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  • Confidence for Introverts: Lessons from Antoinette Griffin

    In this inspiring episode of More Than Before, Nathan Cook sits down with leadership coach, speaker, and trainer Antoinette Griffin—a “formerly shy, forever introverted” professional—who has transformed her natural wiring into a leadership superpower.

    From eating lunch alone in a high school bathroom to speaking on stages, teaching at the University of Texas, and building a thriving YouTube channel for introverts, Antoinette’s journey is proof that confidence can be cultivated—without changing who you are.

    You’ll discover:

    ✅ How to turn introversion into your advantage in leadership & communication

    ✅ The small, repeatable steps that help you overcome fear and shyness

    ✅ Lessons from building a 17-year business with your spouse

    ✅ How journaling, faith, and self-awareness create lasting growth

    ✅ Why introverts can excel as leaders and entrepreneurs—on their own terms

    📌 Don’t just listen—take action!

    • Subscribe to More Than Before so you never miss a story that could change your perspective

    • Share this episode with a friend, coworker, or loved one who’s introverted but full of untapped potential

    • Connect with Antoinette and subscribe to her YouTube channel for weekly insights: ⁠Antoinette’s YouTube Channel

    57 min
  • Lift or Level: The Daily Choice That Shapes Your Life

    Are you a lifter or a leveler?Your words have the power to build or break — both yourself and everyone you interact with. In this solo episode of More Than Before, Nathan Cook reveals how to identify which one you are, shift your mindset, and choose words that create growth, connection, and purpose.You’ll discover:✅ How your self-talk shapes your identity and limits your potential✅ The difference between constructive and destructive feedback✅ Why gossip silently erodes your relationships✅ The biblical truth about the power of your tongue (James 3)✅ How to speak life so you can lift yourself and othersIf you’ve ever battled negative self-talk, struggled to communicate without criticism, or want to lead with encouragement, this episode will challenge you to speak with intentionality and watch your relationships and mindset transform.⏱ Chapters & Timestamps00:00 – Lifters vs. Levelers | Understanding the impact of your words03:00 – Lifting or Leveling Yourself | How self-talk shapes your future05:43 – Lifting or Leveling Relationships | The ripple effect of your words08:20 – Speaking Life or Destruction | The biblical truth about the tongue11:01 – Final Challenge | Choosing intentional, life-giving communication💬 Comment below: Are you a lifter or a leveler?👍 Like this video if it challenged you to speak life.🔔 Subscribe for weekly personal growth tools, faith-based leadership insights, and motivational content.📲 Share this with someone who needs a reminder to lift, not level.#SelfTalk #PowerOfWords #ChristianPodcast #MindsetShift #Encouragement #MoreThanBeforePodcast #PersonalGrowth #James3


    12 min
  • Wild Man at Heart | Aaron Smith on Suffering, Breathwork & Redemption

    Aaron Smith’s life reads like an action movie—Marine, deep sea welder, free diver, spearfishing guide, and psychedelic healing facilitator. But behind the rugged resume is a man in relentless pursuit of peace over purpose. In this in-depth studio conversation, we explore Aaron’s journey through darkness (literal and spiritual), mastering the mind through water and breath, his experience with shallow water blackouts, and what it means to truly love others and yourself.

    Whether you’re navigating your own identity, wrestling with pain, or seeking a deeper relationship with God—this episode is for you.

    We cover:

    • Life in the Marines & combat stories

    • Discovering free diving & near-death underwater experiences

    • Sensory deprivation and a 5-day dark retreat

    • Psychedelic healing vs. spiritual renewal

    • Real talk about trauma, faith, and finding peace

    • How to love people without trying to fix them

    🎯 Final takeaway: “You are one decision away from a new life.”
    This episode is a call to action: Don’t stay stuck. Let go. Choose growth.

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    #MoreThanBeforePodcast #AaronSmith #WildMan #Transformation #MentalHealth #FaithAndHealing

    1 hr 14 min
  • This Is Why Life Feels Messy

    Ever feel like life is spinning out of control?
    Between work, marriage, parenting, and all the unknowns—you’re not alone. In this vulnerable solo episode, Nathan Cook shares what’s really been going on behind the scenes and the biblical insight that’s been grounding him through it all.

