Money You Should Ask

Episode 235: Talking about money can be an uncomfortable subject for many, but it's an especially important one when it comes to discussing social justice. If you're seeing a therapist to work through issues relating to race, gender, and equality, odds are that financial considerations play some kind of factor.

Unfortunately, we often fail to have in-depth conversations both at home and in therapy with regards to our personal finances and its role in perpetuating disparities between sociocultural groups. However, by engaging with this topic more openly and honestly — especially if you're seeking help — we can begin challenging current power dynamics that aren't serving us well.

In this episode, Psychotherapist, Mental Health Expert, Author & Founder of Critical Therapy, Silvia M. Dutchevici, MA, LCSW and I discuss why therapists must not overlook the importance of addressing financial matters while working on social justice topics within their clients' sessions. Let's dive into why making finance part of your therapeutic journey is significant.

Learn more about Silvia's work and theory by reading her book: Critical Therapy: Power and Liberation in Psychotherapy.

Other epsiodes you'll enjoy:

Discrimination Within Financial Services. Chelsea Norton (https://go2.money/discrimination)

Seen Heard and Paid. Alan Henry (https://go2.money/seen-heard-paid)

Invest In Relationships. Fredric Steck (https://go2.money/relationships)

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Episode 243. Maybe It's time for a Cleanse! No – not like the kind that involves juice fasting and greens. A 'Money Clutter Cleanse' if you will. Yes, I made that up. So why is this so important when looking to improve your overall money mindset?

In this episode, Founder of the Becoming Infinite Method and manifesting mentor, Cooper Gillespie explains how small changes to our day to day thought patterns and habits can create transformative results in a big way. Cooper shares her simple 7 steps to Alchemize your money clutter to transform your financial stress to success.

So grab a cup of coffee (or tea!) and let's dive into ways of freeing ourselves from all that pesky financial clutter!

And to help you revive your money mindset, Cooper has generously given all our listeners free access to her Alchemize Your Money Blocks mini-course. Take inspired action and start "cleansing" your money clutter today.

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Taliking With Your Money. Dr Joe Burns (https://go2.money/talk)

Fight, Flight or Freeze. Dr. Amy Novotny (https://go2.money/freeze)

Don't Retitre... Graduate! Eric D. Brotman (https://go2.money/graduate)

Connect with MYSA: https://go2.money/Follow-Us

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Episode 233. Do you find yourself too often letting the opinions of others limit your beliefs in your own abilities? Are self-doubt, imposter syndrome and lack of confidence causing roadblocks on your path to success? Don't worry –it happens to the best of us. But with a few conscious adjustments, these feelings don't have to hold you back if you just learn how to believe in yourself and the possibilities around you.

In this episode, Wally Green, co-founder of original ping pong social club SPIN, grew up in an abusive home, surrounded by gangs and guns. Despite the turmoil in his life, he found solace in sports, which numbed him to the pain of his home life.

One day, while passing through the school lunchroom, Wally saw kids playing ping pong and ridiculed them. But when he stumbled upon a pool hall and saw people who looked like him playing the game, he decided to give it a try. He discovered his talent for the sport, and set out to prove himself, despite what his stepfather had told him.

With his passion, drive and never say die attitude, he has gone on to great success in the world of ping pong - and the belief that anything is possible.

Follow Wally Green on Tik Tok (@wallygreennycofficial) and Instagram (@wallygreennyc).

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

Be a Master of Destiny. Dr. John DeMartini. (https://go2.money/destiny)

It All begins With a Purpose. Alex Sanfilippo (https://go2.money/purpose)

It is Rocket Science. Renee Horton PhD. (https://go2.money/rocket-science)

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Episode 232: The mere mention of Crypto currency sends some people into a tailspin. What is it? How can you make money from it and most of all when is the best time to invest in it? And if you did get in at the right time, and made a substantial gain, what steps do you need to take to ensure it doesn't all go to Uncle Sam?

Micah Fraim CPA, of cryptotaxcpa.com dives into the world of crypto and reveals the risky reality of the blockchain and the irony of the massive potential losses and the tax liabilities that investors are unaware of.

