Money Musings with Stephanie Xenos

In this episode of Money Musings, Ayla and I get into something we don't usually cover on a money podcast: men, energetics, and receiving. We laugh about all the ways we thwart the generous men in our lives, and realize that pattern shows up with money too. We share personal experiences with this, including my freezing up when a neighbor waived his fee for a home security inspection, to when a stranger carried Ayla’s bag through airport security for nothing in return.

We talk masculine and feminine polarity, the phases of relationship dynamics, and why building wealth also means building the capacity to actually receive it. If you've ever deflected a compliment or felt guilty spending on yourself, this one's for you.

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In this episode of Money Musings, I'm answering your questions about love and money — and you guys sent in some really good ones.

We get into navigating money with a partner when you have different risk tolerances, how to tell the difference between intuition and old fear patterns firing up, why your money stories are quietly shaping how much wealth you actually allow yourself to have, and how to be generous without depleting yourself.

On the dating side, we cover when to have the money talk, financial red flags to watch for, who should pay on dates, what to do when you out-earn your partner, and what a solid financial foundation looks like before you bring someone into your finances.

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In this episode of Money Musings, I'm sharing the story of the time the IRS audited me — and how I fought back and won.

It started with a big income drop when I retired at 32, which apparently gave the IRS the side eye. They came after my business expenses, said they never received my documentation (twice), and eventually kept my $10K tax refund. So I hired a lawyer, submitted everything one more time, and finally got a check in the mail — original amount plus interest.

The whole thing took three years and was honestly a game of attrition. I think that's the point — they're hoping you'll just give up. Don't.

Whether you're a business owner or just someone who's ever gotten a scary letter from the IRS, this one's for you. Know your rights, keep your receipts, and don't be afraid to fight back.

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What if you timed every financial decision to your cycle? In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly how I do it — looking at the big-picture in your menstrual phase, all things strategy and learning in your follicular phase, negotiations and investment moves during ovulation, and checking off financial to-dos (plus cutting what's not working) in your luteal phase.

It started with Fast Like a Girl by Dr. Mindy Pelz, and honestly it's changed how I run my business, manage my money, and make decisions. If you've ever felt like you're fighting yourself financially, it might just be a timing thing.

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In this episode of Money Musings, I'm responding to Elon Musk's quote: "don't worry about saving for retirement, it won't matter" and sharing why I actually think money is going to matter more than ever, in the next five years, as AI and robotics converge to reshape the economy and job market as we know it.

I walk through how I'm repositioning my own finances right now: prioritizing liquidity, shifting away from traditional retirement accounts, and investing in the human skills AI can't easily replicate. Because how you use your money in the next five years may matter more than any other period of your life.

I also get into why managing your nervous system through uncertainty is just as important as managing your portfolio - because big change is coming, and staying grounded is its own kind of wealth.

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In this episode of Money Musings, I share one of the biggest personal milestones of my financial journey — the call I got to make to my mom telling her she has enough money to retire.

I talk through how I grew her portfolio from $100K to nearly half a million, why I chose a more aggressive strategy on her behalf, and why I'm comfortable drawing down 6–7% before her Social Security kicks in at 70.

But beyond the numbers, this episode is really about healing. Growing up with financial scarcity and watching money equal power, being able to hand my mom that freedom now feels like everything coming full circle.

I also make the case for why the most overlooked financial conversation might be the one you're not having with your own parents.

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In this episode of Money Musings, I'm sharing a wild, real-time experience navigating my first IPO — and what it taught me about planning, psychology, and the power of investing in a Roth IRA. With a SpaceX IPO potentially on the horizon after 16 years of holding shares, I'm using every opportunity to stress test my strategy, and this week handed me exactly that through the Fundrise Innovation Fund going public. Watching $30,000 balloon to over a million dollars on paper in a matter of days is the kind of experience that either breaks your psychology or sharpens it — and I'm sharing exactly how I stayed cool, executed my plan, and walked away with around $400k in tax-free profit.

I also walk through how I coached a friend through her very first IPO experience, from assessing her risk tolerance to sizing her position responsibly. This episode is a reminder that IPOs are not for the faint of heart, but with the right foundation, the right accounts, and rock solid investing psychology, they can be life-changing. If you've ever been curious about how to approach high-volatility investing events without letting fear or excitement run the show, this one's for you.

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In this episode of Money Musings, I'm sitting down with my friend and co-conspirator Ayla Wayman to talk about something we haven't shared publicly yet: the Money Muse Retreat in Greece. This one feels different from anything I've done before, and honestly, it's been quietly brewing since the day I named this business. We're talking about why this moment in the world feels so pivotal, how my definition of wealth has completely shifted, and what it actually means to be a woman who is truly resourced, not just financially, but in every sense of the word.

I open up about coming out of the spiritual closet, the work I've been doing behind the scenes to integrate the tactical side of money with energetics, manifestation, and somatic practice, and why I believe the future of wealth is about so much more than your portfolio. We dig into the new archetype I'm building: feminine wealth that is embodied, generous, and in circulation. If you've ever done everything right with money and still felt like something was missing, this conversation is for you.

We also get into the magic of Kos, the Greek island where the retreat is being held, the ancient culture and slower pace that makes it the perfect container for this kind of deep work, and the vision I have for every woman who walks away from this experience. A few spots are still available, so if you feel called, come find us.

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In this episode of Money Musings, I'm getting into one of my favorite, least favorite topics: real estate. Everyone's been sold the idea that it's the ultimate passive income play, but if you talk to anyone who actually owns rental property, they'll tell you the truth. Real passive income means no ongoing decisions and no mental load, and most real estate simply doesn't qualify.

I break down how I think about real estate versus market investing, and why for most people who want freedom and flexibility, investments are the smarter, simpler starting point. Wealth should be creating more space in your life, not demanding more of your time. I also share the wild, serendipitous story of how my dream home literally manifested itself — and how years of investing made it possible to buy it.

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In this episode of Money Musings, I'm getting fired up about 401(k)s and why so many of them are quietly working against you. After helping one of my best friends set up her account, I was reminded of all the ways these plans are designed to benefit the provider, not you—from hidden fees that can cost you a third of your wealth over time to confusing interfaces that push you toward expensive underperforming funds. I break down exactly why you need to roll over old 401(k)s into your own IRA and how to make smarter choices with your current plan. If you've ever felt confused by your retirement account or wondered why your returns seem underwhelming, this episode will give you clarity and a clear action plan.

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