    Drawing from Proverbs 14:4 —

    “Where there are no oxen, the manger is clean, but abundant crops come by the strength of the ox.” (NIV)

    — Nathan reminds us that mess doesn’t mean failure.
    In fact, the mess may be proof that something meaningful is being produced in your life.

    You’ll hear:

    • A raw look into real-life overwhelm

    • Why the “mess” may actually be a sign of progress

    • How God uses frustration to build strength and perseverance

    • A simple but powerful way to hear His voice again

    If you're in a season of chaos, pressure, or parenting fatigue—this message is your permission to breathe, refocus, and keep moving forward.

    00:00 – Intro: Coming in hot
    01:17 – Overwhelmed by real life
    02:16 – The oxen and the mess: Proverbs 14:4
    03:13 – What life’s chaos might be producing
    03:54 – The “patience prayer” backfire
    04:36 – Embracing the mess as evidence of growth
    05:31 – Hearing God again—start here
    05:52 – Final encouragement & challenge

    👉 Did this episode resonate with you?
    Be sure to subscribe to More Than Before and leave a quick review on your favorite platform. It helps more people find hope and grow in purpose—right where they are.

    💬 Let’s talk:
    What’s one “messy” part of your life that’s actually producing growth?
    Drop a comment below or send a DM on Instagram: @morethanbeforepodcast

    7 min
  • Habits That Change Everything

    “Complacency looks like busyness, feels like comfort, and sounds like excuses.”
    Chris Robinson, EVP at Maxwell Leadership Entrepreneurial Solutions and author of From Drift to Drive, joins Nathan for a deeply personal and practical conversation about how to stop drifting and start driving—with clarity, action, and intention.

    Chris shares his raw journey from chasing a baseball dream, to six college expulsions, to selling perfume on the streets—ultimately rising to become a leader, husband, and father who lives out excellence every day.

    This episode is a must-listen for anyone feeling stuck, distracted by perfectionism, or unsure of what comes next. You’ll walk away with real tools to regain focus, overcome complacency, and become more than before.

    🌟 BONUS for Book Buyers
    If you’ve purchased From Drift to Drive, don’t miss your exclusive bonus resources:
    👉 https://drifttodrivebook.com


    ⏱️ Timestamps & Chapter Titles:

    00:10 – Intro: Mastering Everything from Pickleball to Sales
    01:29 – Childhood Dreams & Deion Sanders Influence
    02:23 – Six College Expulsions and the Sales Gift
    03:34 – First Sales Lesson: The $10 Yard Cutting Job
    06:34 – Work Ethic, Creativity & Lessons from Parents
    09:02 – Perfume Sales, Napoleon Hill & the Personal Growth Spark
    12:27 – The DUI Wake-Up Call & Handcuffs on the Curb
    17:19 – Balancing Family and Business: Build Around What Matters
    21:00 – Teaching Wisdom Over Giving Things to Your Kids
    23:03 – Which Kids Have the Entrepreneur Bug?
    24:43 – Kids Are Your Responsibility—Not Your Motivation
    25:12 – From Solopreneur to Serving Under John Maxwell
    27:35 – "I'll Never Write a Book" to Publishing From Drift to Drive
    31:03 – Action Answers Questions: Learn a Little, Do a Little
    33:58 – Careless Security: The Root of Complacency
    36:17 – Perfectionism vs. Excellence: The Big Trap
    39:06 – Real-Life Drift: Finances, Marriage & Focus
    42:38 – Letting Go of Image: Imposter Syndrome & Responsibility
    45:08 – From Star to Star Creator: The Shift that Changed Everything
    49:46 – Living Significantly with Limited Resources
    52:27 – Faith, Sobriety & Divine Intervention
    55:04 – Media, Consumption & Focused Growth
    56:49 – Chris’s God-Sized Vision: NYT Bestseller & Becoming More

    59 min
  • Why You Still Don’t Have What You Want (And How to Fix That)

    📌 Show Notes – Episode Summary

    Do you feel stuck chasing goals that never materialize?
    This solo episode of More Than Before with Nathan Cook is your wake-up call—and your roadmap.

