You know a lot of time we sugar coat our sin and judge it acquiring to the amount ( being big or small), Remember SIN is SIN no matter how big it is or how small it is. SIN is SIN. We may call it different names our change what it is all together, but it doesn't change what it is. So why don't we put on our big girl patties and call it what is it is SIN. Now, when we can really admit to what it is, we can present what it truly is to our father. and start the forgiveness process with him. If you don't know what to do just ask him and he is more than willing to help you. No more sugar-coating it, "Call it what it is".