If you asked a friend to go to dinner with you, and they texted back that they would pass… where would your mind go? I asked this question recently on my Instagram stories and got a ton of responses. Not shocking, the answers echoed a “what did I do wrong?” 

Prior to starting boundaries, my answer would have been the same, but guess what? The answer is almost always no, this has nothing to do with you. 

When practicing boundaries, we have the responsibility to give them the freedom to say no, and not make a big deal about it. Hear more from me on this topic on today’s Monday Fire episode!