different picture. A woman who is chosen, called, and filled with purpose. A woman who honors God’s order while still using her voice. A woman who walks in humility and boldness at the same time.

This conversation is about identity, calling, and what it truly looks like to live as a woman of God. You are not “just” anything. You are His, and He has given you a voice, influence, and purpose right where you are.

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Have you ever found yourself in the room… but not really there?

In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet but constant battle we’re all facing—the war for our attention. In a world full of scrolling, notifications, and endless distractions, it’s become so easy to miss the moments that actually matter most.

From conversations with our kids, to connection with our spouse, to time with God—we can be physically present but mentally somewhere else.

But what if the life we’ve been longing for isn’t somewhere out there… what if it’s already right in front of us?

📖 “What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.” — James 4:14

This episode is an invitation to slow down, become aware, and choose presence again. Not perfectly—but intentionally.

Let’s stop missing our lives while we’re living them.

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