Not everyone is going to have the same emphasis on certain boundary issues that you do. There is something that may trigger you like crazy but it doesn’t bother someone else. In my opinion, that is ok. Our goal is to be peaceful and healthy, and if your friend isn’t bothered then that is a peaceful place to be. Now let’s get YOU there.

I want you to feel the freedom of implementing boundaries but also feel freedom that when you have done the work, these things may not bother you anymore either. Eureka! This could be your future. And I so hope it is.