These 4 principles in business will simplify growth, cut the busywork, and turn effort into outcomes.

Stop overcomplicating. Start focusing on what actually scales.

Jordi Sanders is a South African Elite Personal Trainer & Wellness Specialist who has dedicated his life to unlocking peak performance—mentally and physically.

As the founder of Shred Movement, he’s transformed the way athletes, entrepreneurs, and everyday individuals approach discipline, resilience, and growth.

His philosophy? All in or nothing.In this raw conversation, Elton Lau and Jordi Sanders explore what it truly takes to commit fully—whether in training, business, or personal growth.

Most people look for an escape when things get tough. But high performers like Jordi set standards, stay disciplined, and push through discomfort. Because every rep, every challenge, brings them one step closer to their goals.

This episode will challenge you to rethink the way you approach resistance, commitment, and discipline.

Are you truly all in? Or are you giving yourself an easy way out?

In This Episode:

✅ Why most people seek an escape instead of embracing the grind

✅ How to set non-negotiable standards for success

✅ The power of knowing your why—and how it fuels discipline

✅ Mental toughness: pushing through pain when others quit

✅ Why clarity of outcome is the ultimate motivator

✅ The difference between interest vs. commitment

✅ How to build habits that remove decision fatigue

✅ The hard truth about effort: there’s no easy way

In this eye-opening conversation, Elton Lau and his son, Sabian Lau, dive deep into life, growth, and making decisions that actually move you forward.

At just 22, Sabian shares insights that make even experienced minds rethink what they thought they knew. This episode challenges the idea that wisdom is reserved for those who have lived longer—sometimes, a fresh perspective can offer clarity we never expected.

In This Episode:

✅ Does wisdom come from experience, or is it about perspective?

✅ The truth about fun vs. real happiness

✅ Filling your own cup before giving to others

✅ Why social pressure shapes your decisions more than you realize

✅ Making choices today that shape your future

✅ Sacrifice vs. benefit thinking—understanding the trade-offs of every decision

✅ Why self-awareness is the foundation of growth

✅ The hard truth about excuses and accountability

✅ How small, daily choices compound over time

✅ Why learning from others’ experiences can shortcut your growth💬

What’s one lesson from this conversation that made you think differently?

Drop your thoughts in the comments

!Timestamps:0:00 - Introduction & Life as a Series of Choices

0:33 - The Power of Knowing Who You Are

1:04 - Choices & Attitude: The Blueprint of Life

2:20 - Taking Responsibility for Your Decisions

3:32 - Learning from Hardships & Life Lessons

4:12 - The Pressure of Teaching Your Own Son

5:29 - Sabian’s First Experience with the Course

6:34 - How the Course Changed Over Time

7:54 - The Importance of Filling Your Own Cup

8:48 - What It Means to Truly Recharge

9:30 - The Difference Between Happiness & Fun

10:09 - A Heartfelt Father-Son Conversation

11:18 - Communication: The Missing Key in Relationships

12:20 - Social Media & Short Attention Spans

13:14 - The Purpose Behind Building a Personal Brand

14:29 - Overcoming Insecurities & Putting Yourself Out There

15:33 - Why Documenting Your Journey Matters

16:14 - Teaching as a Tool for Learning

17:01 - The Most Effective Mindset Shift

18:03 - The Concept of ‘Heart Wealth

’19:01 - Why Some People Stay Stuck in Life

20:54 - Understanding Direction & Moving Forward

22:28 - The Five Stages of Change

24:21 - How Many Times Should You Try Again?

25:53 - Feeling Lost is Part of the Process

26:30 - The Freedom of Choosing Your Own Path

28:06 - Building a Strong Network & Finding Mentors

29:53 - The Power of Learning from Different People

30:55 - Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone

32:33 - Learning Through Conversations with Strangers

34:04 - The Importance of Family & Connection

36:01 - Practicing the Circle of Control

37:14 - Focusing on What You Can Control

39:21 - The Power of Writing Things Down

41:43 - Problems vs. Issues: The Mindset Shift

43:36 - Appreciating Time with Parents & Family

45:05 - Prioritizing Family Over Social Validation

47:55 - Honest Conversations That Strengthen Bonds

50:05 - The Progression of the Most Effective Course

52:00 - Brain Profiling & How It Shapes Decision-Making

54:22 - Understanding Emotional & Logical Thinking

56:59 - Core Values, Beliefs, & Alignment

58:30 - Closing Thoughts & Final Reflections

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Welcome to the first episode of The Most Effective Podcast, where entrepreneurs Elton Lau and Ciaran Wheeler share real, behind-the-scenes insights into building and scaling a business.

Discover how personal growth is the key to a better life. In a world full of distractions—social media, TV, and constant noise, this episode inspires you to reclaim your power, focus on self-improvement, and take control of your future.

Uncover the truth about motivation and dedication in this empowering podcast. Learn why dedication, not just motivation, is the key to making things happen and achieving lasting success.

Perfect for anyone ready to take control of their goals and transform their mindset.

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