    Nathan gets honest about the real reasons we don't get what we want—and it’s not for lack of trying. From unknowingly chasing someone else’s dream to overcrowding our lives with distractions, we often block the very outcomes we crave.

    But there's good news: You can start seeing real change.

    👉 In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • The #1 question you must answer before anything can change

    • Why “more priorities” actually means less progress

    • How clutter (in life or living room) could be blocking your breakthrough

    • Why being useful to others is your unfair advantage

    • The power of doing what others are unwilling to do

    • How to invite God into your grind for exponential results

    • And why reflecting + implementing is the true secret to growth

    💡 Quote of the episode:
    “If you want something new in your life, you’ve got to do something—and that starts with thinking differently.”

    If this episode inspired you, help Nathan get what he wants: more people discovering this message.
    Share the episode, leave a review, and hit subscribe so you don’t miss what’s next.

    ➡️ Be more. See more. Experience more. It starts today.


    18 min
  • Life in Your Hands: The Power of Personal Accountability

    Why do some people grow faster than others? The secret might be ownership. In this episode, Nathan dives deep into four powerful strategies to help you take back control of your life and live with purpose:

    ✅ Execute without excuses
    🔁 Be radically consistent
    ⚡ Make decisions with confidence
    🏡 Shift from renting → owning → stewarding your life

    You’ll discover how responsibility fuels transformation and why stewardship isn’t just about taking control — it’s about honoring what’s been entrusted to you.

    💡 “Are you renting your life?”
    💬 “Be decisive with the small things.”
    🔥 “You need to stop renting your life.”

    🎯 Takeaways:

    • Excuses kill progress; execution creates momentum

    • Consistency compounds results

    • Indecision limits impact

    • Stewardship unlocks purpose and peace

    🔖 Chapters:
    00:00 Intro to Personal Growth
    01:02 Why Ownership Matters
    02:34 Excuses vs Execution
    04:39 Compounding Through Consistency
    08:18 The Power of Decisiveness
    09:41 Rent → Own → Steward Your Life

    🔁 Share this with someone who’s ready to level up their life and take ownership of their growth.

    #MoreThanBefore #NathanCook #PersonalGrowth #Leadership #Stewardship #SelfDevelopment #ExecutionMatters #ConsistencyIsKey #DecisiveLiving #ChristianLeadership #GrowthMindset #StopRentingYourLife #PodcastEpisode #TransformationJourney #OwnYourLife


    18 min
  • The Power of Saying Yes

    In this episode of More Than Before, Nathan Cook discusses the importance of recognizing and embracing opportunities in our lives. He reflects on personal growth and the challenges of saying yes to new experiences, especially as a parent. Nathan shares valuable insights on evaluating opportunities based on personal values, priorities, and the potential to add value to oneself and others. He encourages listeners to create space for meaningful opportunities and to be mindful of what they are saying yes or no to in their lives.


    Keywords:

    #personal growth #opportunities #values# leadership #parenting# self-reflection #decisionmaking #lifelessons #mentorship #community



    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to Season Two

    03:07 Embracing Personal Growth

    06:03 Recognizing Opportunities

    08:51 Evaluating Opportunities

    12:08 Creating Space for What Matters

    14:50 Conclusion and Call to Action


    Takeaways

    • Recognizing opportunities often requires a shift in mindset.
    • Saying no too often can lead to missed opportunities.
    • Evaluate opportunities based on priority buckets.
    • Aligning opportunities with personal values is crucial.
    • Consider how opportunities contribute to long-term goals.
    • Adding value to others is as important as self-value.
    • Creating margin in life allows for new opportunities.
    • Reflecting on what to cut out can create space for growth.
    • Opportunities are everywhere; awareness is key.


