Mommy Oyoyo

Is Santa Claus real???

How does he get presents around the world in a short time?

How come the toys the elves make look exactly like the toys in the store?

These are some of the questions children start to ask about Santa around the age of 7 or 8. In this episode, I share my reactions when my daughter first asked me (and Alexa and Google) whether Santa is real, and the responses I got when I posed the questions to other parents on social media and in real life.

Summary

In this episode of the Mommy Oyoyo Podcast, Berry Dakara shares her comprehensive back-to-school preparation strategies. From organizing school supplies and establishing routines to budgeting for the school year and reconnecting with friends, she provides practical tips for parents to ensure a smooth transition into the new school year. Berry emphasizes the importance of planning ahead, setting goals with children, and maintaining open communication with teachers and school staff.

Takeaways

• Create a spreadsheet to track school supply prices.
• Take advantage of meet and greet opportunities with teachers.
• Establish a consistent sleep routine before school starts.
• Keep cash on hand for school events and activities.
• Schedule hair appointments for the first day of school.
• Review the school calendar for important dates.
• Re-download necessary school apps before the year starts.
• Budget for unexpected school-related expenses.
• Encourage children to set personal goals for the school year.
• Reconnect with friends to ease the transition back to school.

Typically in African society and culture, women are expected to not only have, but WANT to have children. From childhood, African women are generally told by society that marriage and motherhood are the ultimate life goals. In this episode, I speak with Zeezee, who has never felt the longing to be a mother. She shares very candidly about how she came to the decision to be childfree, navigating pushback and societal pressure, having difficult conversations with potential partners, and more!

Whether you're firmly childfree, questioning your options, or simply curious about this life path, this episode is for you.

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Stepmothers generally have a bad connotation from negative stereotypes driven by fairytales and folklore around the world. In this episode, I speak with Tambari about her high and low experiences of stepmotherhood. She recently started the @GoodStepmother brand on Instagram to fight the negativity surrounding step-parenting and push more positive content and provide support to a community of stepmothers. Tambari shares her candid thoughts and opinions on issues relating to stepmotherhood, e.g. the rivalry between birth mothers and stepmothers, when a potential stepmother should be introduced to her future stepchildren, etc. 

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