In this episode you will learn:

• The number 1 myth around taxable income in the crypto space.
• What investors can do to avoid costly tax liabilities when investing in crypto.
• The legal implications of trading crypto.

Resources:

Grab Micah's free guide "7 Crypto Tax Mistakes Most Accountants Miss That Will Eat Up Your Profits"

Other episodes you'll enjoy:

To NFT or Not to NFT. Melissa DaSilva - https://go2.money/NFT

NFA with Money. Dr. Amanda Barrientez - https://go2.money/NFA

Unconsciously Comfortable in Debt. Simone Milasas - https://go2.money/Comfortable-In-Debt

Connect with MYSA: https://go2.money/Follow-Us

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Episode 231: Whether you consider yourself to be a saver or a spender, understanding your money habits is an essential life skill. It's not simply about understanding how much money you need to save and how much you can afford to spend, but also about understanding the emotional drivers behind these decisions as well. Are you aware of your financial behavior when it comes to saving or spending money? And what factors influences or drive you to do either?

So, In late January 2023, I scoured the halls of Podfest Expo and asked some of the attendees the hard hitting question, Are you a saver or a spender? And during these conversations we also explore;

• How guilt can influence the financial choices we make.
• How people from different cultures have different views and approaches to money.
• Strategies people use to manage their finances and avoid debt.
• How families navigate conversations around money.

My team and I would like to extend our sincerest gratitude to all the wonderful guests who appeared on our show. We truly appreciate the valuable perspectives they discussed and their willingness to openly share their unique insights and experiences. Click below to learn more about our guests.

Special Guests:

Lori Adams-Brown (podcast: A World of Difference, @aworldof.difference)

Jim Burgoon (@leadwithjim)

Hana Baba (podcast: The Stoop, @thestoop)

Jake Dahn (podcast: Talking Tractors, @jacob.dahn

Trevor Furness (podcast: The March of History, @themarchofhistory)

And the Podfest Expo volunteers:

Divyashree Nanjappa (@n__divyashree)

Sathvik Nagesh (@hacking_genius)

Kone Mamadou (@kmamadou235)

and a big thank you to the team at Podfest Expo (@podfestexpo)

Episode 230: Painful experiences can have a lasting impact in our lives; sometimes paralyzing us from being able to move forward. It's through these times of hardship that we are forced to draw on inner strength, shift perspectives and lean into hope for the future.

But how do you take an experience designed to cause suffering and use it as inspiration for something greater? By listening deeply and intentionally to the path before us, taking time to understand all components - our motivation, triggers, feelings and thoughts - we can discover how to transform pain into purpose.

Founder of The Imiloa Institute, former late night show host, author, and podcaster, Jake Sasseville knows a thing or two about life's ups and downs. After being hit with some major challenges, he was able to make an incredible transformation - from residing in his grandma's basement after Hurricane Sandy to becoming Oprah's neighbor on Maui! With this inspiring journey as the backdrop, Jake joins us for a conversation around grief, facing fears and how it can be used as a powerful tool to transform the path of your life.

Take advantage of the exclusive $400 discount offered by Imiloa Institute and join their retreats for a life-changing experience! With breathtaking moments in nature, gourmet cuisine, life-changing workshops and eco-luxurious design, Imiloa has provided over 3,000 guests with an unforgettable transformation. Unlock your potential with a retreat at Imiloa and use the code JAKE at checkout and take advantage of the incredible discount to make it even more affordable.

Learn more: https://go2.money/purpose

Money is one of the most common topics couples argue about. Money represents security, happiness, and control. Being financially intimate means being able to share your thoughts and feelings about money openly and honestly with your partner. But when one person is dependent on the other, or you don't share common goals, or don't feel comfortable talking about money, the dynamic changes and it affects every aspect of the relationship. By uncovering your attachment style you can understand why you think and act the way you do in relationships.

In this episode, Certified Financial Therapist, Financial Planner, and founder of Healthy Love and Money, Ed Coambs discusses the importance of understanding your attachment style in a relationship. We take a look at what attachment styles are, why they matter in relationships, and how you can identify yours to become more self-aware and build a healthier long-term partnership.

