In this episode, I explore how performance-based sex education trained women to place their attention outside of their bodies and why that’s where disorientation begins. Because....the distraction is real! 😮‍💨

We were taught how sex should look and how to do it “right,” but not how to stay connected to what we’re feeling while it’s happening.

I talk about what traditional sex education left out, how this disconnect impacts pleasure and intimacy, and why so many women feel something is missing even when everything appears fine.

This episode invites you to question the framework you were given and to consider a new way of orienting toward pleasure that begins inside your body. And....inside my new series coming this month! 😆

If you’d like a quiet place to begin exploring pleasure education, I created a free starting point here:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/free-offer

If you’ve been listening and feeling something shift, this page exists to support that:

https://pensight.com/x/desiredifferent/start-here

Keywords: sex education, new year new me, 2026, women’s pleasure, performance-based sex, embodiment, intimacy, body awareness, somatic connection, nervous system, healing, low libido, libido