    16 min
  • Am I More Than Before? Season Finale With Gunnar Simonsen

    In this season finale, Nathan Cook welcomes back Gunnar, reflecting on personal growth, transformation, and the meaningful work they are doing in the nonprofit sector. They discuss the importance of storytelling, resilience, and shifting narratives from victimhood to purpose. Gunnar shares his journey through health challenges and how faith has played a role in his perspective. The conversation emphasizes the power of connection and presence in making a difference in people's lives. In this conversation, Nathan Cook explores the themes of new life, personal transformation, and the journey of faith. He discusses the importance of letting go of past burdens, finding peace in change, and trusting in God's plan. Nathan emphasizes the significance of hopefulness and gratitude in personal growth, as well as the role of meditation and self-awareness in navigating life's challenges. The conversation highlights the ongoing journey of becoming more than before, both personally and spiritually.

    Takeaways

    • The journey of transformation is ongoing and requires self-reflection.
    • Meaningful work is essential for personal fulfillment.
    • Stories have the power to heal and inspire others.
    • Shifting from a victim mindset to one of purpose is crucial.
    • Health challenges can lead to deeper faith and understanding.
    • Purpose often extends beyond personal gain to impact others.
    • Connection with others can create profound moments of change.
    • Meditation on meaningful concepts can reshape our thinking.
    • We all play a role in the stories of those around us.
    • Being present for others can have a lasting impact.
    • New life is about perspective and hope.
    • Meditation helps fill the mind with positive truths.
    • Forgiveness allows us to let go of past burdens.
    • We can find freedom in our identity in Christ.
    • Personal transformation requires self-acceptance.
    • It's important to navigate the tension between past and present selves.
    • Trusting God means letting go of control.
    • Hopefulness is rooted in gratitude and self-awareness.
    • Emotional health is a journey of understanding and acceptance.
    • We are called to be gentle, humble, and kind.
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      Chapters

      00:00 Season Finale: Reflecting on Growth
      02:49 The Journey of Transformation
      05:31 Impactful Work in Nonprofits
      10:57 Stories of Resilience and Healing
      15:46 Shifting Narratives: From Victimhood to Purpose
      19:39 Facing Health Challenges with Faith
      25:20 Understanding Purpose Beyond Self
      32:23 The Power of Connection and Presence
      34:42 The Concept of New Life
      40:22 Navigating Personal Transformation
      45:36 Finding Peace in Change
      51:53 Trusting God's Plan
      57:06 Hopefulness and Growth

      1 hr 9 min
    • Serving with Humility and Excellence - With Tim Miller

      In this conversation, Nathan Cook interviews Tim Miller, exploring his journey from a humble upbringing to becoming the director of production at Athey Creek Church. Tim shares insights about family dynamics, the influence of music in his life, and the challenges of high school. He reflects on the importance of forgiveness in both personal and professional settings, emphasizing the need for open communication and understanding in parenting and teamwork. In this conversation, Nathan Cook discusses the importance of perspective in facing challenges, the dynamics of working with volunteers, and the significance of creating a culture of excellence within a church production environment. He emphasizes the need for trust, training, and mentorship, while also reflecting on the legacy he wishes to leave for his children. The conversation highlights the balance between serving with humility and striving for excellence in all endeavors.

      Chapters

      00:00 Introduction to Tim Miller's Journey
      05:44 Family Dynamics and Early Influences
      09:49 The Role of Music in Personal Development
      16:13 High School Experiences and Identity Formation
      21:53 Parenting Lessons from Personal Experience
      29:08 The Importance of Forgiveness in Life and Work
      33:54 Perspective on Challenges
      34:47 Building Trust with Volunteers
      36:11 Creating a Culture of Excellence
      39:23 Training and Equipping Volunteers
      43:38 The Role of Family and Mentorship
      50:06 Legacy and Values for Future Generations
      55:41 Serving with Excellence and Humility

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      https://atheycreek.com/

      1 hr 8 min

    About More Than Before

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    MORE THAN BEFORE, hosted by Nathan Cook, shares stories of leaders, creators, and everyday people who live from identity, not just achievement. Each episode dives into faith, leadership, purpose, and personal growth—revealing how challenges refine rather than define us. Be inspired to live with greater intention, excellence, and authenticity.