To cultivate more financial intimacy and joy in your relationship and your finances, visit healthyloveandmoney.com and identify your attachment style.

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To learn more about your money story visit: https://go2.money/quiz

Episode 228: If a situation presents itself and you could commit fraud and not suffer any consequences, would you do it? When someone thinks about committing fraud, they're likely thinking about the financial benefits that can come from it. What goes through a person's mind in the moments leading up to and during a fraudulent act? Is it about the money or is it more?

Our next guest, former licensed mortgage broker and now true crime author Matthew Cox was declared as "one of the most prolific mortgage fraud con artists of all time," by CNBC's American Greed. In this episode, Matt and I discuss his mindset around money before, during, and after his time in prison. He sheds some light on how perpetrators rationalize their behavior and what motivated him to commit fraud.

Matt's criminal case received national media attention after he used forgeries, combined with stolen and synthetic identities to swindle America's biggest banks out of an estimated $55 million. Despite numerous encounters with bank security, state and federal authorities, Cox narrowly, and quite luckily, avoided capture for nearly a decade. Eventually he topped the Secret Service's most wanted list, and led the U.S. Marshals, FBI, and the Secret Service on a three-year chase, while jet-setting around the world.

Matt is a published author of several popular true crime books, including: Shark in the Housing Pool, Once a Gun Runner, Generation Oxy, Bent, and It's Insanity. Check out Matt Cox's Inside True Crime channel on You Tube where he highlights unique, clever, and bizarre true crime stories.

Learn more about this episode at https://go2.money/fraud

Episode 227: Are you one of the 3 million Americans who live solely or partially on a tip-based income? Unfortunately, service industry employees are left out of the most common paths to wealth building. The majority of financial advice and products are geared and marketed toward traditional paycheck earning, 9-5, corporate employees. So how can a tipped service industry employee build real wealth and develop a healthy relationship with money?

In this episode, Author and Money Coach Barbara Sloan shares some valuable insights regarding the financial challenges that tipped employees face when it comes to building wealth. She shares some easy and actionable steps that any service employee can use to transform their finances and their financial future.

Do you want to get great with money, or even just feel like you have your money shit together? Barbara has your back with her latest book: Tipped: The life-changing guide to financial freedom for waitresses, bartenders, strippers, and all other service industry professionals. Grab a copy of "Tipped" today and start your journey toward financial freedom.

Lear more about this episode at: https://go2.money/tipped

Episode 226. What happens when you worst fear becomes a reality? Even after telling yourself so many times that it will never happen to you. When an unexpected life event takes you from hero to zero, it can be hard to see any hope of bouncing back. For those of us who have hit rock bottom, it's a feeling that we know far too intimately. But what happens when you pick yourself up and choose to make something great out of the ashes? And even better—what if you could use that experience as fuel for a more fulfilling life?

That's exactly what happened to our guest, author and podcaster Brent Cassity. His life came to a sudden halt after an unexpected oversight in his business landed him at the Gates of Leavenworth Prison, ready to face a five-year sentence head on. This life experience offered him the chance to reevaluate his purpose and find hope in difficult circumstances. He's taken these learnings of reflection with him on his journey out of prison - knowing that outside the prison walls, we are often imprisoned by our own thoughts.

In this episode, Brent unlocks the power of five life-changing tools he used to help him find resilience and inner strength to move forward during this difficult time. Brent hopes with these key tips at your disposal, you can discover how to make progress towards emotional freedom and fulfill your true potential!

In his Book, Nightmare Success: Loyalty, Betrayal, Life Behind Bars, Adapting, and Finally Breaking Free, Brent shares survival tools that helped him adapt to prison that can be used in everyday life for those who are stuck and fearful of continuing to step forward.

You can also check out Brent's podcast, Nightmare Success In and Out, where he explores the stories of inmates who were in and now out of prison. What was life like before they went in, life inside prison, and life now that they are back home. These conversations are deep, sad, often funny, but always interesting.

For more info on this episode visit: https://go2.money/nightmare